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dont worrie, not about a boy problem!
Ive liked guy and only guys ever scence kindergarden, but now that im in middle school, im kinda afrid that im not only interested in guys...this is really embressing, but i have been lookin at girls breasts and butoxes. Im hardly doing it anymore, but im still a bit worried that i may be intrested in girls not just as a friend. im tryin to convence myself that its just a phase or im just tryin to compare mine to others. Please tell me if i am bi or if its just a phase, im really worried! Thanx,
Allie (a girl)
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either way it doesn't matter much... A. you're in middle school and have a lot of time to decide what (if anything) you want, and B. there is nothing wrong with being bi. I'd say a good 80% of girls go through a time when they don't know their sexuality, and try being bi, and either stick with it or don't. It's nothing to be worried or embarrassed about. Guaranteed, some of the girls you're looking at are feeling the same wonderings.
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Thinking about this sort of thing is very normal, It doesn't make you a lesbian. Every girl goes through this at one point or another. It's just a part of growing up.
Hope that helped.
Kortni*
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i dont know it really depends on your feelings i mean if you are just looking at gurls its ok but if you feel something you might either be bi or a lesbien it doesnt matter anyway i know lots of bi and lesbien and gay athough not one my self they are still awsome
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There's nothing wrong with that. In fact, that can be pretty common amongst teenagers to start looking at the opposite sex, even those majorly homophobic people. You might be bisexual, but then again it might just be a phase. So don't be worried, several people are going through what you're going through.
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That's perfectly normal. I don't check girls out or anything...but I look because I'm jealous or I just wonder what I would look like that. But I DONT want to see them nude, I just want to know what I would look like with you know...what they have.
I know...it sounds stupid, but trust me...your not alone. A lot of girls do this even if they don't admit it. There's nothing wrong with this especially if you don't think so and it doesn't mean your a lesbian or anything. This is a normal age to be feeling so many feelings and emotions and don't worry...unless you find yourself asking a girl out I don't think your a lesbian.
You have a lot of guts to ask this question.
~GL~
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Im sure its just a phase. You cant really be homophobic if you dont want to. Dont worry.
-shay :-)
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Well, you could be bi - there's nothing wrong with that, no matter what people may say. If you are you just have to accept it.
BUT more likely it is just a phase... or rather, a state of mind - straight girls can still admire other girls' bodies. It's just the same as thinking a female star is gorgeous. Entirely normal.
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