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Hey Im really scared.
I am 14 and my mom's friends's son, who is 17,came over to stay with us for the night. My mom went to get groceries and the boy insisted and pulled off my clothes and started to have sex. Today, I took the test. results are, yes, Im pregnant. The guy I don't know his name and im scared to tell my mom. Please help (link)
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did he rape you? or did you want it too
please e-mail me at ppookie13@aol.com and tell me more about what happend
it will be hard to tell your mom but i know yo can do it i do feel sorry for you
I hope I helped
Love always as a friend when needed
Jessica
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so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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well if he forsed you and did have sex with you that means if he inserted his you know what into yout hen yes this is rape if not then he was jsut doing what guys do being wrong and perverted you can tell somone if you would like but only when you are ready
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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f (link)
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to me this is sord of rape and it is nasty that he didn't let you clean up that is nasty you should talk to him about it and tell him how scared youi are
I hope I helped
Jessica
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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then. (link)
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yes this is rape
I hope I helped
Jessica
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hey i feel like all my firends are ignoring me and when i try to talk they dont hear me i have this one bff and we always talk but i still feel ignored what should i do??
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you should try to tell them what you feel and then if that doesn't work ignore them and then they will ask why and then you all can talk about it
I hope I helped
jessica
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So. I know gross but i think it is safe to say this is mostly populated with girls so you all in some way sometime in your life come into a problem simular to this.
So my boyfriend and I have been sexual active for 6 months and a month ago we stopped using condoms because it was comfortable for either him and or i. Sex without a condom was much more comfortable for both him and i. But I do not recomend it to anyone, use protection...Anyways after the first time we did that I got a urinary track infection, which i didnt go to the doctors for because it wasnt life threatning or anything. Anyways after a couple days it got worse, i was getting white discharge all the time when i used the rest room or when i was just walking around i felt leaking...about two weeks later it got worse, i was ichty down there every once and awhile and the white discharge increased and it started to get an oder. Well I douched and started taking care of myself as much as I could and it went away. While having the UTI i was still having sex but it didnt seem to bother it. Well today after intercourse he noticed thick white discharge on him and I on me. I smelled it but it didnt really have an oder at all and I was very confused, so i went to the restroom and whipped and noticed spotting of blood im suppose to start my period tomorrow so i just wrote it off to that and put a tampon in but when i took it out, it was completly dry not one thing on it. Well later last night we had sex again, but the thing is I orgasmed more than the first but I didnt have the thick white discharge this time...I thought that was kind of weird.
See I was thinking could it be, because we are having sex without a comdom and my body is just getting use to it. Or is it what my boyfriend said...that we dont have lube so he was rubbing me too much and maybe tearing me a little and that could be the reason but I dont know how it could be...
Im very confused. Please dont tell me to go see a doctor i cant afford to no health insurance and Im just wondering if it should be something to be totally freaked out on?
if you have any advice let me know. i will rate you very high...thank you for your time have a great day...and sorry if this grossed you out. (link)
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I think you are pregnant and the blood was spotting so take a pregnancy test
I hope I helped
Jessica
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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
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I don't know what you should do i think try it and if you like ti like that then keep it but she mabey will want you for something else that you have and think of your family if they won't like it then i wouldn't do it
think of what you would do to your family
I hope I helped
Jessica
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Okay, I know that I'm probably not even suppose to ask this kind of question on here. But I really need some advice, so hopefully it'll be okay!! Well my boyfriend has tried fingering me like twice and it hasn't been successful yet because everytime when he gets his finger to a certain point, it hurts really badly, so I tell him to stop. I HATE PAIN! Now, I've never wore tampons and I've never fingered my own self. So we both talked about this & we figured out that it's probably my hymen and it hasn't been "stretched" or whatnot yet, so it's hurting and in order for him to finger me properly, he has to stretch my hymen and I have to deal with the pain, correct? Just so you know, he understand that it hurts and he hasn't tried FORCING his fingers in me or anything like that. Also, could me being sort of nervous make my muscles tense up and make it hurt worse? Anyway, is this really what the problem is.. my hymen? If so.. what can I or HE do to make this experience better and less painful? Thank you!! (link)
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mabey you should try taking a tampon inserter and stretch your hymen my putting it up in there or something
I hope I helped
JEssica
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Hey Columnists,
OK, here's the deal. I am 13, and I am in 7th grade. My best friend,(9th grade) has been my best friend sence we were like 2 years old. When I was in about 2nd grade, my friend(4th grade), her brother(5th grade), played "Truth or Dare." What we did was dare each other to get naked, and then he would touch us. Well I have had a HUGE crush on him sence I was in 1st grade. This guy is in 10th grade, and on the computer he asked me if I wanted to play truth or dare with him again, but this time just me and him and i can't tell my friend. I said I don't know and signed off. I know that was him on his screename becuase he asked me in person, I pretened I did'nt here. I want to do it, but I can't let my friend know and thats very hard for me...becuase she is my BEST FREiND! Should I do it? or not? THANKS! (link)
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you should do it you want to but let me warn you things can go to far and stuff and stuff that you don't want to happen could happen so watch out]
I hope I helped
Jessica
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ok well this guy that i like fingered me and i dont really shave my vagina well i shave it but not my triagnle part but i dont trim it but im not sure if he minds it or not what do u think both guys and girls....13/f (link)
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ok you should trim and shve you bikini line
I hope I helped
Jessica
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When I go to the bathroom and get rady to wipe I aways look @ my underwear and every time I do they is this whitish Yellowidh hard crust stuff what is it and what should I do? (link)
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ok it is called dish charge and you get it there is no controlling it but you can buy pantyliners and they help it so it wont get in your underwear they are just like pads but thinner and for dish charge
I hope I helped
Jessica
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I have use pads ever since I first got my period and I have never even thought about using a tampon. I think I want to try them, but I have heard very bad things about them. I heard they hurt when you put it in, and that they can give you diseases. I am really confused on what to do. Should i just stick to pads? (link)
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k listen tampons are not bad
they only hurt when you insert them if your hymen hasn't been streched yet
They can give you a really rear disease called Toxic Shock Sydrom it can kill you
I use tampons i am 14
I hope I helped
Jessica
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Alright. How old do you have to be to get an abortion? I know that you can get it done at any age, but do you have to have a parent with you or can you have an adult 18 or older?
I'm 14. I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or anything. Just incase. And I don't really need you to tell me that I'm a slut, skank, or whore because I had sex with my boyfriend of a 1/2 year. I would like someone that has had an abortion to answer this question, if that's possible.
Thanks alot,& I rate.
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come on you don't want an abortion if i could i would like to beg you not to get an abortion figer out something that will not be killing your baby please
I hope I helped but i also want you not to get an abortion please
thanks Jessica
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hi i just want to know that can we have sex during pregnancy, if yes then till which month,
or if no then why.
please answer me.
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yes you can have sex when you are pregnant I think yoiu can anytime
I hope I helped
Jessica
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if it kind of smells down there is that normal? would shaving help? (link)
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buy some
Douche that helpes it is for that kind of stuff
shaving won't help that much sorry
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My dad has blood cancer and has been in the hospital for the past 6 months. His whole family is basically just waiting for him to die so they can get his money. None of them have even visited him in the hospital in the whole 6 months. Actually, his brother did--on his birthday. It's my mom's family that has been there for us and my dad. They don't want anything from my dad.
Everyone has been telling my mom to not even give them the chance at my dad's money if, god forbid, anything should happen to him. But we don't know if there is any legal way we can keep them from getting anything. Does anyone have any knowledge of this or any ideas?
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you need to get a will for him to sign and that means if he signs the will for you and your mom to get everythiong then you will
k I hope the best for you
tell your dad what you think or know what his family is up to
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Last night, my middle school had a dance. I finally got the courage to ask (let's call him "Will") Will, this guy I've really liked since April of last semester, to slow-dance. Well, the song was really short, and we're fairly good friends (we usually talk most of the time on AIM) so he said to me "Hey, Penelope, can I tell you a secret? I have a huge crush on Catherine." Isn't that awful? I feel terrible. And to top everything off, it's my birthday today too :( Is there anyone I can talk to? Because my friends don't really get it and neither do my parents. (link)
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you can talk to me just im me at
ppookie13
kay
It sound like you have had a bad night and i bet you feel so crappy today
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Is it normal to not be able to get over the guy you lost your virginity to? I lost mine to an asshole who completely used me as a bet and lied about how he was a virgin and "wanted to loose his virginity to me too" I can't get over him. It's making me depressed and I don't know if I'm overreacting or what? (link)
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this is toatally normal alls you need to do is find someone else that you love alot and share your secrets with and someday youi will forget all about the guy but you wan't forget what he did to you
find someone else you can love and care for
I hope I helped
jessica
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Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.
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k I perfer shave and trim rather then shaveing all off I have tried both
try shaving and trimming first
After that try shaving it all off
I think shaving it all off makes you look like a little kid again and lets say you have sex guys would look at you like you haven't started pubety
my advice to youi is shave and trim
but try both to see waht you like bett but I want to warn you that shaving it all off leaves a bunch of bumps and it grows back rather fast
I hope I helped
Jessica
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Hello my name is chelsey i am a 13/f i have this guy that i really really like and he really likes me and well honestly i have never really made out before and he has a lot of experiance and i don't know how to makeout!!! and he really wants to and i told him i wanted to too. And i mean i do but i'm scared because i don't know how to!!..Can someone please tell me the right way!! and not what to do and what to do!!!..PLEASE!! ~*I'LL RATE REALLY HIGH!!!*~
Thank you very much!!,
love you xox,
chel (link)
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k people tell me that you will know what to do when the moment comes but i don't know for sure because i have not kissed someone becuase i am sacred to do it to
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