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OK my friends like have all these problems and think they are the end of the world. I know there not and i try to make them feel better but its getting harder because everytime i have a problem or something to say they like just say ignore it or forget about it. Do they just like not undersand that sometimes i need help too or do they just like really not give a damn? Im getting really boggled down in all this and u seemed like a good person to ask. A reader. (link)
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i think they depend on you so much, they dont quite know how to react when you need their help. thanks, i hope we're friends because i will always be there for you ! you can IM me anytime my screen name is SilenceIsAFelony ! and maybe your friends are just too wrapped up in their own problems. so maybe you should just be like " look, can u please help me with this, since friends are always there for eachother ? " i hope it works ! ROCK ON !!
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Hey Heather, yah...I'm having troubles with my friends...aka they are all being pretty bitchy to me, I can't really tell them how I feel because then they'll just turn everything around and make themselves the victim, plus it will make my project for school a living nightmare. There aren't any other groups of friends I can go to because I only have a few friends in each group! what do i do? (link)
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so what you're saying is, your friends are bitches and you want new ones ? but you can't get new ones because you have a reputation of hanging out with mean ones ? thats pretty difficult .. it takes a lot of guts to go up to maybe some new people and try to be friends .. but if you gather up the courage to go and talk to them, and they like you, then thats great ! but DONT change yourself for whoever you hang out with .. that happens so much lately ! just be yourself and a group of people are bound to enjoy it ! as for your bitchy friends .. well thats pretty much a no - brainer. just talk to the one you feel most comfortable with about how you feel, and if she takes it the wrong way, then she is not your true friend ! and thanks ! if you ever need to talk IM me at SilenceIsAFelony ! ROCK ON!
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ok, there's this guy I think I might like (still up in the air about it) and i dunno if he likes me back. someone times he acts like it, and other times it just seems like we're really good friends. on friday someone came up to me after school & asked him we were going out, and my other friend just laughed and he didn't say anythin then changed the subject. i don't wanna wreck the friendship by telling him about how i might feel b/c he's sorta emotionally calloused sometimes, i guess you could say. so... what would you do? (link)
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i would make sure you really like him before you tell him. and i would also make sure he likes you too. and i mean with me, personally, i am very insecure, so it'd be really hard to tell him. i would call him up, only him, no friends, and tell him. that way, i don't have to see his reaction, and he doesn't feel pressured to answer a certain way. but .. we're probably talking about the same person hahahahah !
but seriously .. if it doesn't work out .. and you're not friends anymore .. then it wasn't meant to be. and i know that sounds really hard .. but things like that are going to happen .. and if he cant be mature about it .. then he's not worth it.
but hey give it a shot ! if it doesn't work you have me and your friends to lean back on !
love ya ! u can IM me anytime at SilenceIsAFelony ! ROCK ON !
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HEY heathEr!!! yOu are SoOOOO swEEt AnD nIcE!!
jUsT thOughT we WoULd LEtcHA KnO tHAT!!!
wE LOVe YOU!!
*Britney and cAndI aNd CaRlY*
kEEp On RocKIN!!--HeHE
p.S.
itS nOT REAllY A qUEStiON! hAA (link)
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what did i tell you about leaving the house .. get bac inside !!! HAH JP I LOVE YOU GUYS SOO MUCH ! thx i feel like i have my own groupies 8) yea !!! ha that was supposed to be the smiley wearin the sunglasses ! well yea ... yall keep on being AWESOME ! ROCK ON !!!
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Hey heather its meredith. just wanna say your a kick ass fwend!but ummmi gotta question... my "best friend" back here in H town hasnt been acting like a "best friend" lately. Shes got the same friends i have but im just not as popular as she is. she keeps blowin me off and doesnt invite me to things she does with other ppl like she used to. what do i do?
by the way i'm coming to dallas on thanksgiving day!
love ya much!
meredith van hooser (link)
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Yea i know being popular is a drag huh? hah no JP !!! i wouldn't even know !!! but um ... have u tried talking to her? this happens all the time like when u think ur best friends w/ someone and they vote for someone else for songleader ... HMMMMMM ?????? hah i know im jp i love you !!! FRIEDA !!! well if she chooses to be "popular" over being ur friend ... well then shes missing out on a lot of fucking fun !!! oo and by the way raymond ur lover says hello ! i love you !
ROCK ON !!!
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dude why the hell are people so gay , cuase you know im in a fight with lauren for no reason dude shes mad at me cuase i told her what i thought and felt about certain things. what the hell do i do ? (link)
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hmmm Lets be more vague !!! lol jp nina ilu !!! well ... hmm ... if u cant talk to her about it, then u if neone should b mad at her. did u tell her nicely? maybe shes just offended. give her some time to cool off. if she still is mad at u then try to carry on as normal and she'll come to you when she's ready. but thats just me ... ilu Ni !!! ROCK ON !!!
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hey ! everyone thinks i am stuck up and stuff but im NOT and i wish they would stop ! how can i let ppl know that im really nice? thx heather ilu a lot ur a great friend and anyone who thinks differently can kiss my ass !!! haha love u girl! but im not gonna say who this is ... im too shy :) ... but plz help !!! love ya! (link)
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hey! well they prolly think ur stuck up b/c u only hang out w/ certain ppl. try going up to them and saying hi. if it really means a lot to u make efforts like maybe sitting with different ppl at lunch everyday, u know. but u also shouldnt care what others think of u. and i no that everyone is insecure about somthing and cares what other ppl think at one time in their life ... even i do somtimes ... butcha gotta let it go. its not worth it. be yourself and if they dont like it, they dont like it! youlll live! thx ilu 2 and i know who this is so ill ttyl !! i really do love u and ur not stuck up so dont let it get to u. ROCK ON !!!
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Okay so i am going out with this guy and hes awesome and i like him so much! ( you h ave no idea) and so he is like i lvoe you so much and so he likes me alot to. But he never shows it when hes friends are around then is a TOTALLY jerk to me and blows me off alot. I'll give you an example: Friday night we were going to go to the movies after hes basketball, but then hes friends came over and were like he doesnt want to go anymore he is over you and he hates you. and ahhh it just makes me mad and i dont know what to do!! so please help me! i have tried talking to him but i dont know if we should break up or what!
Love you * ASQ *
- pc (link)
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hey ! *PC* ILU SOOOOOO MUCH ! lol well here's the thing - a lot of guys at this age do that. they want to be themselves when theyre around you, but when theyre around their friends, they want to be "cool". his friends said he hated u? that doesnt sound like a very sincere bf to me. uve tried talking? try talking to him WITH his friends. if hes a jerk about it and doesnt want to be serious, then u can do so much better. DARE YOU TO MOVE JUST CAME ON !!! geez lol its a sign WhOa < i love you ! do what u think is right ! ROCK ON !!!
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HEATHER !! I MISS U !! we had some good tmies didnt we ;) ... haha. well look i know u think i purposely try to make u feel bad ... but thats NOT true !!! i just thought ud b happy for me. so im sorry if ive EVER made u feel insignificant or infderior to me. (wHoA bIg WoRdS!) and yes .. i made up my mind !! well nope my dad did .. been doin better here so im here to stay !!! o and three days grace IS a good band !! remember when u first bought their cd and was like theyre giong to be big ! well they r! and that one part when its like " by the time u come home im already stoned " int hat HOME snog .. yeah i laughed. well love you and wat do u think about me (wat should i do to actually keep a bf ... like furrizzle!) (link)
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KELLLLLLL !!!!!!! how long has it been, really? LOL! well i accept ur apology ... but u do have a bad habit of kinda puttin ppl down ... ur kinda manipulative too. but thats ok u can change that !!! I KNOW I AM PSYCHIC WITH THREE DAYS GRACE !!! well as for ur bf issue ... dare i say ... ur too much of a slut. :) lol i mean not like u have a problem with that. but the point is if u want to actually keep a bf u have to make SACRIFICES. and ur bf sounds like he loves u ...... like a KEEPER .. which means KEEP HIM !!! dont do nething stupid ... and ilu! ROCK ON!!! (furizzle ? ur weird hah)
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hey heather. u r an awesome friend and well yea ur awesome! and i have a girl problem. ok so basically i like this girl. A LOT. shes hot and nice. but shes coming all bitchy and stuck up. and theres another girl who likes me but shes not as pretty but shes super cool and down to earth. but i dont think my friends would "approve" of her and i really think she could be good for me but i have to keep up this acting and sometimes it makes me sound like a jerk. what should i do? and i want this girl to really know how i want to tell her but i cant. (link)
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hey. thanks ! well heres my advice : which is more important? b/c think about it ... is it really fair to that girl thats not as pretty? and if her personality rocks then it shouldnt matter. look girls try so hard to get their crush to like them .. they change their hair, their clothes, even their personality. so do u think it feels very good when guys like u and ur friends ignore them b/c theyre not as "popular"? if u really cared for them u wouldnt hurt them like that. tell them straight face to face how u feel and tell them ur dilemma. maybe u can both make compromises. hope it works out !!! ROCK ON !!!!
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hey heather! okay so i have this question. hah anyways my friends are like all changing and they not like the ones you would think that would be changing .. i dont know kinda confusing but i am changing friends but i am still like friends with my other friends. But my new friends act weird when i talk to my old friends and its soo werid and i hate it cus then i am like stuck in the middle!! HELP ME PLEASE! .. love you lots!!!! ( i know you can help! ) - Alex (link)
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hah ok for the record, i have said my friends r changing like A MILLION TIMES !!! but then someone said,"thats going to happen;u cant stop it." and it just woke me up! alex i love you and i know its hard when ur stuck in the middle ... but ur friends (new) should except ur old friends. if they r ur true friends they would. thx for thinking i can help i love giving advice :) ... but i hope everything works out !!! and talk to ur old friends about ur concerns w/ them changing, but also talk to ur new friends about accepting your choices. everything will work out i promise i love you and we need to hang out more !!! ROCK ON !
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Hey !!! Heather you are so cool !!! I Love You TOOO DEATH !!! but anyway here is my question : ok so u know travis barker got married ?! well his wife was miss america so are all "punk" guys like that? b/c what if she was really mean? b/c i like a guy like that but i dont want a guy to like me for my eyes or my breasts so what do you think? LOVE YOU BABE UR SO AWESOME !!!
~*Kirsten*~ (link)
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Here is my BRILLIANT answer !!! Well yes first of all i did hear Travis got married !!! Now All Of Blink is married !!! ok well Kirs here is the thing - ALL guys at THIS age are only interested w/ girls that r "hott" . he probably married her for her personality though. not all "pretty" ppl r mean ya know! i am friends with a lot of nice ones !!! you will meet a guy that doesnt like u just for your breasts (ha .. maybe not they r pretty distracting) JP LUV U GIRL ! ROCK ON !
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