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My ex boyfriend
My Ex boyfriend told me how much i ment to him and how he would never leave me...We were together for *sniffle sniffle* 6 years. I really thought we were ment to be.... i dont want to eat or sleep or anything.. i just dont know what to do with myself...i cry every day and night for the past 3 months..and it never seems to stop.. i love him and i still have one of his socks in my room...it still smells like him.. :'( And i kept a peice of dirt that he walked on in a little plastic baggie to remind me of what he stepped on when he was with me</3
Please help..
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First, Get rid of the dirt and the sock that isn't not helping you get over it.
Sometimes it can take months to get over a breakup. You need to realize that it has been 3 months and that is a good while but as long as you don't allow yourself to move past it, You never truly will. Holding onto his possessions are only going to make it a hell of a lot harder. I was in a relationship for 5 years, The first thing I do when it was over was get rid of all the memories. Second, As hard as it is you need to realize it's over and it is not doing you any good preventing yourself from moving on thinking about it all the time. If you are still in contact, I highly recommend you cut all contact it will makes things a hell of a lot easier for you.
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Things happen and people change. I was with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, he was my first love.. indeed it is hard. I have found better people out there. You need to find the point where you can say enough is enough, and get up one day and be able to be the old you before he came into your life. Join an activity or a sport, go out to the mall and socialize, spend time with friends and meet new people, it's time to move on from this guy and find someone better who will be able to treat you better. Step one is to get rid of the stuff that you have that reminds you of him, such as a piece of dirt in a bag, (that is not emotionally healthy). You need to say enough is enough and be able to walk away..if you don't want to do that or can't do that you shouldn't be asking for help.
If you need anything else feel free to inbox me.
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