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self-concious
I'm am sooooo incredibly self conscious. i am 13 in the 8th grade, and im only a 34A. im reallly self concious becuase i think no guys will like me becuase im only a 34A! any advice?
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Don't worry about it. Ot's true that guys prefer big boobs, but the guys who won't go out with a girl because she's flat-chested? They're assholes anyway. Seriously. Anyways, the girls in my grade (and I'm in 8th, like you) who are the most popular with the guys are mostly A and B cups.
If you're still self-concious, try to focus on what features of yourself you find beautiful. Make a list, and make an effort to wear clothes and make-up that emphasize those features. If you have pretty eyes, wear eyeshadow that makes your eyes pop. If you have really toned arms/legs, wear tank-tops/capris. And always carry yourself like you're the hottest girl in the room; don't be cocky, but if YOU believe that you're gorgeous, so will everyone else.
Good luck, I hope I helped! :)
P.S. Have you ever read Seventeen magazine? They often have sections in their issues about dressing for your shape, and they might have suggestions for tops so you can look like you have a larger chest.
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not all guys care about tits, I got a crusher and I'm flat chested! well, at least my bra makes me look flat chested... some of the great guys care about the personality! some about the hair, and some like the smarts!
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Breasts are just one feature (well, two, but you get what I mean). Don't obsess over it! For starters, you are 13 and therefore you've only barely started growing them; they could be D-cups by the time they're done, for all you know. Furthermore, guys are not so shallow that they judge a girl's value solely on her breast size, even in middle school (and those who do, trust me, you don't want their attention anyway).
Anyone who tells you that looks don't matter is lying; they do matter. But they aren't all that matters, and they aren't even the most important thing, and it is most certainly NOT all about your breasts. Frankly, I would worry less about that, and more about your poor perception of the guys around you. If you really think that's all they care about, you're either surrounded by the biggest losers on the face of the earth, or you have a lot to learn about people.
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advice?
yeah stop being stupid
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