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Ilove to help people with their problems, I uusally am good with female problems, but SOME men problems I can handle, like if it's a medical problem for males... I really can't help you in that category, but if it's like relation ship problems and stuff like that then I would be one of the best people to ask!
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13/f gonna be 14.

kay. my birthday is october 23rd. and i wanted to have a party somewhere. BOTH boys and girls. but i cant have it at my housee. any ideas.? any games ?


thanks in advance! (link)
you could have it an an amusement park but it might cost alot. or the cheaper place is a park. and you can have games like twister, racing games, dancing competitions for fun, stuff you like to do


many ppl say that crunches r better than sit ups but i want to know how to do a crunch and what is its difference from a sit up (link)
I really don't know, you should ask your p.e. teacher


im not sure where this goes but oh well..

i had my first period in july. then i didnt get it in august. now this month ive been on it for like 9 days. is this normal?? is it just because i didnt get it last month?? (link)
your first period may seem un- wait, go to this link, it will help you understand it more. it's a video, it's not digusting, disney made it. it's old, it may seem corney but it's right! it helped me alot! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rQcj3G2tuVI and yes, it's completley normal


13/f
alright..
theres this guy that i REALLY like. my friend asked him if he would go out with me and he said he proly would. so im really excited. but the thing is that if i went out with him i would only see him in one of my classes and hes on the other side of the room from me. and i dont really know him that well so i think it would be weird going out with him. im used to being friends first. i would be alot more comfortable being his girlfriend if i was his friend first and knew stuff about him. but i think it would be really awkward just going up to the guy that knows you like him and be like "hey!! whats up?". please help me. (link)
try finding him in the lunchroom, talk to him about things you think it would be important to know! then if he isn't what you thought don't go out with him


please help i like a guy so confused what should i do or acked around him (link)
be yourself, guys like that usually, tell him how you feel. it never hurts to try


okay, so im on my schools soccer team and even though our season is almost half way done, i still want help.
so basically, at the beginning of every practice we have to run a mile and im always one of the last people in and im dead tired. i want to be a better runner, and overall, FASTER because i need to be able to sprint really fast too. what all should i do that would help me be a better runner??

15/f if it helps...? (link)
practice practice practice!!! at home, free time, anything! try your hardest, but don't overwork it! try runing 4 laps around your area a half an hour each day, and a in a week at the least you should improve


ok well some of my freinds have started to act like im not there. and well they would tell me everything and now they tell me nothing. my ? is ... should i just stop hanging aroud them???? help (link)
ask them why they're acting like this, tell them that it hurts your feelings badly when they do this. also if things don't work out and they treat you the same again then I would stop being friends with them


i need help with an assignment. can someone give me some opinions or answers to these questions that may help me understand the assignment better and give me some ideas? thank you so much.

*think about images or words you see each day that truly stand out. how do these images help to shape who you are as a person and your family as well?
*How have these images shaped American society and what we value?
*What does it mean to be an American in this day and age?
*How have images or words in current media caused what we value to evolve or change?

please help thank you soooo much :] (link)
it depends, are we doing your homework for you?


this year is my first homecoming! But i have a few questions that i'm not to sure about. Number one, "Is homecoming really formal? Not like prom formal, but like a step under prom? Or is it reall laid back? Can you please give me examples?" and Number two "Can you go to homecoming with just your friends? Like for example I only want to go with my girl friends, is that ok? Or are people going to look at me weird because I don't have a guy with me?". Thanks! I really appreciate it! (link)
if no one asks you yes, it would be good to come with friends. also, you might want to wear a dress but don't spend LOADS of money on it, save it for your prom, but yes I think alot of people would be wearing a dress


how do u get ride of a yeast infection without going tot he doctor or anyhting? (link)
you could buy Monistat 7, my mom uses it.
They have the cream but it's goopey, I wouldn't reccomend it. Theyt have Vaginal suppositories that you need to put before you go to bed witch is REALLY great. I prefer the one that has the suppositories AND comes with aa tube of cream you put on your "AREA" that itches. you might find this at your nearest drug store


Ive always been the kind of girl who says i dont care what guys look like, its all about the personality. But this guy i like now, hes perfect and truly amazing, he would do anyhting for me and we ahve liked eachother for about 5 years now. yeha i know, its a long time. Well hes, how do i say it in a nice way... large. and i feel horrible becuase i always think if he was hot and the same personality i would deffinetly date him. but, i dont know what to do... i know its no big deal about looks. But seriously if someone had roten teeth. was like 600 pounds and was just yucky, would u date them? (thats not the desciption of the guy i like, it was just an example) Yes its alll about personality, but looks have somewhat to do what their personality is.... i guess what im asking.. is what im thinking wrong?? and how do i over come his largness? (link)
do not judge the book by the cover, maybe he is fat, but you know, in time he'll loose all that weight and he'll be the cutest guy. think about him deep down inside, iside is the true beauty. I am very fat yet a skinny guy REALLY likes me. and he doesn't care about my look, its my personality. if he treats you right and loves you enough then looks shouldn't matter, it's whats in his heart and mind that matters


I don't like the guys in my grade. They dont like me. I like the guys in the grade above me. They like me.

All of my friends in my grade are friends with those guys who don't like me so its awkard.

All of the girls in the grade above me complain of them being "their guys" so i better "back off".

Help? Why dont they like me but the older ones do? And because of all this I cant get a boyfriend for beansss. Lol sorry but yeah thanks a bunch :) (link)
well, just wait it out, sometimes good things take time. maybe when you get into a different grade or a different school they might like you there, but life isn't always about guys, focus on your studies furst, then think about guys... god, I'm starting to sound like my father lol


I liked this guy for 3 years.My best friend knows it.She started dating but i cant yet.This guy is so cute.He's in my school.Sometimes he looks at me in the hallway of my school.Is that a sign that he likes me?Thanx alot! (link)
you sure you didn't have spinitch in your teeth? no I'm just kiddin! lol, but it might be, if he talks to you about stupid little things that you know he would never talk about could be a sign too! and if he smiles whenever he sees you. trust me, I know, I'm too younge to date too and I have this cute boy who flirts with me.


I have long, straight, red hair, blue-ish green eyes, and ivory colored skin. What would be the best shades of Eyeshadow and Lipstick to go with my features?

Thanks!
^_^ (link)
if it were me I would ask a hair expert, or you might look good in forrest green, or light bluish purple.


im almost 6 months pregnant, and i feel enormous. i had an extremely flat stomach before, and very toned abs. i miss my old tummy so bad, and NONE of my clothes fit anymore. i went shopping today for clothes, but didnt really have enough time to try them on, i bought t hem way bigger than i needed, cuz i figured i could wear them later, but ALREADY- they dont fit~!! i have become so depressed over my size, although friends and family tell me im barely showing. ive gained so much weight in my hips and butt, its a struggle enough to feel comfortable in anything but pajamas. i think my boyfriend might be losing interest in me slowly becuase of my weight as well. someone please help me!!!!!!!!!!i love this child more than anyone on this earth, but this mama's got her baby blues. (link)
trust me, when you have the baby it should all go back to normal in time. when you're pregnant you're supposed to look like that. and people don't think "oh she's really fat" when they look at you, they know your pregnant! try buying clothes that fit you for now, and then when you've had your baby and all your weight goes back to normal then go back to regular clothes, and if you plan on having no more children then either give your big clothes away to other pregnant mothers (or soon to be), or sell them.


Iam a 17 year old female and i babysit my cousin who's autistic but my mom dosn't want me to babysit him anymore becouse he throws fits and he dosn't relize he's own strength like one time he broke the hinges off the bathroom door but he was just scared becouse it was his first day at new school and it was huge and he dosn't like changes or big crowds how can i exsplain this to my mom becouse i really like babysitting him becouse it makes him happy and he loves me to pieces what should i do? please help me. (link)
tell your mom that you enjoy baby sitting, and that you're the only one who understands him other than his parents. tell her how you really feel about baby sitting him.


well when you curl your hair like crimp it or whatever with the gel and stuff, how do you make it so that your hair always has that wet look if you know what i mean.. thanks =] (link)
this would be something to ask your hair styleist


if someone stole your picture off of a website and made a fake myspace of it .. is there any way possible for them to get in trouble with the cops or something about identity theft or some type of law. or do you just let it go? (link)
let it go, it's just a picture for god's sake, but if they have you doing something nasty in the pic, or make it disgusting THEN they COULD get in trouble


I'm am sooooo incredibly self conscious. i am 13 in the 8th grade, and im only a 34A. im reallly self concious becuase i think no guys will like me becuase im only a 34A! any advice? (link)
not all guys care about tits, I got a crusher and I'm flat chested! well, at least my bra makes me look flat chested... some of the great guys care about the personality! some about the hair, and some like the smarts!


In art class, we were assigned a project. We had to pick a subject and make a piece of art about it. There had to be meaning behind the piece of art. I've chosen the topic of self-injury. The piece of art we create can be 3-d or 2-d. Basically, anything we want. But, I'm fresh out of ideas. Anyone have any? (link)
you can do someone slitting their wrists, cutting themselves to dal with pain




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