sry if its long but i really need help..
Ok..heres my problem..my mom or dad dont trust me..they wont let me go out..they think im always lien where i am when i do go out..they have no trust twords me wut so ever..like yesterday i wnt to chill with my friends and i told my mom i was going to the day b4 that..but then she calles me up and seys u better get home now..im like well ill b home soon..so i came home and she was like ur grounded 4 goin out with out telling me..then i was like yeah well i told u so i wnt in the kitchen and sed that i was hungry my dad came screaming in the kitchen saying that i better eat and he through me on the table and slapped me..then i ran up stairs..i mean wut is rong with my parents..and they always treat me like shit..and my mom always treats my nephew better and when ever he does some thing rong i get blamed..i just dont know what to do ne more..
plz help me..
ps..me and my parents fite all the time..
sucky parents. I say don't talk to them. When they fight you... fight back. It actually kinda sounds like they are abusers... but totally tell them how you feel... it might actually clear up some air. ehh... that does suck though. Hope things work out.
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IF a guy kisses you how can u tell if he thinks ur a good kisser or bad kisser? Ive kissed 3 guys before and the first time i kissed a guy he told all my friends i was a bad kisser but a few years later wen we kissed he said something to me like wow u never kissed me like this before and he meant like in agood way so anyways im afraid wen i go to the movies tomorow this guy im going with wil think im a bad kisser and it makes me nervous but i realli wanna kiss him so im not sure what to do
that sucks. This might sound bad but ask one of your good guy friends if you can practice kissing him for a date. All I can say is that if you can make out with a random guy for practice...
brush your teeth, eat a mint, and don't stress out. If you think that he doesn't like the way you kiss ask him if it was okay... if he says you suck or no... then ask him to "teach you". Lol... then at least you'll know that you're good at it. ehhh... hope that works out for you.
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Okay. My boyfriend and I are thinking about going for the whole oral sex thing...and something about the whole subject really weirds me out. Like, I can't imagine giving a guy a blowjob, but it weirds me out even more to think of him going down on me.
For background, we've been together over 11 months, we've had sex, and we've usually kinda skipped over the oral issue. If it matters, I'm 17 and he's 18. I know I should just wait 'til I'm comfy with the whole idea, but I don't think I'll be comfy with it until I figure out what it is that's weirding me out. Anyone have any ideas?
well I'm not sure... but my friends weren't comfortable with it either, so there might be a few things bothering you.
lack of experience
the whole idea of a penis in your mouth
taste
doing it wrong
and there are other things too. But all I can say is Just Do IT... you'll get over it really fast that way. Try buying flavored condoms. And if you want... practice.
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Me and my boyfriend are trying to get me pregnant but it seems to be not working. I just got out of collage and im living in an apartment with him and we have sex every other day .. it isnt working.. is there something I shouldnt be doing?
Thank you.
Victoria
Don't wear condoms and don't use birth control. lol. Go to your gynecolgist... STDs might hinder fertility. Or you might be barren. Trust me, a gynecologist can help you and your boyfriend have a child. and if your having like ten minute sex... that might be the reason. OH! and have sex on your period... that is when you are most fertile.
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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
Okay, you're going to have to have sex more than twice for it to stop hurting most likely. You aren't experienced so it might be the way you're having sex. Try different positions. Try different condoms... like Trojan Her Pleasure condoms. Try different lubes... and have sex with some one experienced who can be gentle. If after all that and you've had sex 20 times and don't like it, well... you might be a lesbian or you might just hate sex. But I'm doubt it. Don't stress too much. Maybe you just need some kinky toys, lol.
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how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period???
Midol. Tylenol. Advil. any kind of pain medicine, but or "Women's Tylenol". Anything specifically marked for women or pain or both. Ask your parents to buy you some. Also take a bath... your period stops when you are in water, so baths can be relieving. For some people heat pads work.
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i want to lose 10 lbs in 3 months cuz on my bday i am geting money adn i want to buy clothes but i want to look cute in them i am 118 and i waer size 5 but i am not satisified.oh i am short i am like 5'3 ish.. My question for you is this: A) is that unrealistic? B) anyideas on how i could do that?
thanks a bunch
Nah... it's realistic. If your in not in high school or eighth grade, I really wouldn't stress it much but... all I can say is go to a community gym every day. Even if you only do a little bit at a time, it can help. Try running... that will help. Eat breakfast, dinner, and lunch, but small portions. Don't eat sweets. Try not to eat too much fatty foods or extreme carbs. If nothing else works you can fast for a couple days, but no more than that. Don't resort to bulimia or anorexia... and don't stress over it. You are actually average weight for that height. Good luck and I hope you lose the weight!
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This is a really.. stupid.. question.. but.. here goes anyway:
I want to buy some condoms (im a girl) and i think its kind of embarrassing.. i mean.. i dont want everyone to know im having sex. I cant drive.. and if my sis or parents found out i was buying them.. they would KILL me.. Anyway.. when i work up the nerve to buy them.. whats the best kind to buy... i prefer lifestyles or trojan.. so whats the best.. and cheapest at that.. to buy
thanks!
try trojan.com or whatever the website is. It has a condom chooser and it tells the prices. I suggest Trojan Her Pleasure condom... but only cuz the commercial is cool. lol. Good luck finding 'the right one'. :P
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There's this guy at my school that I really like, I'm friends with him and everything. I've asked him out a few times but he said he'll think about it, then he ends up saying no because he thinks I'll use him to make my old boyfriend jealous. I try to tell him I won't, and he stil says no.
He's friends with pretty much everyone. He's the nicest guy ever. He's cute, and he's just...awesome. I don't get to see him that much so I can't like let him see how I act...so he doesn't know my...way of...YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN, very much. So he's like clueless to how I act. You know?
So my question is, how the heck can I just get him to like me? I mean, if he just kinda sorta likes me i'd be fine, even if we don't go out. Just help me...PWEASE.
I really wanna know how. Please help! Sorry this was so long. ^-^;
well if he's a nice guy... just cool off the subject for a little while. Become better friends with him, hang out more, be yourself, and gain his trust. Give him subtle hints and flirt a little. Then after a little bit of that... ask him out. Be honest, tell him exactly what you told me just don't freak him out by saying "i love you please go out with me" cuz that's kinda stalkerish. Just don't stress over it and if that doesn't work... he probably doesn't like you like that.
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For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!
*no style*
I don't know who sings that but you can google those lyrics or any other lyrics to find who sings it...
watch MTV/Fuse and pick a couple punk, hip-hop, and rock songs. Nobody likes techno or country so stay away from that. Oh and you can alway go around to random people and ask them what their favorite bands are. Good luck!
P.S.... you probably shouldn't sign up for a job that you don't think you can do... being a "DJ" can be hard... especially for a high school dance.
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Sorry this ones loge but i need help
I'm in a really big social group at school and my 2 neighbors r in it. ive know them since i've moved in and we became really good friend. when school started 1 of my neighbors bff was at my school. right away we hated each other and i don't no why. about a week ago my neighbors and the bff started a book that no one was aloud to see. it really pissed me off and made me realize that every one i surrond my self with are a bunch of backstabing, secret telling liars. i got in to a big fight with 1 of my neighbors and iots sort of resolved but after that was over the bff wrote me a note calling me a poser and a tramp and talking shit about my bf. i was soo pissed off. now i don't want to hang out w/any off them but there like the only people i no.
p.s. me other friend feels the same
Sounds like the movie Mean Girls, eh? Well I've gotta say, that does sound like the typical 'popular group'. I know first hand what that's like. All I can say is that you can't ditch that group fast enough! You might be a loner for a week, but if your a good friend, then you should make friends fast. Maybe try switching styles gradually? Punk? Goth? Jock? Or just be yourself. Everyone loves that... Just tell her best friend that she can **** herself and that you are way better off without her and her back-stabbing loser friends. If that doesn't work... play dirty... everything she does to you do to her times a thousand. Or just ignore her and hang out with your boyfriend. Either way you can't just stand back and take that shit from her.
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