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I was in church and a guy proposed to me and I said yes. Now in the dream I know the guy but in real like i dont know who it is. What could it mean? (link)
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Maybe the person in your dream is going to be like the most perfect man ever! So try to remember his face but probably by the time you meet him you won't know who you just met but ya. Dreams can literally come true, and I don't mean goals and stuff like that I mean things that happen in your dreams.
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my female budgies vent looks swollen, it is brown and does not look good. The pet barn gave me some advice to try a broad spectrum antibiotic which I have done and into the second day. She is eating normal, she seems happy except for her problem. The vets around my area do not know enough about birds, in fact they killed my last budgie by giving it 2 injections and charging me $85. I am a pensioner and cannot afford these prices especially when the bird dies as a result from treatment. My friend took her budgie to the vet last week and her bird ended up with a pulled muscle in its wing from being held wrongly. all they did was clipped the wings and nails, I could have done a better job. My budgie keeps scratching and picking the area from time to time. Can anyone suggest anything I can try please? thank you. Sandra (link)
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I suggest going to a better vet that specializes in birds and actually likes birds because some vets just want their money and they dont care as long as they get their money.
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I'm on the girl's Division I basketball team at a very highly esteemed school, athletically and academically. The girls on the team are really close and we're kind of close with some on the guy's team too (I'm trying harder to make more guy friends).
In the past year, there has been some drama/cattiness among the girls. There's one girl (Kerri) whom I'm sort of friends with, she's really close with a girl I used to be close with but turned out not being very nice either. Kerri is usually nice to me, but has never really shown much of an interest in being close with me, so we're kind of only aquaintences. We're together pretty much all the time. The reality is, I absolutely can't stand her. She's really one of the most irritating people I've ever met. I could write a book on the problems I have with her but in short, she's a busybody, she has a HUGE superiority complex when trust me, she is in no place to have one, she acts like she's friends with people she's not friends with and fawns over them like there's no tomorrow, she's a social climber, premeditates who she's going to try and be friends with, she's very competitive...I think you get the idea.
She and I are both very academically inclined and serious about our playing. I have to admit, I've been a bit more successful than her in basketball because I'm taller and some aspects of my technique are stronger. She may be a bit stronger than me academically. Ugh, see, I'm doing it right now. I CANNOT HELP but feel in competition with her all the time. I feel competitive not only about those things, but even more so, about making friends. It gives me anxiety when she makes new friends, especially on the guys team, when people give her attention, I HATE it. The fact that she completely fawns over certain people to become friends with them drives me nuts and right now a couple of people love her and give her tons of attention they don't give me and I hate it. but I have NO reason to feel this way because people like me too! There are people who give me more attention than her or equal amounts. But there's this inner drive in me that is desperate for her to be jealous of me and wish she was me. It's foolish, and petty, and not nice but I cannot make these desires go away.
Perhaps the fact that she has such a superiority complex over me bothers me so much because she is in no place to think of herself as better than me. Maybe it bothers me that, she picks who she's going to try and be friends with and she's never shown much of an interest in trying to be friends with me because she thinks I'm stupid, or irresponsible, or just not cool enough (I know she doesn't hold me in the high, "special" regard she does other people), or maybe that she's so close with my ex-close friend, who's very similar to her. I always feel like I have to prove myself to her and I don't know why. We're in a lot of classes together and every time I'm around her, whether it be in class, in practice, at a game, etc. she annoys the HELL out of me. The way she acts doesn't just annoy me, it deeply bothers me and causes me stress and anxiety. She puts me in a bad mood and makes me feel like shit just by being herself. Another thing is that I feel like I can't ever be close with people she's close with because I don't like her and maybe it's my imagination but there's kind of a schism.
The way I'm thinking is absolutely immature and terrible but I cannot help it. I don't need help with confronting my own faults in the situation because I know what they are. I need help with getting rid of them. I want to be able to brush her off and not care about what she thinks of me and the things she says and does and her immense annoyingness. HOW do I do this??? I'm trying but it's not working. I need a new way to look at the situation. And trying to be close with her is 1) not even possible (I know her and KNOW she wouldn't want to be, partly because of our general friends situation, and 2) would bottle up my negative feelings and make it worse. I vent to her to my other friend who doesn't like her either but this doesn't make me feel better. I want to not care so much about her but I don't know what to do. It's taking a toll on me emotionally and giving me anxiety. I can't deal with this for the next 3 years. PLEASE help :'( (link)
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Go to a therapist. They will know what is going on in your head and they are the only ones that can tell you how YOU can fix it. Cuz i can sit here and list all of the things that I would do but that won't help you at all. So you should just go to a therapist and tell him every single detail there is, don't leave anything out. Or talk to someone who is very close to you and ask their opinion. You don't have to deal with it. I don't know what else i can say.
I hope i helped and good luck.
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Hi! Well I'm 13 and I've never really OFFICIALLY have had a boyfriend :P there is this REALLY sweet,funny,cute,and kind boy that I like and I know he likes me back, and he's gonna ask me out this friday I know for a fact but I don't know what to say back. I mean I know I will say yes but I don't wanna say something casual like "sure" or "okay"or even "yes" or "yea", I'd personally like to kiss him (on the lips lol) and be like "does that answer your question?" but I'm afraid he might now want me to kiss him(oh and I've never kissed a boy :P :P) :P I'd really like advice on what to say and if I should kiss him or not. Please don't call me dumb etc because I don't know what to do, also I will reply to your comment honestly! Oh and I'd like if you could reply ASAP because he's asking me in 3 days!!!! Thanks for reading and please reply! -Tabitha (link)
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I think it's a great idea that you want to kiss him when tyou say yes, but just make sure it's the right time to do it. what i mean is u shouldn't kiss him during class or anything like that. He should ask you when you're on your way to class when youre alone together or whatever. And i don't think you're dumb at all because you're just asking a question.
I hope i helped! oh and let me know what happens.
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hi my name is emma i am 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me what do i do (link)
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Ok look...
The question is, do YOU want to? I'm about to be 14 in a month and i know by now that guys around our age don't just say they love you for no reason. They always want something and their intentions are not good! They just want you in bed with them and then they don't even call you or want anything to do with you sfterwards and you feel rejected. If he tells you that you don't "love" him just because you won't have sex with him, thrn e doesn't love you. And you obviously aren't ready since you're asking us what to do. So ya if i were you, i would say no, break up with him and run, literally. lol no i'm kidding but i would acually do that!
Anyways i REALLY don't think this is a good idea for you to even hang around him anymore. But you know what, in the end you're just gunna do what you want so I really don't think my answer made a difference.
I hope i helped!!! And good luck
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Kinda new to Pandora... I heard a song last time that I totally fell in love with, and "liked" it. I want to listen to it again, but I can't for the life of me remember the name of the song or the artist... :( I tried checking my "likes" on my profile, but it only shows the latest ones, I can't see all the songs I like. Is there a way for me to find it? (link)
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well i dont know about that cuz i use Pandora too and I've had the same problem but what i do is keep a pen and paper by me at the computer when i use it, and as for the song you want to find? Use the same channel that you did that time or just google the lyrics ( what i mean by that is to pull out a line that repeated alot or something like that that you think might make it a little bit easier to find )
Hope I helped :)
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So.. I have known this girl for a good number of years but she has given me some situations.
So... her side is that she keeps asking about the guy im seeing and asking how he is and earlier on she joked about how she should hook up with him.I told her not to message him and she did. I asked her and she said no.
His side is that he makes jokes and includes her in them and earlier on we walked and he was like oh she has to live around here. He brings her up a lot in jokes.
WHAT DO I DO!?
I have gotten hurt really bad before... and I dont know what to think. Should I talk to him about it? (link)
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As much as it may hurt you to hear this, they have a thing going on from what you wrote, so if i were you i would get both of them together and talk about EVERY SINGLE little problem you have with eachother and if that doesn't work just dump your boyfriend and no she's not a real friend, she doesn't deserve your patience or trust so ya if i were you... always talk about things first though, because it's not good to jump to conclusions, trust me i've been down that road before and i learn that the hard way.
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I had been going to private school my entire life and when I got on the bus in the mornings for the first time on my second day at my new public school I got lost because I had no idea where to go. I ran through a bunch of hallways and then asked a teacher for help (I know who the AP Calculus teacher is now!). But when I found my way back to what looked familiar, I realized that I was late for History. I got to class five minutes late, but my teacher marked me absent and it showed up on my report card! I had been so confused! Is this fair? (link)
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How long did you wait to aske for directions? Did you tell that teacher who marked you absent that you were there and you just got lost or did you keep your mouth shut? You should ask someone to show you around or something so you don't get lost again. Yes it is fair because the teacher probably didn't notice you in the class or something and marked you absent.
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Me andmy best friend are doin a talentshow and have no ideas what to do please give us some ideas thanks:) (link)
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um how old are you? it would help me so i could answer you
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The guy i am in love with says that he loves me too but he never acts like he loves me..he never calls me,never cares about me.only texts me once a day or two days saying that he misses me...i don't understand him..help me plz (link)
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He clearly doesn't love you. Break up with him. Know this: guys lie to us girls , ok? they will tell you things like i love you but u cant believe everything they say. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS always remember that! And i kinow that it might be very hard for you to break up with someone you're "in love with" but trust me, u'll regret it if you don't. What i would do is just be numb, don't think about it just do it. And than don't talk to him (not that he's talking to you the way a boyfriend should)
Or you could always talk to him about it, and if that doesnt work, then just start back at one.
I hope i helped or at least opened your eyes lol good luck!
_Melanie
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so i'm 14 and i been dating this boy for a couple months now and we had sex twice now and i keep hearing that sex at a young age makes u stop developing. is that true? (link)
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idk... google it.
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My ex had to dump me because his dad said that I was a bad influence on him. Now he's not even allowed to talk to me but he and I both love each other and it sucks that we can't be together!
HELP! (link)
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What do you think u did to make the dad think that you are a bad influence? If you think the dad just did it because hes mean, ur wrong because parents always have a reason for everything even though it might now always be a good one.I'm pretty sure you did something to make him say that
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for four years.He's used to be very emotional and laughed a lot and got angry when he had too or when it was necessary. About two years ago his grandma passed away we weren't really close as we are now we used to see each other two times a week but now we have fallen more in love and talk to each other about everything. He used to cry every time we argued and i said maybe we should brake up, he used to get mad when his sister took his debit card(they still do that), or when his mom went off and bought stupid crap with his money(still does that).But since then he doesn't show much emotion he does laugh, but he rarely gets mad and its been two years and his family walks all over him takes his money and i say something and they say its just cause i want it all for myself so i stopped saying stuff, but they've gone over board his sister bought a car with his money a boob job and he pays for her insurance and much more things, its like too much but he doesnt get angry! He never cries even if we brake up, but i know he loves me because he's sweeter now to me than ever brings me flowers writes me poems, he talks to me about ever since it really hurt him and he cant show emotions. I even tried showing him this really sad films about people dying and he would feel sad i could feel it but he couldnt cry no matter how hard he tried. It just makes me so mad,how it seems like he's heartless and he doesn't stand to his family! I know he probably needs to go to a therapist, but seriously?! we can't afford that at all and no we dont have insurance. So is there any like natural way to help him fix this? I just don't know what to do! And lately hes been telling me how he finds people killing others fascinating and all the things he likes are like villians who kill not with powers but with knifes. He tells me he finds that fascinating. He's been wanting to have rough sex lately, and he's really rough with me he wants to pretend like he rapes me. I watch a lot of csi and law and order and all of this scares me! It all ties with like the characteristics of someone who might release their anger or emotions in another way. I don't want this to happen at all im so extremely terrified i am gonna let this pass and later regret it, Please help!!! (link)
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Have you tried talking to him about it? Maybe u just need to sit him down, pull him aside and tell him everything that is bothering you and then get him to go to a therapist. save a percentage of your money evrytime u get paid or whatever and go to a therapist with him. Don't just send him off all alone though. go with him and make sure he is actaully going. And then try to help him show his family that what they are doing is not acceptable and that they are causing a big problem for you and your boyfriend.
I hope i helped! _Mel
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im 15 almost 16 and im a girl and i been dating this guy for about a few weeks now and i dated him 3 times.a few days ago i started talk to this guy who is 16 almost 17 and he has liked me since he was in the 7th grade and we been talking and i never dated him and im really starting to like and i dont know if i want to stay with the guy im dating cause i wanted it work with and i dated the last time and break up with him for other guys and this new guy i known forever and i really like him but i dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend for him and my best friend whos like my sister hates the other guy and likes my boyfriend as a friend and she wants me to stay with him but i dont know what i want to do i want to be with both of them but i dont know what one to pick... (link)
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Have you asked your friend why she doesn't like the new guy? It depends on how bad it is. And i would go for the one i like more and the one that makes me happy, the one that feels right for me. And scince you've been with your boyfriend 2 times before. I don't know it's up to you, just go for the one you like the most and you'll be happier.
Hope I helped!
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I'm 19 and a virgin. All of my friends have many partners and I'm still a virgin. Don't get me wrong, I'm no prude, I've done my share of things with guys and have had 2 long-term serious relationships and many opportunities to have sex. I feel like the reason why I'm still a virgin is because I'm afraid I'm going to get too close to that person. I guess I'm just one of those people who always have their guards up. But I feel like whenever I go to parties and we play never have i ever NOBODY is a virgin, and i mean nobody. People have made fun of me before saying things like "she's 19 and still a virgin!" and "i hope she loses it this summer"...but to be honest I don't want to until I know I have the right person. One of my "friends" always brings it up that I'm still a virgin at parties and I feel like its not necessary to just flat out tell people about my sex life. She has slept with 40 guys and I don't tell people that...I'm tired of being made fun of and looked down upon. How would you handle this? (link)
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Well scince i guess you don't see her as a real friend i would just tell her off in front of everyone saying,"I'd rather lose my virginity when I'm married and know that i met the right person, unlike you who's had sex with countless people, and it's a miracle you haven't gotten pregnant yet! But yourself a freaking dildo jeez you little w***e!" lol yep that's excactly what I would say. :)
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My mom is pretty religious and as always taught us not to have sex until we are married. I understand and respect her views and agree with them to an extent. Because of this up bringing sex has always been a taboo subject in my house. I can't even talk about it with my sister, and it has cause relationship problems with my mom. My sister is 23 and I am 21. Anyway she still just can't accept that my sister or I would ever do something of that nature. My mom recently found out my sisters boyfriends parents let them sleep in the same bed and she cried. I just don't understand why she just can't accept these things. We are old enough to make our own decisions. We are both in long and serious relationships. I understand she doesn't agree with that stuff, which is fine, I just really do not understand why she feels soo strongly against us choosing to do so and why she cant get over it. I'm not asking her to agreed with it, just accept it... (link)
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Maybe she thinks you'll be guilty later in your life if you had sex with this boyfriend when you get married maybe to someone else
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"Ok so there was this guy,hes so cute, Well I thought He liked my best friend but ke's been sitting by me and stuff. Well I really like him and I want him to ask me out or kiss me or something what should I do to tell kim I want him to do this?" Hey thanks for answering this question for me!!!! Just to follow up today he told me he's having a bad day. I asked why and he said"Well there's this girl I really like and have been trying to get closer to, But she thinks I'm in love with her best friend, But I've been really wanting to ask her out." EEEKKKKK! My FIRST boyfriend YAY!!!! Theank you so much and could you mind suggesting what I do next???
Please???? =) =) (link)
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Well you should've said "I think I know who you're talking about" and when he asks you who do you think that is? You say you're looking at her and then you kiss him! lol
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Okay, so this might be hard to make sense of but here goes.
When I was year five I had my first boyfriend, I really liked him and he really liked me. Then we broke up after four months. It didn't get to me, I just moved on to another guy.. But I didn't like him the way I had liked my ex boyfriend.. But I had heard that he did like me so I went out with him, not coz i liked him but coz i wanted a boyfriend. After we broke up, I didnt feel anything. I don't fall in love anymore, I don't feel happy or excited, not even nervous or angry... I lack emotions.
I am now year nine in high school and I thought that it was about time i researched what the heck is wrong with me. So I researched all last night and came across something called 'ANTISOCIAL PERSONALITY DISORDER' and it was amazing at how many of the symptoms I can relate to... And it was amazing how there are so many other people out there who feel the same way like this.
I don't know what to do anymore... I don't know who I am anymore. Ive lacked emotions since year five, I am now in year nine. its been five years... Nowadays I just pretend that im happy or excited, angry or nervous.. and i also pretend i fall in love like normal people. so i don't look like im not human or something..
Please help, its not as easy as it may look, going for five years without emotions. its hard work.
I am 14 years old and I am a female. (link)
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Well, I don't know i guess you just haven't found something that really makes you happy or triggers it.
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I was hoping you could tell me how to clean my private area better. I read a article you had back in 2005. Could you send me some web sites. I was also hoping you could tell me what products like saop and stuff like that to buy to clean my vigina. I was wondering because i do have a lil smell but its not that bad and on your article you wrote it suppose to. But i feel as if I can really smell myself. Also why is it you wipe front to back? I was never told to do that. (link)
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You wipe from front to back because if you wipe from the back to the front you can get the bacteria from your butt into your vagina and that's not good at all.
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Ok so there was this guy,hes so cute, Well I thought He liked my best friend but ke's been sitting by me and stuff. Well I really like him and I want him to ask me out or kiss me or something what should I do to tell kim I want him to do this? (link)
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If i were you i would kiss him and see how he reacts and take it from there.
Hope I helped you!
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