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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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My new Advice Column is MartiniKisses23

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Hey, I went out with this guy and he was great. Me and him haven't talked a lot but, now we are again. I am started to like him a lot again, and I think I never got over him. 'cuz I really loved him a lot, and I still love him. I never wanted to break up, and everything seems so messed up. please help!

I'm srry i have that feeling to sometimes. Well I think that you should ask one of his friends if he still has any feelings left for you maybe you guys could go out with him again. And if you want him to notice that you like him..just be *FlIrTy* lol I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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andrea, ok i have this one friend and she has been pissing me off more than before and every time im talking to my boyfriend and my locker shes just really mean to her so i can never talk to him at school cause shes always tring to go by me and im most of the time talking to him. anyways i really dont want to be her friend but i dont know how to tell. i seriously can not stand her anymore and i dont know what to do!!! help thanx

have you tried to talk to her about this problem with her? you should explain in detail to her exactly what is pissing you off about her maybe something is going on in her life that is making her be like this. and if you really dont want to be friends with her you should tell her and not one of your peers tell her because then she might want to know why you dont want to be friends with her. or maybe you are talking to your boyfriend more than you are talking to her and she is feeling like she is being replaced with your boyfriend and it is getting to her now. well i hope I helped! Love xoxo-Andie

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Do you always bleed on your first time?

Some girls do..and some girls dont everyone is different so ya! if you didnt your okay and if you did than your okay! lol hope I helped! Love xoxo-Andie

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should i become anorexic? i am to fat, im 5ft 5in and 115lb my stomach is to big, i feel fat. i play soccer, basketball, and softball. i thought that that info might be helpful..

also am i fat (not compared to you, ingenral)

In general..NO!!! you are in the range for you height and weight i believe it is like 103- 145 so you are int he right spot! :) and NO!!! do NOT become anorexic..one of my cousins did that and her throut hurt soooooo bad and got VERY VERY sick..she is still recovering from anorexia from I think like 2 years ago..so dont!! If you want to lose weight (eventhough you dont need to) you should just cut back on all of the "fatty foods" and keep up your sports..eventhough you are supposed to have 8 glasses full of water..and if you dont do that now have your goal to start out my haveing 5 glasses each day or start at like 3 and then each day add a cup of water untill you get to 8 or more!..I hope I helped!!
*plz rate me!!*
Love xoxo-
Andie

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I am 13 and I have one child, I am pregnant again, from another man I am not sure who it is yet. I am also a lesbian... on the side :) I have had sexual intercourse with a few you can call them women/clients heheh I MEAN IM NOT A HOOKER!!! umm I really need your help because I don't want my mother to find out that I have one baby and another one coming, she doesn't even know I have one child, 'cuz I keep it at my partners house... One more thing I need help with is I have had a few sexual pleasurement with my teacher... I really need help. Thank you for you time. (maybe we can have some fun sometime)

(umm srry no..I'm not a lesbo..no offense) well I think your mom might know that you have one child unless you dont live there because she might realize that you have gotten *bigger* over nine months..!!! and well stop have sex if you dont want another kid and you dont want to get in trouble..and i advise you not to fuck your teaher...
Love xoxo-
Andie

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Does anyone know any downloading things that you can download music on, I've downloaded everything and I always get mp3's and i hate em. I want something that doesn't download mp3's.

I dont think that Limewire.com downloads any MP3s..and if it does tell me lol cuz I have it lol

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umm so i like this guy that i have liked for a really long time and i've asked him out like 1 1/2 ago and he said no so ya...but i liked him all last year and everyone knew and kinda made fun of me for it and said that he liked him but he really didnt so i felt horrible about it but now i like him again...and we talk and stuff but i dont want to tell him again cuz hes the one that told everyone last time and i have told him a lot in the past that i like him and i dont like telling people how i feel cuz i dont know there reaction and idk if he likes me help?

Hey! I dont think that people should make fun of you for going out wtih someone that you like. I dont think right now you should tell him that you like him again because he might tell everyone about it again and the same stuff might start to come out again. AND it doesnt matter how or what there reaction is if you tell them that you like him! I think you should wait a while before you go telling anyone so you know you are ready to tell someone and that you know for SURE that you like this boy. I hope I helped a little!
Love xoxo-
Andie

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My Best Firend went out with this kid for 2 years! they broke up this summer! The kid now is like im love with me and has really strong feelings for me! My BFF tells me to go out with him and everything. She has a new boyfriend and says it will not runin anything between us and we will still be bff but i dono HELPPP!

**I have feelings for him**

I think you should go out with him..I mean if your best friend has moved on and says its okay for you to go out with him than go out with him! lol..and obviously this guy is like in love with you and you have feelings for him too so it will be awesome! lol jk(ok...dont ask lol) I hope I helped! Plz rate me**
Love xoxo-
Andie

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Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!!

YES! ik exactly what you are taling about! I have a ceramic goldish one and I love it and it always has that stupid thing! lol what I do is I dont press together the two sides and hard as I do when I am at at the middle part. Like start out slow and get like harder pressing it untill you get to what you normally do! I hope I helped!
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Love xoxo-Andie

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this is gonna sound really stupid but i cant figure out how to get back to the page look and feel on my xanga. i have been looking adn searching for like a half hour now and im completely lost. plz help.

log in and once you get to your website go to the left side and it should be one of the fist ones on it! Hope I helped! Love ya!
Andie

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Ok, well, I got my period on Thursday, Its not the 1st time I got it cuz I have had it since I was 10. The question I have is how long do they usually last? Before, mine were about 7-9 days and this one has only been 3 and it isn’t heavy at all, like im done with it and I usually get really bad cramps and have really heavy flows ad ahad neither. Why is it so light and short this time???


No, im not pregnant and cuz Im still a virgin, im only 13… lol…

Hey well mine is kinda werid too lol [ i've only had it since January ] and ya i got my first one and then i didnt get it again for 5 months then i got it again and then the next month and i still dont have it and that is just me and i am a "beginner" lol i guess you can say..and one of my friends has had it for 3 years and it still isnt regualar lol so its okay lol and ya one of my friends is just like you they have it for only three days and some times you will get it for more than 3 days its okay so you are fine its just nothign to worry about! Love ya! if you have anymore questions I'm here! *rate me plz*
Love xoxo-Andie

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does anyone know any good poem sites? because i wanted to add some to mybuddy4u.....thanx in advanced...

www.firehotquotes.com are good hope i helped! < 3
Andie

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OK, I am 15 and I like this guy who is yonger then and he is only 13, do you think it is right to go out with a guy that is 2 years yonger then you. O, and by the way he looks like he is 16, but he isnt.

yes! that is fine! lol it might seem kinda werid to be going out with someone younger but it is completely fine! one of my friends paretns is the mom is like 50 or somethig and the dad is like 39 ..lol werid kinda? well I dont think it is lol so go ahead! lol Hope I helped!
Love xoxo-Andie

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Even though it has been like 3 months since my ex and I broke up, and we have both moved on. Well maybe not both, i still find myself getting jealous of his girlfirend. I dont like seeing them together. Why am i so jealous?? Thanks for you help!

Well it if kinda obvious hun..eventhough you probably dont want to believe it..you still have feelings for him..you should justbe happy for him that he has now moved on..BUT you never know he might be jealous of you and the feelings are still the same as yours do...I hope I helped!
love xoxo-Andie

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does anyone know any eyeshadow colors that would look really nice on a dark haired gurl? my face is sorta red all the time too so i duno why tho lol but i heard blue looks really bad on all blondes, but i have a silver and it looks cute.. any others? please!!

I think that like a really light pink wiht a little bit of glitter/shimmery type would be cute or a white shimmery..and silver always looks good but I think the best is [unless your complection is a little bit paler] charcoles and chocolate colors look really cute! lol I hope I helped!
Love xoxo-Andie

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o0k well you see i like this guy, that well my friends dont approve of. they say he's such a kid and he's immature and stuff. my friends go for the older, hot, guys with nice cars, this guy that i like well, his name is osama. funny huh? its actually kinda creepy, lol but well a while back, we're freshman, in the begginning of the year, he and my friend joe were in a fight, it was about a month ago and osama punched joe and things have been really shaky between them. but now i see him around and we make eye contact and i think i like him, i think about him a lot. my friends think im crazy and its 'just a 'phase' ' and stuff so yeah i dont know how to tell joe. osama doesnt even know who i am, our school is realy big. he's not cute or anything and i've never really talked tohim, but there's just something mysterious about him that gets me. but yesterday i told my friend if she knows him and she said yeah and i told her to find out if he has a gf and i told her i think hes pretty cute, and well today she told me she told him, and now today he went around asking everyone if they know me. he only knows my name. so hes trying to find me out, and i dont know what to do. i mean my friend joe, its gonna be tough on him and so what do i do about the whole situation? should i just come up to him sometime next time i see him and talk to him or should i forget about him or what? please help!?! ill rate you, thanks.

.p.s.i ii rate good!~!~`!!!! =)))))))

Well I think you should definatly talk to him! who cares if your friends dont approve of him! they aren't the ones that like him! [ and osama is a cute name! lol ] and Joe, if he is really a friend, he will respect you on who you go out with and if he gets pissed at you..it isnt your fault! you cant help if you like someone! i mean c'mon! lol and you should definatly try to talk to him becase then he will know who you are and you can be more ((*FlIrTy*)) around him and just be yourself otherwise i think he could probably tell if you are lieing or not...lol...so ya bottom line is i think that if Joe did get mad at you i think he is just jealous and ya you shouldnt just drop him like that because Joe and your other friends dont approve of him lol thats kinda gay..give him a chance and try to get to know him..try to find some stuff about him from people you know him and so you wont be like nervous about talking to him because then you will have stuff to say to him! lol well i hope I helped! *plz rate me!* if you have anything else..IM here for ya hun! :)
Love xoxo-Andie

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ok well i asked you that ? about the guy who makes me cry and shit, well hes saying all this shit to me, like if hes having a bad day he ALWAYS takes it out on me! but i dont want to loose him bcuz i love him so much but he makes me cry all the time..
i hate it!

Ya..I see that would be really hard I think you should talk to him and tell him that he is taking it out on you! and you guys are good friends and he shouldnt be doing that to you! and you shouldn;t have to cry about it, you didnt do anything!! lol thats pretty gay..and yes i see how you dotn watn to loose him because if he is that important then ya you wouldnt want to loose him..as i understand so far with you and him that i can tell that his is a big part in your life..and if he is then i would talk to him! lol well i hope i helped! *plz rate me!*
Love xoxo-Andie

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Ok so I've tried about four different legal, free ways to downlaod music but either they don't downlaod or I can't burn the music onto a cd. What do you think is a good, free, legal, music downlaoding program?

I have Limewire.com and I love it! lol idk if you can burn CD's though..if you find out how..tell me! lol I hope I helped!
*rate me*
Love xoxo-Andie

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I have straight hair (cuz i blow dry it straight) and its about medium length (not quite to the middle of my back). In the front it's angled and it starts just below my chin. I wash my hair every morning and blow dry it straight, but then after a while it starts getting dented in the front where its angled, i guess from putting it behind my ears. But even if i dont put it behind my ears, it still won't stay straight all day. Even if i straighten it that still wont work. How does everyone else get their hair to stay perfectly straight and frizz-free all day? (i especially need help with the front angles of my hair) Any ideas?

What I do Is blow dry it just like dry it then I use a straightner that I got at Target for 19$ i think and i love it! it works really good! and my hair has that kinky thingy too in my hair and it makes it go away for a couple of hours but if you want it to go away longer use Mouse' (idk how to spell that lol) and they straightner has a golden flat iron part and dot use a silver one [you can use them but you have to heat it up for like twice the time compared to a gold platted one] and then when you are done straightneing alppy a quarter size drop in your hand of it and smooth it down your hair...*rate me* i hope I helped!
Love xoxo-Andie

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I'm about 5'2 and weigh around 95 lbs..but everyone tells me im really skinny. How much should i weigh if im 5'2?

you are just in the range! lol the range for 13-18 and the hight is like 5'0-5'7 [I think] you are supposed to be aroudn 102-150 and you are prefect! lol and yes you are really skinny lol well I hope I helped! *rate me*
Love xoxo-Andie

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