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ok well some of my freinds have started to act like im not there. and well they would tell me everything and now they tell me nothing. my ? is ... should i just stop hanging aroud them???? help
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Yes, but explain why you are not hanging around them. They may not realize they're excluding you.
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If you've known these people for a long time and feel a real connection with them try to talk things through with them. Give it some time and a chance. It may well be a misunderstanding of some kind.
If they're friends of the superficial 'we sit together in art because we have no one else to sit next to' variety, have a word with one of them (the one that you are friendliest with) and see what happens. If the problem doesn't go away, just ignore them (in a civil and polite kind of way) until they start speaking to you again.
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Ever heard the phrase: Communication is key?
This totally applies here, trust me, I've had this problem a million times before. Usually the answer was just a misunderstanding.
If they have myspace, leave it as a message.
If you're bold, confront them at school/hanging out. Simple say something along the lines of:
"I've noticed you guys seem to be avoiding me latley, any reason?"
"Hey, did I do something wrong?"
Most of the time, it was just my imagination overreacting. But just to be sure, just ask!
Good Luck <3
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Don't just "give up" on them. Friends are the people who will get you through this life when no one else understands. Approach one of them individually and just say "Hey, what's up?" Try to get them to tell you why they've had this sudden change of heart. Chances are, you can fix this by talking it out. After all, saying something can't be any worse than not saying anything.
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ask them why they're acting like this, tell them that it hurts your feelings badly when they do this. also if things don't work out and they treat you the same again then I would stop being friends with them
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