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Hey I'm Jodie. I'm pretty awesome at giving advice to everyone.
I dont beat around the bush though. I am blunt and sarcastic, and I'll tell you exactly what I think. Get used to it. If you rate me low, it doesn't break my heart.
I haven't had the best life. Its had its stressful times. But I use that to my advantage now. Its made me a wiser person.
I'm funny, and outgoing. I'm generally a pretty happy person. And I'll try my best to answer any question that you throw on the table.
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PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! I REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!
I am so sorry but this might take me ages to expalin...PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!
hi, i really need some advice....
it's just when I was in primary school I fell in love with a boy called Ian............
It's just wnen I met Ian in primary school i grew more and more fond of him until i knew I was in love with him. However I wasn't sure whether he actually LOVED me or not altough there were times when I felt like he did.
It's just that in his final year of primary (he was a year younger than me you see) whilst I was at high school. My sister was then at his school and she told me that he said to someone 'I'm not going to some rubbish school like 'name of school' Community High school'. Now if he'd have LOVED me would't he have been more upset about not going to my school?? I am just VERY confused.
Also I found out from a source (it would take me too long to expalain how I found this out) that he had said to his friends (after I had sent him countless Valentine's cards) that Ian had said (about me)in a not particularly nice voice by the way she said it(that's if she was telling the truth) 'there's this girl who REALLY fancies me'. But then I also found out that he had apparantly turned down an invitation to go out with another girl because he had said he liked. (also i heard he had gone around saying that i was really clever!!!!...by the way this is one coment which makes me think that he wouldn't fancy me when he knows about me getting no GCSEs) But if he'd have LOVED me would he have said something like 'there's this girl that REALLY fancies me' and ''I'm not going to some rubbish school.........'??? which i didn't think were very nice things to say.
I can't tell...and would appreciate an outside opinion. Do you think he LOVED me (like I loved him) or do you think he just fancied me. is the only way to have found out/find out to have asked/to ask him. It's just I really would appreciate your opinion on this (I just need an honest answer no matter what that may be) Do you think he LOVED me or not...or only fancied me???If he loved me then why would he have chosen to go to the private school rather than my school??Or would the only way to tell be to ask him. (which I can't possibly do) It's just I loved him. can you offer me any advice on this...as I really cannot sort my head out...and cannot work it out.
Just for reference this below is simply a record of the whole situation I have included it because without it you might not understand the above question.
My Problem is this:
When I was in primary school I fell in love with someone called Ian.
But then when it came too high school, he got sent to a private all boy's school far away and I got sent to the local comprehensive.
I thought I'd NEVER see him EVER again and despaired.
Around about the same time my Grandmother of whom I was VERY close to died. She practically raised me.My mother never seemed to bother with me. However I never noticed this neglect (by my mother)until my Grandma died.
I noticed that I was very unsupported by my mother and in general uncared for. Sometimes she was also emotionally abusive towards me--sometimes she could be so nasty she'd make me cry.
Because of all these things(the death of my Grandma, the loss of Ian and also the uncaring attituse at home) I began to feel very depressed.
Then I made a TERRIBLE mistake:
Somedays I felt so low I found it almost impossible to think about the future and sometimes couldn't find the will-power to get up in the mornings.I started to refuse to go to school asn I felt so low. I'd been bullied VERY VERY badly at the primary school i went to (before I moved to the one Ian was at)which also made me quite nervous of people and scared of school too.However I recieved no help, no counselling or anything(do you think this was neglect?)
I refused to go to High school on-and-off for the first three years by which time I was REALLY REALLY very behind in my work.I then refused to go to school altoghether as I couldn't cope any more with my life. I was SEVERELY depressed and wasn't thinking logically. I ended up having 5 measly hours of home tuition per week, for the next two years which should have been spent in school. Unsurprisingly I then failed all my GCSEs (apart from one, where I got a 'C' in English)I felt so depressed. I then have stayed at home doing nothing for the past two years as I have felt too embarrassed to face the world.
However this is my problem:
I now want??/need to go to college. However I have just found out thet the college I wanted to attend is right next door to the top educational sixth form which Ian goes to. If I go there then I will definantely bump into him…but the thing is he will NEVER EVER be interested in me now (even if he used to be when I was ok).how on earth canI explain to him WHY I refused to go to school? He’s going to think I am a bad person .
But the thing is he's studyiwng 'A' levels at a top sixth form college. And I .....will probably have to go on an Entry level course and learn really basic stuff like how to cook, use public transport etc(basically for absolute dim-wits)
He'll NEVER EVER be interested in me now. He's in a different league to me. He's so clever.but this is killing me. I wish I could be with him more than anything in the world but as soon as he finds out that's it....my dream...dead......finished
Also even if I go to a different college, it's inevitable that i'll bump into him whilst out and about anyway.(I just can’t believe that I DIDN’T THINK ABOUT THIS years ago….i just wasn’t thinking properly) But If I ignore him then he'll think I'm not interested i him, when I am. But if I talk to him he'll not like me anyway when he finds out what I've done. He'll think I;m a terrible person.
The thing is (and I really need your help on this) HOW ON EARTH DO I EXPLAIN TO HIM ABOUT HOW I REFUSED TO GO TO SCHOOL--AND WORST OF ALL WHY? HE'LL NOT THINK VERY WELL OF ME ONCE I'VE TOLD HIM. I'M not going to lie. I need him to know the truth.my other problem is that when I refused to go to school--s did my sister(only she didn't have a valid reason) she simply wouldn't go just because I was off school and didn't see why she should go either.HOW ON EARTG CAN I EXPLAIN TO HIM HOW MY SISTER IS NOW IN THE SAME SITUATION I'M IN?HE'LL THINK MY FAMILY ARE AWFUL. I AM 18 YEARS old now btw...and am getting severely worried about my future
THIS IS THE END OF EXPLAINING THE WHOLE SITUATION
. i JUST NEEDED TO FIND OUT THE ANSWER TO THE QUESTION :
Do you think Ian ever loved me or just fancied me??? PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PLEASE COULD YOU REPLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM REALLY NOT UNDERSTANDING HIM!!!! can you offer me any advice?? Did he love me?? Do boys love girls in a different sort of way to what girls love boys?? Or did he simply not love me?? His comments are confusing.PLEASE HELP!!!!! Did he love me.......or not...? This is really important to me. PLEASE be honest!!!!!!!
I also have another question: it's just I have thought about asking Ian if he would consider going out with me when he comes back from University.(by which time I might have been able to catch up a bit in college and might not be so dim) What do you think about this idea?
Also I really need to ask you: What could/should i have done when I first started high school and got seperated from/lost ian? How could I have held on to him? please be honest. what things could I have tried to hold on to him? :
PLEASE HELP ME ON THIS AS IT IS REALLY IMPORTANT TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by the way i live in England. I am so so sorry this writing is so long by the way :( but please could you help
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Hey.
That was veryvery long. And it was kind of hard to understand so bare with me.
Ok so basically you've been in love with this guy ever since you were young..
Don't dwell on the past..dont ask what you should've done back in highschool, that wont help anything now.
Don't ruin your life by trying to avoid him, and akward moments with him. You will have to face him and if you really want to know the answers sit down with him, have a drink, catch up on things and talk things out.
Who knows, you might hit it off..if not..you will find someone better, just try and let go.
everything will work out for you. just dont give up, and dont dwell on the past.
Good Luck.
Hey i do not know if this is really a sex question but... Do you girls like having big butts? like does it attract boyz?? i have heard lotsa boys say they like big butts, not like obese butts tho. just a nice big lump. Boyz answer too,are you attracted to big butts (nice lumps on the back. not obese) and boyz would you rather have bigger boobs or bigger, nicer butt. and girlz do you like big butts? and would you rather have a big butt or big boobs.
Thanks lol
Every girl is different. Some girls hate having big butts and some girls would die for big butts. Same with the boobs thing. Some girls wish their boobs were smaller and some wish they were bigger. Thats why plastic surgery is so popular now a days because everything can be changed.
I dont think it matters though. Some guys will find you attractive, and other guys won't. Some girls are happy with their image, and some arent.
Just be happy with who you are, and you will find a guy who likes you for who you are.
okay.
does anyone remember the show that was on tv .. probably early morning about 5 years ago. it was on TLC but it could have been on other channels.
it was a man who would draw a picture with a black marker first then color it in. it was kind of like a drawing entertainment show.
i would really like to know what this show was called!
SOMEBODY HELP! thank you.
Hm. I'm not sure. I used to watch "Art Attack".
Is that the one?
im trying to loose about 30 pounnds
in 6 weeeks
which means i have to loose 5 pounds a week
but i dont know how to start it
i know you have to excerise and eat right
help?!
I think it would be pretty tricky to lose 5 pounds/week.
Every person is different, and if you just keep up with the excersising and eating well, you will reach your goal. Maybe not in the amount of time you wanted, but you can do it!
I suggest buying some sort of workout video. They can be pretty specific on the area you want to work on. And if you can rather walk somewhere other than driving, then walk. And dont eat lots of junk food! Eat healthy fruits and vegetables.
There is the nutritional info on the back labels of most things so you will know the amount of fat in things.
Good luck!
Well I started dating this guy and we've only been dating 4 like 2 weeks but we talk less now than we did b4 we started going out and I hardly ever see him..and then theres this other guy I like and talk 2 like everyday and I see him more than my bf so I'm thinking about dumping the first guy 4 the 2nd one...but how do I let him down easy?? or should I just stay with him and see what happens??? Thanks!
If you arent happy with your current boyfriend, you shouldnt be with him.
If this other guy makes you more happy you should see what happens if you go out with him.
You've only been dating for two weeks, so it should be easier for him to let go.
Just talk to him and tell him how you feel like you are drifting apart. I wouldnt tell him about the other guy though.
Hope this helps.
tomorrow im getting acrillic nails. but how much does it usually cost?
The other advicenators are right:
$20-$40..
but also..you have to think of getting them filled every month so they dont look bad. That costs extra money.
and colors and decals cost extra.
Well, I want to loose 20 pounds by November 11 2006. My plan is ;
Breakfast- special K cerial.
Lunch- school lunch. witch is GROSS. so I will just drink water.
When i get home from school. - special K cerial.
Dinner- whatever my mom cooks =[. [usally healthy tho.]
walk a mile everyday
150 crunches.
only drink water. & diett drinks.
Thanks. I have been trying to loose weight for a while now.
2 healthy snacks during the day.
I can't brinng my own lunch.
Thanks =]
Well. You are on the right track!
Let me tell you, if you think you can handle eating special K cereal 2 times a day...every day..you will go nuts!
I had gallstones, so my diet was MAJORLY restricted, and if I ate any fatty foods, I would have a horrible attack. I had to live on rice and chicken, yes, I did lose weight, but I got so tired of rice, chicken, and yes..special K.
You can switch up the cereal in the morning, or have toast with jelly on it.. I would stay away from the chocolatey cereals tho lol.
You need to eat lunch. I dont know why you cant bring your own lunch, but you cant skip a meal, its not healthy. So I would suck it up and just try and eat some cafeteria food, try to pick out the healthiest stuff.
Some other snacks you can eat are: crackers and cheese (try some rice crackers, they are low in fat and good) fruit, vegetables or anything else that is light and healthy.
I dont think you NEED to walk a mile everyday AND do 150 crunches. That sounds like alot of work, and you might get discouraged and quit all together.
I would do something like..20 crunches, in the morning and night..and just walk as much as you can. Or go swimming, shoot hoops, ride bikes, or just get any excersise you can get outside.
Basically, just put down the junk food and opt for something healthy..and drinking water is great.
You can have some junk food..sometimes..just eat it in moderation, and not all the time. Think of it as your award. Also, dont get so caught up in losing a bunch of weight. Dont worry, not many of us are in PERFECT shape. lol
Good luck.
I hope it helps!
P.S--> you can check the nutritional value on the back label of most anything. If something has lots of fat in it.. ex. 8 grams/ 1 chocolate bar..i wouldnt be having too many chocolate bars.
also..peanuts have lots of fat in them. they are also addictive!
can anyone give me some reasons they like softball? plz answer! i seriously need help! im doing homework and i have to write about reasons why i like it and i dont play softball so i have no reason..thanx!
Well. I wish my homework was writing a paper about why softball is fun. lol..anywho..
Softball is less harsh than hardball. Its a bigger ball, and it is usually used in slow pitch so its more..laid back. Hardball is a small ball, and its overhand pitching and more intense lol.
Its fun because
-you are on a team, so you make new friends because your working on a team.
-Its good excersise. Your running, and always using your arms and legs.
-You can also get your frusterations out by hitting the ball as hard as you can with the bat, or throwing the ball as hard as you can.
-Its basically just a fun sport. And even just tossing the ball back and forth with a friend is fun, or tossing the ball and hitting it back with a bat it fun!
You should try it sometime!
Hope I helped!
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im 15 and im going to be 16 in feb. but im trying to think of a place to work. i want it to be a place thats not boring and fun instead but also pays good with flexable hours bc i travel alot on weekends for travel sports and have practices alot. any ideas? thanks.
Well it depends where you live.
Just look around any stores, even if there is no help wanted signs on the door, ask anyways if they are hiring.
Some towns have a hire a student, where you can sign your name up and people will phone you if they need their lawn mowed or sidewalk shoveled or etc.
If you live in a small town like me, where there arent many options, any job that you can get, you should take it!
A part time/ afterschool job isnt really supposed to be fun and exciting with a great pay and flexible hours. Especially for teens.
This should motivate you to get a good education so you can grow up and take something and work somewhere you like so you arent stuck bagging groceries forever.
Hope this helps!
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I am a 15 year old girl in the 10th grade. i have been under alot of stress. I am pregnant, My parents are getting a divorce, My mom and i are moving out into an apartment, My boyfriend and i have started to argue you alot. Althoug it got better for a couple weeks until this weekend. Also i lost alot of friends because i was pregnant. i had to put up with alot of people saying rude things. or that i better not walk the streets or ill get shot etc. i started cutting to decrease the stress and let my problems just be released i find that it helps but i need to stop. please help me! tell me how to stop.
I'm sorry you have to go through with this at such a young age.
Know your options about the pregnancy.
Either keep it, abortion, or adoption.
If you really want to keep the baby, you will have to juggle alot of things like school, money, your health, and the babies health. Babies are expensive, and I don't think teenagers know the real cost of it. There are diapers, clothes, bedding, medicine, food and much more.
Its hard to stay in school, but you need an education to get somewhere in life, especially if you are going to keep the baby, you will need a job to pay for this child, and you cant get many good jobs without an education anymore.
I'm not telling you to keep it or not, thats totally up to you, but if you think your life is stressful now..with a divorce and such, think of it with a baby in it too.
As for the divorce. I'm sorry to hear that. Divorce sucks. My parents are divorced too, but cutting yourself isnt going to help. Things will get better..in time. Try talking to someone..a trusted adult, or a counciler.
People will talk. People always talk. Theres always going to be rumors, or bad things said about you. I'm sorry that you lost some friends, but the friends who are there for you are the true friends you can really talk to.
I hope this helps.
Don't lose contact with your family, even though it seems like they are breaking apart.
Family will help you through this.
ok.. i have an 8 year old sister & she is very developed 4 her age. if u know wht i mean.. and she has a boyfriend who is 14.. which is not so unusual cuz she always dates older guys.. well.. my parents dont know about this boyfriend of hers.. so it is even worse.. she makes out with him all the time.. adn i dont have a problem with that.. but last week she decided to have sex.. and now shes preganat! what do i do???
That is very rare for an 8 year old to be THAT devoloped.
Are you 100% sure she is pregnant? Buy a home pregnancy test, OR go with her to the doctors to get a more reliable test done.
She needs to know her options: Keeping it, abortion or adoption.
I dont know what she wants, but I think keeping it would be a mistake because she is only 8, and trying to raise a baby when your even 16,17,18 years old can be hard, never mind when your 8.. I couldn't even imagine what she would go through.
So I highly recommend either adoption or abortion.
Some people say abortion is wrong but I personally think without it, alot of girls' lifes would be ruined.
Good luck with it all.
Be there for her and support her.
She and her boyfriend will probably need counciling too, this is a very life changing event.
hey i was wondering if this would be a good outfit for the first day of school.
this shirt : http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=463&itemID=45945&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=
this skirt : http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90046&navroot=womens&productId=0315_1725
& these shoes : http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls/Etnies&id=28596
thanks xo
It looks good to me.
Some schools have pretty strict dress codes, so if you are following that you should be good for the day.
In my school, if you arent following the dress code, they will make you put on some ugly baggy clothes that they have at the school..and no one wants that, especially the first day of school. lol
I have recently found a cat and her three kittens living under my neighbors shed. Me and my friends have been feeding them cheese and tuna, but we are running low on that. So I was wondering what other things cats likes to eat other than tuna and meat, is there any type of bread they'll like or vegetable. Anything would work..Also the kittens do approach me but everytime I try to pet them they run away but the mother isnt afraid how do I get them to allow me to pet them?
You cant feed kittens alot of cheese and tuna.
Or dry cat food, it will hurt their stomachs..wait til they are a bit older..or you can get some type of dry cat food that was made special for kittens.
Really small kittens need their mothers milk.
And older cats quite enjoy any cat food..lol
Cats will get sick if all you give them is tuna and cheese, you need to give them some cat food, either the dry or wet stuff will do fine.
The mother will probably catch a bird or mouse too, the basic instinct will probably kick in.
Just try every day to pick up the kittens, lure them out with food and try and pet them, be slow though, they dont like fast movements.
I've never heard of anyone getting any deadly diseases from petting a cat..maybe from them scratching you with dirty claws, but even thats rare to get a disease from their claws.
Just be careful, if they cut you deep maybe go the hospital for a tetnis shot..I've handled many farm kittens and i've never gotten a disease from them scratching me.
If you think you want to keep the mother, then thats good..get her spayed and checked out, and try and give away the kittens to good homes.
Even though you probably want to keep the cute little kittens..they do grow up and they will breed with each other..even though it is inbred they will do it and you will have more kittens to deal with.
So try your hardest to give them away..you can probably get away with keeping one or 2 without MUCH hassle but i would get them spayed/neutered too. But that gets costly.
Hope this helps
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What exactly does "crunk" mean?
I assume it means getting drunk, or high...but I am really not sure.
Guess I am getting old!
Like everyone else says.
It means crazy and drunk.
So when someone says LETS GET CRUNK
They mean..lets go get CRAZY DRUNK.
Also, there is a form of crunk dancing, where you basically dance crazy to usually hip hop or rap music.
Hope this helps
:-)
Hi. Um I have a problem with excess body hair. Mostly on my tummy and back. Is this normal for girls or not. Because most of my friends don't have any or their just too light to see. I'm armentian and I have dark brown hair and you can easily see mine. It's really embarrassing. Please help.
This is so common.
Most girls have hair on their stomach and back, but like you said, some lucky ones are so light colored that you cant even see it.
You can try waxing it, or perhaps you can try dying it lighter? But I would'nt do that myself.
Go to a salon and ask. Don't worry, they have had weirder places to wax/ dye.
In time you probably wont even care about it, because this is very common for lots of girls.
well... im male. 15. ive given oral sex and fingered girls...but thats as far as ive gone. im uncircumsized and i feel just a bit awkward with it... should i be worried about being turned down for a blowjob or sex just because of that?
I dont think alot of girls care about it to be truthful..
If you want to do something with someone you care about then you shouldnt worry..if they really like you they wont care either way..
If you are just with some chick one night..for just one night only..they might have higher standards..so they might care more..but you should'nt be looking for that..it just makes more problems.
So find someone that you really like..and you should respect her, and if she really cares about you she probably won't mind that you are uncircumsized.
Hope this helps :-)
well i went to the docotors and i found out my older isster weighs less then me.and im not in the greatest shape ever. so i thought i' go ona healthy diet. my questiosn are
1)what are some healthy foods but taste good to eat for a diet?
2) how many times a day should i eat?
3) i always get lazy and dont feel exerciseing how can i stop this?
4) how do i curve the craveings?
5)what exercises should i do and for how long?
oh im 13/f
First things first..don't overdo the whole diet thing to fit an image.
If you feel like toning up, or losing a couple dress sizes then ok, but dont overdo it, your still young, nature still has to take its course.
1) some healthy, good tasting foods are any fruits or vegetables. They make a good snack. Stay away from really greasy foods, and really fatty foods. You can eat them sometimes, but remember to eat them in moderation (so just eat small amounts of junk foods, on a special occasion)
If you crave something crunchy, like potato chips, opt for something like rice crackers, or rice chips. They have way less fat, but lets face it, they dont taste exactly like pringles but they do the job.
2) You should ALWAYS eat breakfast, even just a bowl of cereal and orange juice will do. It will kick your day off in the right direction and give you a boost all day. And have a healthy lunch, like a sandwich, a piece of fruit, juicebox, and maybe a couple carrots. When you come home from school you can have a snack like crackers and cheese. Just keep your snacks healthy. The fatty snacks are what will get ya. And then just eat a normal supper. Like chicken with rice, and some salad. Try not and eat anything past 9:00 pm, have a light snack before bed and it'll be good.
3.) All teenagers are lazy. lol. But if you feel like you are over lazy, go out for a walk with your friends maybe. Or you can shoot hoops with them, go bike riding or go swimming. Try and find a fun activity to do, so it doesnt seem like you are excersising.
4.) If you feel like you are craving something, but you know you shouldnt eat it, drink a glass of cold water, it will fill you up. Or you can try brushing your teeth, it will make you lose the craving. Try not watching lots of tv all of the time, because you will probably crave more junk food while watching the tube.
5.) Don't go nuts with the excersizing. I wouldn't be ordering any ab blasters or anything like that over tv. If you feel like you want to exersise, then try the going for a walk with friends, shooting hoops, etc..what I said before...
Or you can try doing crunches (sit ups) in the morning or night.
Basically..dont waste your teen years trying to be in the best shape..not alot of us are in the best shape..so it doesnt really matter if you are a bit curvy. Just have fun, and get outside, and dont overindulge on the junk food.
P.S -> peanuts have ALOT of fat in them..I would stay away from them AND sunflower seeds because they get addictive and the fat count is waay up.
Just look on the nutrition facts on the back of the label for the fat count and such.
Sorry it was long.
Hope it helps :-)
13/f I dated one of my best friends for like five days about 2 months ago. When I broke up with him, he took it really hard, he wasnt himself for weeks and I felt awful. About three weeks ago, I started liking him again and I told him and we started going out again. I now really don't like him like that, but I just can't brake up with him. I can't bear to hurt him again, plus all my friends would hate me. When we first started going out they all were like you better not hurt him again. I don't know what to do. The guy is like so in love with me it's not even funny. What should I do?
Well, if you arent happy, you shouldnt be with him.
He may take it really hard but he will get over it eventually..
Just try to let him down as easily as possible, but dont beat around the bush too much.
Just say how you feel.
As for your friends, they should'nt get mad at you for your descion. They arent the ones in this relationship.. if they get mad at you for hurting him, then they dont sound like good friends.
Basically, your 13 years old, sorry to say but guys will come and go, and your heart will be broken many times in your highschool life, but broken hearts heal..and your boyfriends will too.
i rolled my left ankle and it sort of hurts. I can walk on it, but it hurts when i turn my ankle in. I'm positive i didn't break anything or fracture it because it just feels a little sore. So i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make it heal pretty quickly because cross country starts soon and i don't want it to bother me. thanks =]
Well, theres a chance that you might have to skip a few cross country runs and let it rest.
Basically just do what everyone else has told you, keep off it, elevate it, and put ice on it.
I found that wrapping a tensor bandage on it will help with the pain when your walking too.
Hope this helps!
can anyone give me advice on acting..i want to get better...i have theater at school and i love it..just want to know what makes a great actress..thanksss
I personally think that a good actresses is confident, strong, and imaginative.
Practice your skills by doing improv with your class or maybe a bunch of friends. If you are in a theatre class at school they should have improv warmups. Dont be shy, if you think you are going to say something stupid, say it anyways!
I think if you can make people laugh, you are a good actress, because making people laugh is easier than doing a dramatic role. If you can master the art of making people laugh, then your confidence will be up and you can try out for a dramatic play, and if you practise enough, you will probably do just fine.
Just remember to be outgoing and confident. You will do fine.