Well to tell you alittle about myself. I'm a 32 year old woman. I have three children that are my life. I have been married for a three years now. It is my second marriage, my first one falled but that's ok. I love to help people when they need it. I will try and give you the advice that will help. Hope to meet new people too.
E-mail: eric.april@hotmail.com
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Location: strykersville, new york
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Age: 30
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we're goin to the movies on friday and i wanna get close to my gf. any tips? i'm gonna kisser too. (link)
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Well for startes sit where there's not alot of people,(people don't want to see people making out). Then when you go and sit down casually put your arm around her back(neck). Pull her toward you and then give her nice lite kiss.
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Well my boyfriend of 6 months recently went off to college and things are fine we are working that part out and are for the most part, ok with the distance. But he is always telling me about these "hott chicks" he saw or talked to. He also was telling me of how his roomates ex lets him take naked pictures of her and I replied with a "Well thank you for telling me that, I needed to know (sarcasm)" and he also told me that she was going to come over and strip for them. Then told me that he was joking. I just dont know what to do, or how to approach him about it. I really want this to work but it might put a strain on our relationship if he continues it and GAH its pissing me off!!
Thank you! I will rate high for good answers:D (link)
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Well it looks like you boyfriend is trying to give you a message that he doesn't want to be with you. He's trying to get yoy pissed off enough to get you to break up with him. So that he can be single at college. If it that is someone you want to be with then live with it, if not I would tell him if he wantes to be single and do all this stuff with other girls then go ahead and see what he says.
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Ok when I drink sometimes I can drink a lot and be normal but other times I can drink very little and get wasted. Why does this happen? (link)
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Well your body has not got rid of the other drinkd that are in your system. So that's why you can only drink a few dirnks and then get wasted.
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i don't know if anyone has ever had dwarf hamsters, but i do and yesterday i was cleaning out the cage and i saw three little pink things in the nest and it turned out one of my hamsters had babies. All three of the hamsters are female, i've checked and the breeder checked so i don't know what happened. i thinhk she was pregnant before we got her because we've only had them for a little while. Anyways, i was wondering if there is anything special I should do to take care of them? or does the mother do it herself? i really have no idea what to do. If anyone could halp me with this i'd be really happy. thanks. (link)
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Well if you don't have a male in the cage, she got pregnant before you got her. The mother will take cate of the little ones. But make sure the mother gets pplenty to eat and drink and she has a clean cage. That's all you have to do. Hope I helped.
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I used to have many best friends. When 7th grade started some of them became part of the popular crowd, a few went totally goth on me and cut them selves constantly and some just ditched me. I have like one or two friends now that still hang out with me. I have lots of other people hang out with me, but now I'm realizing how they truly feel about me by all the rumors they are starting. I just don't know what to do anymore, I'm so alone. Please help. (link)
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If they were really your friends they wouldn't started the rumors. I would just forget about them and try and make new firends. Try and not let them get to you. Because if you let the rumors roll off of you, they'll probaly stop and move on to someone else. hope I helped
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Okay, has anyone out there been in a situation where you think you're getting a crush on someone and you really don't want it?
That's kinda the situation I'm in right now. He's my guy friend...I refuse to like him. I have a boyfriend whom I adore to absolutely no end. My guy's perfect for me, and he has plans, and he loves me, and I'm safe with him.
My friend, though, has recently been hinting that he likes me, and he knows I have a boyfriend - so he won't try anything. Some little part of me, though, almost wants him to.
What the heck is wrong with me? I think part of it is because he's a good friend, and we have a lot in common...but I know for a fact that it wouldn't work - I've tried relationships where I had almost everything in common with the guy, and they REALLY didn't work. Especially not with someone as competitive as I am. I'm majorly into music, and those guys were too. (So is my friend I'm talking about here)
How do you kill a crush without making yourself hate the guy? (That's what I've done in the past, and I don't want to hate him 'cause he's a sweetheart...)
GAH.
Help? Lol. (link)
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You could tell him that he's a really good friend and you don't want to lose his friendship. But that it wouldn't work out into a relationship.Hopefully he'll relise that it's better to be friends with someone then to lose that firendship over a little thing as a crush.
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I think I might like this boy. I've known him forever like since kindergarden. We used to be best friends and he liked me in kindergarden, 1st, 2nd, maybe 3rd and a little bit of 5th grade. We now talk to each other almost everyday online. Now that I think about it I might have feelings for him more than just good friends. But I already like this boy from a different school who is a little cuter than him. But the boy from the other school I barely know but hes soo hott.
So I don't know what to do.
Should I like the boy that I've known forever and is semi cute or should I like the boy from the other school who is H*O*T*T* hott??
Please help I rate really high.
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You know what looks don't mean a thing. If you look at it you see and talk to this boy who is semi cute. Then you look at the person who is not that you really don't know anything about and don't talk. The thing that matters most is how the person is on the inside and not the outside. This boy who you know longer might have a big heart and I think maybe you should give him a chance.
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ok, well theres this girl im not friends with anymore. her name is kelsey. last night i was with a guy who im not going out with but its almost like i am. kelsey and me arent friends anymore because of a stupid fight we had in march. its really stupid so i wont explain. so just to spite her, when i was with steve (the guy) and he had me pushed against a wall and then i started making out with him. im almost sure that she saw because she was the only one other than us in that hall and she walked right by us. i thought it was really funny last night at the dance but now i have a weird feeling about it. she might tell her mom that i was acting like a slut, and im afraid that her mom would tell my dad. i kind of regret this... my question is... how should i handel this all...? what if my parents do find out... i need some sort of explaination... or answer (link)
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Well just explain to your parents what had happen before and that how she's mad at you. Maybe they can help you with your friend. She might not even tell her mom about it. If you want to be friends with this girl again, Maybe you should be the one to apologive to her about what had happened in march even if it was over something stupid. When you see her in the hall say hi to her even if she doesn't replay back. Amd maybe after awhile she'll start saying it back to you and then you'll be firends. hope i helped
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I'm having a Halloween/ Birthday party today and I rented Amutiville Horror and Texas Chainsaw Massaccre. I was wondering are they really scary, like should I be watching the,? (i'm 13) (link)
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These movies are scary. I would try and pick some other movies are. there are movies out there that aren't scary and are really good for halloween.
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Ok. I like to answer questions but i can't figure out this one. I am a 13 year old female. I really like this guy at my school and I think he likes me. I've asked him out before but he said maybe and then never answered me. Last year he went out with a slu* and she used him and now he doesn't want to go out with anyone. Do you think he still likes me? He says that i am really hott but he didn't get over the slu* from last year. We are like BFF's! What do you think? I need your help. (link)
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Well if he likes you that's good. Let him try and get over this other girl before you tell him how you feel. Because if you tell him and he's not over her and you try to get together you might get hurt and then you'll lose you bf. So just be their for him. He might like it just being firends with you right know. Give him some time.
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I'm 13/f and i have strech markd on my thieghs and weigh 113 lbs so am i fat and if so what are some tips to get trim. (link)
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Well you could start and us coco butter on your stretch marks but if will take awhile for them to disappear. Well to help your self to lose weight you could walk. Start walking a little at a time and stretch before you start. Take a radio and a friend/or mom. I hope I helped.
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okay, so i REALLY like this guy.. and he says he likes me.. and we are liked "together" but not going out.. like we are basically dating.. but we have a commitment like we cant date other people. and he comes to my house every friday and he like kisses me and holds my hand and stuff.. but he will hardly ever hug me at school.. is he just playing a gam? (link)
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I don't think that your b/f now matter how you look at it. He's not playing you. Your boyfriend is probably one of those guys that doesn't like to show his affection in public. Be happy that he made a commitment not to date other people that is a good thing. Hope that things go good for you.
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my friend is a freak how can i stop her from going out with this guy who is bisexual? (link)
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If your friend doesn't mind being with this guy who is bisexual then you shouldn't try and stop her. I would just be her firend and be there for her. Maybe down the line she might break up with him and if you get in the way you might lose her as a friend. Just stand back and be a friend. If this guy isn't cheating on her and if faithful then whose to tell her who she can and can't be with.
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lately i've had this huuuuuge crush on this guy, but i dont think he likes me... its really bugging me becuz he sends me all the signals a boyfriend would to send to his girlfriend at school. i really like him and hes really cute. i'm gonna invite him to my halloween party, but i'm not sure how to tell him about it. (link)
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Ok. what you could do is give him an invitation and put you number on it and when you give it to him say, I was wonderig if you would like to come to my halloween party. If he say yes then when he gets there start flirting him and see where it goes. Maybe he's one of those shy guys and you need to give hima little push.
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i'm 16. i'm on birth control. my boyfriend of two years and i had sex the other night and he came inside me. i was just wondering if it is 100% positive that you do get pregnant if you get came inside of, and the whole birth control thing. thanks in advance for thoes who help. i'll rate good. (link)
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Well if your taking your birth control at the same time and you haven't miss a doze you should be ok. but next time you should make him wear a condom os that your not worring. But I would wait a week and then take another test to make sure. But the pill it's 100%. kope i helped
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I am a 25 year old female with a huge life decision to make.I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. And i love him with all my heart, he's pretty close to being perfect. Hes kind, caring, smart, athletic, he's the whole package. And of chorse im not satisfied. My problem is, i still have a crush on my high school crush...i know it sounds silly because high school was 8 years ago for me, but yes there has not been a single day since high school where i have not thought about him in some way. After high school we kept in touch at college for about a year, and after that we kinda lost touch. But that didnt stop me from thinking about him all the time. I always compared every guy to him, and every guy i dated i always told myself if "Bob" (my high school crush) were to ever come to me and say he wanted to be with me i would breakup with whomever i was with and date him. About 2 and a half years ago me and "bob" found each other again. We began talking again, it was like we never lost touch, we picked up where we left off. The problem was that i had a boyfriend whom i really care about and love. "bob" on the other hand was single. And since i already believe that him and i are soulmates i thought that was a sign, because he is so gorgous that him being single wasn't bound to last long. Just like high school every female that lays eyes on him instantly is drawn to him. I have opted not to tell him my feelings because of my boyfriend. Him and i still talk on occassion, and maybe once or twice a year we hang out and catch up on "life". I have found out from sources that he too once had a crush on me in high school. And when we do see one another he always asks if i still have a boyfriend and when he finds out i do, he asks if im happy, and if i see a future with me and my boyfriend. He has been in and out of a few relationships, but i know the time is going to come soon when he thinks he has found the person he wantst to spend the rest of his life with, and when that happens i would have lost my chance to tell him anything forever. And this just kills me because i want him so badly. I want to be able to tell him everything on my mind. I want to tell him that i love him...yes i do love him, but i cant tell him that cause its not fair to my boyfriend. But at the same time this is just killing me inside. All i want to do is just get everything out in the open so i can have a sense of relief. Im curious how he would respond to my feelings. i truely believe he is my soulmate, i have always been drawn to him. i believe he is the person im suppose to marry. Whenever i have dreams of him (which are often) i try to hurry and go back to sleep just so i can be with him. What do you suggest? am i crazy? is this jsut a silly crush?...well i dont think its just a crush because the crush evolved to me loving him....and you see the reason wny i never told my crush my feelings when i was single was because i am really shy, and i thought that he was too perfect for me and that he could have any girl he wanted so why would he choose me....and i use to push him away big time a few years back because i was affraid of my feelings for him, and i was affraid of getting hurt if i told him. But now i feel an almost need to tell him my feelings just so i can get on with my life. What do i do? please suggest.... (link)
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Well for startes your not crazy. I'm was and am in the same place that you are in. I have always thought of my high school crush and I tryed to find him but couldn't. But your crush is there. If I were you I would tell Bob how you feel about him.After you tell him you might be able to move on with your new boyfriend. Everyone told me that your suppose to be with the one the is your soulmate. But I don't think that is true. Hope I helped.
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Well, i'm 17/f and yes, i like this girl. We've been friends for a couple of years. Last year she knew i liked her a couple of times but things just couldn't work out. Now i'm afraid i like her again. Should i tell her and risk being hurt again??? Or should i just let it go and never know??? And if you say i should tell her, can you give me a pretty good description on what exactly to say???? I can't afford to mess up again. Any help would be appreciated y'all!! Thanx! (link)
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Well I wouldn't tell her again. I would just try and be friends with her. It's better to be firends then to try and date. Because if it doesn't work out you'll lose her as a friend too. So I would just not tell he and find someone that will make you happy.
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She is not very social. She is not very "cool." She wants to be my friend but I don't like her very much. She is weird. She got off the bus crying the other day because people call her a lezbo and a homosexual. I asked her why she was crying and she said she didn't know what thoughs words mean. I am 1 year younger than her. She is a geek...HELP ME! How do I a) get her away from he and/or b) make her cooler shall I say. (link)
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For startes you could try and be nice to her. One she probably is a nice person when you get to know her. Her parents might not have the money to get her the nice cloths that she needs. maybe you could try and help her. May you could show her how to dress and to do her hair or just try and sticking up for her. And maybe the other perople will stop but maybe not. But if she had one friend maybe she could get some self esteem to do something. I hope I helped.
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well..this is how it goes:(sorry if longg)
i am (15/f) and i am possibly in love with 1 of my good friends (18/m). one day, we were in his basement and we started to dance together..(nothing unusual) but this time he put on a slow song..CRAZY by KC & J0J0..he asked me to dance with him to that song..and of course..i said yes..so we started dancing together..and in the middle of the song,i looked into his eyes..and he looked into mine..and yes..we kissed..we stopped dancing..and i turned off his stereo..and was about to walk up the stairs to leave..I WAS IN TOTAL SHOCK..and he grabbed my hand..then picked me up and he kissed me..we were making out for about another 2 hours..and then he drove me home..the next day at skool..((me--sophmore..him--senior)) we were on the back stairs of the skool and he asked me if i wanted to skip with him and i said okay..we skipped skool and went to his house...we went into his bedroom and we were kissing..then thingsz started gettin hot and he reached under my shirt and started unclipping my bra. I let him do that..then he started rubbin my boobs..i let him do that too..i started unzipping his pantsz and yeh..it happend..we had sex..now we go out and we have been for 6 months..the thing is now..his ex-gf keeps calling him and he talks to her..
my question is:
am i losing my man as well as my bestfriend?
sincerely,
confusedddddd (link)
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Ok.Trust is important in a relationship. If you don't trust him and you confront him, he might get mad at you. But if you do confront him just ask him if he wantes to get back with his ex or be with you. I don't think your losing your boyfriend or your man. This girl probably knows that your dating him and is trying to get break you up and I wouldn't let her. Hope I helped.
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ok i had sex on my period, couple of days after and that sunday it was the first time i go on the pill can i get a preganant? and if yes how can i b sure ? is my period going to come is thier any danger for the baby if i keep using the pill ? please help me i need all the info i can get it will realy help me with this agony i have... (link)
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The say that you can get pregnant when you have your period. before you even think about getting on the pill you should talk to you doctor and let them know because they would probably test you and see. And yes if your on the pill there could be a risk to the baby.the only way you can be sure if your not pregnagnt is go to your doctor. hope I helped.
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