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i need help majorly
omg!!! what do i do if i have fallen in love with two boys at the same time???? this is true love i swear and i need major help
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Trust me...no matter how much it may feel like true love, it's really NOT true love if you "love" them both at the same time.
Just focus your attention on the one you find most attractive. You know, their personality, their sense of humor, how attractive they are to you. Try talking to them, or find out what type of things each guy likes. I know what you mean. It feels like love...and it may well be love...but I highly doubt it. I've felt this way before...and there's nothing you can do. You can't help who you like, it just happens. But if one of these guys is a jerk, drop 'em.
Don't waste your time liking them. Once I really liked this kid named Kendall. It turned out he was a huge jerk because he made fun of my friend. I kind of pushed by him in the hallway afterwards and he saw me and I think he knew I liked him. But then after what happened I immediately didn't like him anymore. It felt like love, but it wasn't if I just stopped liking him so quickly.
Boys who are jerks are a major turn off for me.
So just focus your attention on one and see what happens from there. That's all I really can say because I don't know you or these boys.
~GL~
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Listen to me sweetie: There is no such thing as having true love for two people at the same time. True love is once in a lifetime, meaning you would die for that person, that you don't know how to go on living another day without that person, someone who you would give all your airline peanuts to if your plane crashed in the Andes and there was nothing else to eat. Step back, calm down, and put these boys out of your mind. You'll be better off for it.
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Dear Double Love,
Usually when this happens, it is because you are suddenly wanted by guys, and possibly a little desperate. It is okay to crush on two guys at once, but dating to at a time is definatly not okay. Usually, soon you will realize that you like one more than the other, or that one likes you more than the other does. Whatever you do, don't date someone simply because you feel like it. Make sure you really have feelings for him. And it is also possible that you simply like the two guys as friends, but are confused and think you truly love them. This has happened to me plenty of times. Just think, would you rather have a great friendship with a guy for a long time, or date a guy for a little while and then break up with him and never speak to him again? And what about his feelings? Are you going to break his heart?
*Suzy*
Dear Needs Help,
You are right, you do need help. There is a obvious solution to your "major problem". Pick one. Eenie minie moe, bubble gum bubble gum, whatever. Just pick one. Then, when you find out how pitiful you are and that guy tells you how he would never like you, go over to the other guy and pretend you never talked to the guy you chose before. When that guy also refuses to say he likes you, then move on once again. Maybe you should date an object. Try a lamp, or a piece of paper, or an apple. I would go with an apple, because after he dumps you, you can eat him.
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Think about which of the two you could picture yourself in the future with. Which one do you have more in common more? Just think for a moment and decide.
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I think that you should decide which one you have a lot in common with. Like, say one guy has a great sence of humor, and the other guy is extreamly smart; which one are you mostly? If you are extreamly smart, go with that guy, and if you have a good sence of humor, go with that guy. Don't fret over which guy is the hottest.
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Ok, I know this sounds corny, but you've just got to follow your heart on this one. Choose the one you see with yourself with more.
Hope this helped.
Kortni*
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well get to know both of them then pick the one best for you
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You need to choose between the two. Get to know each one more and find out which one is more for you.
-shay :-)
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