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Aloha, Guys.
I love giving advice so I hope I can help you out in any ways needed. I live in Wisconsin and i love hanging out with my friends. I also love movies and stuff too. I'm a normal teenage girl.

*Currently in CD player: A Boy Named Goo (The Goo-Goo Dolls)*

Okay, well ask away!

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Im haveing a grage sale on saturday i no a week away but i need some ideas of how to make more money and how to attrack costurmers all hte money is goin to go to me and my mom to go to paris in march! (hehe im there on my b day)
ya do u have n e ideas?

Bake cookies and have juice and coffee to sell as extra things! That's what I have done in the past.
*Randy*

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ok, i dont want to come off like slutty or anything...but my b/f and i have been together for about 2 months now & all he's done is given me like lil kisses(no tongue). like he's pretty touchy feely and all but i mean its been 2 months & we love each other so much and its been nice, but i'd like there to be more..like we've talked about moving further and stuff but when we're alone 2gether nothing happens! he's only had like 2 g/fs & he's only kissed and got head b4..which he knows i will NOT give him head..but anyways lol, how do i get him to losen up and like actually make out with me & relax .. i love him so much & i know he loves me, but sometimes itd be a lil nice to have a lil more physical in the relationship..know what i mean?

thanks,jessica

Hey, you're not a slut! You're completely normal! You can make the move if you want to! Just keep doing what your doing and look real deepyly into his eyes and things like that.
*Randy*

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on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily?

About 8 glasses of milk, and 8 glasses of water.
*Randy*

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okay i know this is pretty dumb but my boobs arent as big as id like..is there anything that would make em bigger..probally not without takeing pills but its worth the ask..but does anyone know any experience that they know of that worked for them? pills..certain food..excerise?

There isnt a way to get bigger breasts unless you wear a really big padded bra or a pushup one. You could get breast surgery, but i dont think you really wanna do that! LOL!
*Randy*

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my dad almost killed me, i wont go near him any more. im so scared! he came at me because i threw his glasses on the floor. he kicked me hit me and pulled my hair! oh yeah i did have a knife but i therw it on the table and ran!
im so scared what should i do?
Amy
ps: im crying my eyes out right now
pss i feal sick too

This is child abuse and your dad needs serious help. Call an aunt, uncle, grandparent, or a friend's parents! If you can't reach them, call the police. What your dad is doing is wrong and seriously, IT WAS GLASSES! They can be replaced! Good luck and hang in there. I know it's tough.
*Randy*

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Ok Lately I've Been getting these really annoying phone call's And i dont know who it is the caller ID says Private Call... and no number... When I answer I eather get a silence or someone says Hey im like who's this their like im jeff ( I dont know any jeffs!!) Im like I dont know a Jeff their like ok so whats up?... I mean i hang up on them told them not to call anymore i dont know them and they WONT get the hint to leave me alone... My parents havnt called the phone company yet and I cant get them to do it anytime soon! but these calls come anytime except for school hours... as early as 5:30 in the morning to as late as 1:30 a.m. I leave my pc online at night so I wont get woken up... any advice on how to handle my situation? Its really tireing me out and makin my b/f mad cause im getting these calls from a guy I dont know... Help! Sry Its so long

TnkZ

If your parents aren't calling the phone company, YOU need to! If the calls continue and this guy asks personal questions, you really need to notify the proper authorities. The same thing happened to my mom and the guy got sent to jail because he had a record. So, this is extrememly important and serious!
*Randy*

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hey um at my school the teachers are all really formal and stuff so if u even say sex they like put u in detention. have any of you had it? can u tell me about what it feels like and stuff cause it would be really akward to ask my mom.

Your teachers are freaks. Sex is a perfectly natural and beautiful thing and your teachers seriously need help. HAHA! I totally know what you mean when you say it'd be awkward to talk to your mom. Mom's are just so...old fashioned!! Stay awesome!
*Randy*

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ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do?

You should not have sex with him this early. Love takes time. It doesn't just happen as soon as you go out with somebody. DO NOT have sex quite yet. Wait like a month or something.
*Randy*

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hey everyone. im manda and im 14 years old. i need to start babysitting in order to get some money. well i just moved into my new house in a new town. i want to make babysitting flyers to take and give to some of my neibors. i just need to know what to put on it. um.. i get pretty decent grades, im responsible, i love kids, i dont mind changing dipers. i am trained in CPR and First Aid and have the cards to prove it. so what should i put on the flyer to make it look appealing to parents n stuff? thanks for ur guys' help!

much love
xoxo
manda

Put your name, age, phone number and say that you love kids and dont mind changing diapers. Also say that you are trained in CPR and first aid too.
*Randy*

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do u know anything that can help me on the book sadako and the thousnad paper cranes? thanks so much. peace out and i rate hella high! pleez. if u cant help me i cant go to science camp!!

You can always try google or ask jeeves to find out more about the book. Sorry, i've never heard of the book...
*Randy*

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when should it be okay to have sex?

Whenever you feel ready. Make sure you really care for the person and use protection if you arent trying to have a baby...lol.
*Randy*

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here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u

Red polish would look good. Or purple!
*Randy*

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okay my friend cuts. i really want her to stop! what can i say to her to get her to stop? please help me!
signed ,
worried friend xO x3

Its really hard to stop cutting. I'm still going through the process. Here's what you do: Get your friend a rubber band and make her wear it everyday. Tell her to snap it three times where she wants to cut whenever she gets the craving. It's helped me come a long way and I hope it'll help your friend.
*Randy*

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Hey, is there any way to get rid of a cold/sore throat quickly? like by the weekend? If there are any remedies or things anyone can think of to help me that'd b greatly appreciated! thanks so much

Take cold pills and wash your hands constantly! Get plenty of sleep too! Good luck!
*Randy*

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hey i know it's a little early..but this is when i usually do my xmas shopping..

ok..by christmas, my b/f and i will have been together for 3 & 1/2 months & i have no idea what to get him. he's black, he's into rap & football and stuff like that..a typical guy..but i'm never good with coming up wit something to get a guy so any suggestions would be great :)

thanx

Guys love candy! Get a huge bag of his favorite candy. You could also make a rap mix on your computer. Good luck!
*Randy*

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I've always been curious about this. If anyone had ever talked to a ghost, or almost died, and came back to tell about it, I'd like to hear your story. I never have done either, and I wonder what it is like, and if this is for real.

I'm holding a seance really soon, and I believe in ghosts. I once thought i saw a little girl laying on my mother's bed. She was really transparent and looked very sick. I've also seen a man around my house. He wears a brown grubby suit and a hat. He has a dark gray beard and glasses. I think we can only find out if ghosts are real after death. I'll tell you what happens at my seance.
*Randy*

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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..

how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby?

I think that the pregnant woman should be married or at least engaged.
*Randy*

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okay i have a big problem! i was all excited because i just got my cartlidge done! but i came home and told my best friend! and she asked what ear i got done and i told her my right one! and she said that if a girl gets just her right cartlidge done...that means shes a lesbian?! omg i'm all upset now! is that realli what rumors say?! because i'm definitly NOT one!
i'll rate you a 5!

I think that it shouldn't matter what ear you get pierced! If you know you are NOT a lesbian, then there is no freaking way anybody should call you that. Tell your friend that you don't appreciate her comment, because you know that you aren't a lesbian and just because you got your right ear pierced, doesn't mean you're a lesbian.
*Randy*

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

Yes, that is illegal.
*Randy*

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Anyone have the best advice for covering a pimple or the quickest method to get rid of one? (like if I had a dance the next day!)

Wash your face twice a day. Once in the morning and once at night. You can also purchase some cover-up at a store or a mall.
*Randy*

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