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does sex makes u stop developing?


Question Posted Wednesday October 12 2011, 5:50 pm

so i'm 14 and i been dating this boy for a couple months now and we had sex twice now and i keep hearing that sex at a young age makes u stop developing. is that true?

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adviceman49 answered Thursday October 13 2011, 10:34 am:
I agree with Zane. At 14 you should not be having sex in the first place. In the second place you should not be having sex unless you know what sex is all about and what the consequences are. Besides the obvious one of getting pregnant do you really want to go through school with a reputation that you are easy. because that is what will happen.


Teenage boys cannot keep secrets. Your sex partner will tell his BFF about his conquest of you. He has to, to show that he is now a man. His BFF tells some one else and so on. Next thing you know your name is on a bathroom wall. "Want a good time, call _____".


The other thing is sex is not meant to prove your a women or a man. It is meant to be something two adults do in a loving relationship. They don't have to be married and they don't have to be living together. They do have to be in a relationship that they intend to build upon and not change two weeks down the road.


There are too many diseases out there to be sleeping around, at any age. The younger you are and the more partners you have, even with protection, the more chances you can get an STD. Then your sex life and possibly your life can be ruined for ever.


So like my answer or not, please rethink having sex at your age. It can wait and it will be much better 4 or 5 years down the road.

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Xui answered Wednesday October 12 2011, 9:49 pm:
No and no offense but if you don't know these sort of things then you shouldn't be having sex.

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KlutzyKim answered Wednesday October 12 2011, 9:09 pm:
No, your body will continue to grow and develop until you've reached the end of puberty.
The answer below was extremely unhelpful and unnecessary.

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Melwillhelpyou answered Wednesday October 12 2011, 6:48 pm:
idk... google it.

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