I love helping other people with their problems, which is why I decided to start an advice column of my own! So if you ever need advice on almost anything, you can ask me! ^_^
Gender: Male
Location: Florida
Age: 15
Member Since: December 25, 2003
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Last Update: December 21, 2004
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My friend(not best friend) is moving! What do I do!? She's moving to Florida and she doesn't want to go. her mom is getting remarried. What do i do?
I don't want her to go and she doesnt want to go. (link)
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Florida is great! (I live here).. lol.. well.. there's nothing much she CAN do unless she's 18. If her mom wants to move then there's nothing she can do except try to convince her mom not to. But until (or unless) she's 18 she can't do much since she cannot live on her own.
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i really like a boy but i not sure how he feels about me . how can i find out???? (link)
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Ever thought of asking him? :)
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I HAVE A RABBIT BUT I HATE RABBITS. I LOVE DOGS, THOUGH. MY GRANDMA (WHOM I LIVE WITH) SAID I COULD HAVE A DOG IF I TOOK CARE OF A RABBIT FIRST. I DON'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT BUT I KNOW I HAVE TO. WHAT DO I DO? I DON'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT BUT I REALLY WANT A DOG. (link)
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Take care of it, since that's the only way to get a dog.
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whats an orgie? (link)
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Correct Spelling: orgy
It's a group of people having sex at the same time.
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Hi, My name is Bethany... Betsy for short. Im stuck here with my friend. She really needs help and I dont know how to ask her question! I'm so stumped! she likes 2 guys at ones. There names are Patrick and Jace. At first she was going out with Patrick. and Then She finds out that Jace likes her, so she dumps Patrick without thinking. and now shes stuck liking 2 different guys. and she doesn't know what to say to patrick because well... Patrick wants to know why she chose Jace over him, and she doesn't know how to answer that cuz she doesn't know! so I'd apreshiate if you can give me a little advise to give to her, because she really needs my help, but if I can't help her, I'd feel like a bad friend. (link)
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Well my advice would be to have her tell Patrick the truth. Have her tell him why she really did choose Jace, because that would be the only way to solve things. If she lies to him, it will just make the problem worse and if he finds out she lied then she'll be in even more trouble. This is what happens when you don't think, you get in a lot of trouble. So just tell her that she needs to tell Patrick the truth because there really is no other way to solve it. :)
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ok my girlfriends parents are neo nazi's. she a few bad grades and now shes grounded for over a month... this sux it means i cant do anything for her at all no two month annervirsy no dates no flowers nothig i cant even call her she has to call me...is this complete bullsht... we are trying so hard to stay together and it seems like one thin after another gets in our way we spend more time defending our relationship than atcually having one...her parents are cool but only to my face once i leave they say horriable things to my girlfriend...what can i do ive decided to start writing letters to her by snail mail since i cant see her or talk to her online but other than that i dont know what to do...i could use some help on this if anyone has any bright ideas please pass them my way thank you very much. (link)
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OOH! OOH!! OOH!! You sound just like one of my friends.. and have the same problem too ^_^.. *gasp* maybe you ARE him.. *cough*.. ok anyway lol..
Maybe you could possibly try talking to her parents about it, see if they can lighten up a bit. Tell them how much you love her and that you wouldn't want anything getting in the way of that and if they could please just let you talk to her on the phone at least, or online like maybe every other day or every 3 days or so on. If they still don't approve, have a messanger! Give someone that goes to the same school as her a note and have them give her the note for her.
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All my best friend talks about is her computer! Me & my other friends will talk about what we did over the weekend, and "Ellie" will just talk about gigabites, megabites, and that sort of stuff. We don't understand that sorta stuff at all! How can we get her to talk about normal people stuff, like guys, parties, or even her pets?! (link)
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Tell her that you really have no interest in what she's talking about and if she can just keep that to herself or for someone who will show interest. Don't put up with it if you don't want to, so just tell her.
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how do u know youself if your a good or bad kisser?help please (link)
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Put a cherry stem in your mouth and see if you can tie it in a knot (using only your tongue and teeth!) or put a (wrapped) starburst in your mouth and see if you can unwrap it only with your tongue and teeth. This test proves if you're a good kisser or not ;)
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okay here is the problem.
my friend entered in a beauty pageant and she is in the finals and she had them send ME info so i could enter. but my mother won't let me. my mom is 53 years old and im REALLY bummed out that she won't let me. i feel that im very pretty and that i could even beat my friend if i wanted to (not that i want to beat my friend) is my mom afraid that im not pretty enough to be miss teen of the nations? or does she think i will get a big head? im not going to get a bug head because thats not me. my mom use to do all this stuff when she was younger. is it that she WAY old or am i not good enough for her?
anyways im on this site to GIVE advice no ask but i really wanted some advice.
always
~kat~bare~ (link)
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It is possible that your mother thinks you might lose and she doesn't want you getting hurt. You should talk to your mother, ask her why she doesn't want you to go and to give you a reasonable excuse on why she won't let you. If she won't give a reason, demand one!
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Okay, I have a boyfriend who goes to my church (on wednesday nights) but i never see him because he never goes anymore and he doesn't go to my school. i want to dump him because i have this other boyfriend who i want to dump because he never sees me or calls me and i don't have his number and he doesn't go to my school. Okay, I want to dump both of them because I like this other boy who DOES go to my school and i know he likes me. If i ask him out though then ill have 3 boyfriends. i consider myself as if i don't have a boyfriend but i know i have to and soon will have 3. What to do? (link)
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Isn't that cheating?.. Well, dump the two you don't want, why go out with them if you don't care for the relationship? Go for the guy you actually do like, that will make this easier. If you don't talk to the other ones that much or see them often, then why bother?
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I am a senior in highschool and once i graduate i would like to go into fashion designing or interior designing. I have "shadowed" an interior designer before and have helped people in their rooms with designs. I am also curretly designing my prom dress and would hopefully some day like to design my wedding dress. Just one concern.... What if i am totally out of my league and really have no clue with what i am doing. What if i go to college and major in this and then find out that it isnt for me? I guess its just a concern i have been having for awhile now, someone please give me advice. KT
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You will never know unless you go for it. So.. go for it! Follow your dreams, life is short, don't waste it by wondering "what if?" all the time.
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my boyfriend and i had sex 3 days after i got off my period, he bust in me. i don't start until the 15th but do you think there's a chance i could be pregnant if he bust right after i got off my period? (link)
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It IS possible, so maybe you should go check with a doctor just to be sure.
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ok so i have this site right and it shows how to do telekinesis and stuf like psi balls which i can do but with telekinesis i cant shut my subconsious up in or der to consintrate help!!!!!
~Phsycic gurl~ (link)
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You might not be focusing right. Before you can perform anything of the sort you need to learn to concentrate, meditate for a while. Learn to relax, it might be frustrating, but there is no other way to perform such a task without learning to focus and clear your mind. If you are going to just attempt TK right away then you might as well just give up now.
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omg!!! what do i do if i have fallen in love with two boys at the same time???? this is true love i swear and i need major help (link)
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Think about which of the two you could picture yourself in the future with. Which one do you have more in common more? Just think for a moment and decide.
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i am so confused. i have never met my father or any of his family. My mom has told me the story of how they met and has given me a picture, but that just isnt enough. i want to go to sacremento to find my family from his side. should i travel across the country alone? who should i tell? i dont know what to do. where do i belong? (link)
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Well first of all, how old are you? I wouldn't travel cross-country alone, looking for someone who isn't expecting me. Contact him first and make plans to meet, because you might get lost.
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is it a bad thing to fall asleep while ur babysitting a 3 yearold in summer while thre in a pool?
~>confused (link)
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That seriously was the stupidest question I have ever heard, and you are definitely the stupidest person if you would even think twice about that. You seriously disgust me if you would think about doing that.
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...I want world peace. Anyone with me? (link)
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World peace = major world hunger! Think about it! lol..
If there were no wars, factories that made weapons for the war, and other related factors would shut down. Milions would lose their job, have no job, and go hungry!
But if there was a possible way for world peace without world hunger then I'm all for it!
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ok here i sit a 14 year old teenager crying cause my mom just came in telling me how disapointed i made her and dispointed was only a nice term for how i made her feel cuase to her i am acting like my step sister (lazy) and she said now me and my mom are going to have the same relationship they have - none - i dont know what to do cause 1st of all i love my mom to death and dont wanna heart her and i want to have a relation ship with her 2nd its hard for me to grasp when i need to do something untill its to late today after dinner i washed my dish and walked away from the sink and my step dad starts washing then after i say i was going to go up stairs and then i realized that i should clean up the kitchen after dinner so i asked should i and my mom answerewd no iun the most bone chilling cold voice and then she came up stair and said all the stuff about my sister does anyone no how to get my to like me as a person again and not just cause i am her daughter (link)
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I seriously didn't understand any of that. Please use punctuation marks.
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Ive liked guy and only guys ever scence kindergarden, but now that im in middle school, im kinda afrid that im not only interested in guys...this is really embressing, but i have been lookin at girls breasts and butoxes. Im hardly doing it anymore, but im still a bit worried that i may be intrested in girls not just as a friend. im tryin to convence myself that its just a phase or im just tryin to compare mine to others. Please tell me if i am bi or if its just a phase, im really worried! Thanx,
Allie (a girl) (link)
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There's nothing wrong with that. In fact, that can be pretty common amongst teenagers to start looking at the opposite sex, even those majorly homophobic people. You might be bisexual, but then again it might just be a phase. So don't be worried, several people are going through what you're going through.
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i made my news years resolution to loose weight but the only problem is i cant stop eating like even when i am not hungry i need help and just to let you know iam 14 1/2 and over wieght (link)
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Omg you sound exactly like me! Okay what you gotta do is actually *force* yourself to stop eating. It's going to be hard but only eat when you feel hungry. Otherwise the fat will continue to build up. Think about it, which would you want more.. good food for 5 minutes? Or a skinnier body for life?
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