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Okay. Thanks for answering my question [[again]]...Anyways, it all turned out fine but after we kissed, he told my friend "i gave her her 1st kiss." It's really embarrising for him to know that. When we talk on the phone he will probably be like "was that your first kiss?" What do i say when he says that? He dosen't know that i know he knows. It's so embarrsing. Thanks!

Youre welcome, and just be honest you know? I mean everyone has to give somebody their first kiss. Its nothing to be embarassed about, its just life. I think he'll understand :]

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I am on my second month of birth control. I had sex this past month about a week after my period ended. Though the previous week before i had sex i had missed a pill but took two the next day (that's what the instructions said.. they said to take it is soon as you remembered then the next one at your regular time but i took them both at the same time/ my regular time) I have been taking the pills at a fairly constant time give or take an hour and he used a condom. He did ejaculate though, but the condom didn't slip or break. Then about a week and a half ago we nearly had sex. his tip penetrated but didn't go all the way in because i wanted him to stop since we didnt have protection. I am now taking the pills where my period is suppose to come. I had very light spotting today and my last period was a lot a lot lighter than normal but not this light. I dont know if it is my body getting used to the pill or if i could possibly be pregnant.. any advice?

I dont think you are pregnant for the simple fact that when you missed your pill you took the pill as soon as you remembered, which was a good thing. And then you said the next time you had sex, you used a condom and it didnt break or anything, your safe with that one too.

The last time you had sex, his tip only penetrated..so there is a very slim chance for you being pregnant. Yes, there is pre cum..but that is super slim of a chance. You also wouldnt be spotting so early, it would take about 2 weeks, but everyone is different.

So basically, i doubt that you are pregnant...but i would take a home pregnancy test in a couple days just to be sure :]


GOOD LUCK!

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does anyone know any websites where i can get completely free ringtones? i've been looking forever and cannot find any

www.myxertones.com

That is the best site for FREE ringtones! :]

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ok so i got a t-mobile shadow yesterday and i synced the song onto my phone they show up on my music player but i dont know how to make them a ringtone. i looked under a normal ringtone and i cant find them. please help

There isnt a way that you can make the songs ringtones.

Although, you can go to www.myxertones.com

And make a free account, and you can make your own ringtones (saved from your computer) or you can just browse all the ringtones they have

And it is absolutely free! I use it all the time

You must have the internet and text messages to get them though, but yeah its a great site :]

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How do you become an EMT. Is it necessary to complete an Associates or is it more like a certificate? Links with explanation would be appreciated.

Hi, my friend just became an EMT, and its hardwork..but so worth it!

I found links that may help you :]

http://www.firemanemtparamedic.com/how_to_become_a_emt__emergency.html

http://www.howtoall.com/Jobsfiles/howtobecomeanemt.htm

http://education-portal.com/how_to_become_an_emt.html


GOOD LUCK!

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15/f

ok well me and my ex have been broken up for about two weeks and we only went out for about 6 weeks. and i get so jealous when i see him with other girls. i want to get over him but i don't know how. my aunt told me that part of the reason i can't get over him is because i'm not satisfied with the reason he broke up with me. and that reason was because his "concussion messed up his feelings for me". no, i'm not satisfied with that reason but but i don't think that's what's consuming me.

i thought i was falling for him too :/ but we only went out for a short amount of time. in a way i kinda think i need to just hear him say that we don't have another chance together to knock some sense into me but i know he's too nice to say that to my face.

i do miss him but i know he probably doesn't care about me anymore. it's so hard to talk to him in person. so i messaged him on myspace askingif he could do me a favor and call me. i need to get some things out. he hasn't read the msg yet and now i don't even know if that was a good idea.

i'd love to hear other peoples opinion on this and if the message was a good idea. thank you :]

This probably isnt what you want to hear, and i am sorry for that..

Yes, that is a lame excuse to break it off with somebody...and yes i dont blame you for being angry or hurt with the reason he gave you. I think your aunt hit the nail on the head. Although, there is always going to be that one guy that is EXTREMELY hard to get over...and you may never be able to.

Honestly, the message was a good idea. I am like you in a way, i have to get my feelings out and get closure before i can move on, and that is exactly what you are doing. Its the smart thing, although what he has to say may hurt you, but it will only make you stronger when it comes to relationships. I would just go with the flow and see what happens. Tell him how you feel, and ask him if there is ever going to be another chance for you two. And if it is a no, then just try moving on from there :]


Good luck!

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if you go tanning will your freckles get darker? because i have freckles on my face and arms but im SO pale and NEED a tan. so will they get darker? or just blend with my skin tone?

Tanning makes freckles worse and more noticable.

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i just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last week. we were talking about it tonight and he was saying how i cant last long enough to get him off and was asking if im a virgin. i cant help but take this as an insult. im not a virgin but have only had sex a few times before him. should i be embarassed or insulted by this?

:/
im 19 if it helps

It doesnt mean he was insulting you. It really depends on how he was saying it. He COULD of been insulting you, but he also could have just been curious about it. Plus, since thats the only thing you guys said about that subject i wouldnt really take it as insulting. Since youve only had sex a couple times its normal for it to hurt you and for you want to stop. Once you do it more, it wont hurt.

If you need anymore advice on this, or somebody to talk to email me

hypnoticpoison92@yahoo.com

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so i got a new cat, he was a stray so he was understandably skinny. i started feeding him and i have had him for about 2 weeks now and hes still very skinny, so i gave him some de-worming medicine adn about 5 minutes later, he puked up what i think was a worm (long, thin, and white) it was moving. sorry thats gross. but anyways, what can i do about this? hes never puked before,and he has no trouble eating or drinking, or going to the bathroom.

any help is appreciated!
thankyou

Sounds to me like your cat has tapeworms. Take your cat to the vet ASAP so they can give you meds to clear it up.

you can get a tapeworm pill, like Cestex, from your VET. Over-the-counter products from a pet store are NOT effective on tapeworms. Alternately, your vet can give your kitty a shot that will kill those pesky worms.

GOOD LUCK

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okay so heres the situation.

my ex boyfriend and i went out for 6 months,
he broke up with me for my cousin, (and he thought i was cheating when in reality he was cheating)
well anyways my cousin and him went out for a year and 2 months.. they broke up today *she broke up with him for a new guy*
well i went to his house today not to see him,im best friends with his sister, well he was upset and he told me to come hang out with him while his sister was cooking.. now i have a boyfriend weve been dating 8 months. so i hung out with my ex and he told me to sit on his bed and he was playing a video game haha and he asked me to try to play well when i took the controls he put his arm around my waist and put his hand up the back of my shirt and was rubbing my back, im not gonna lie i did like it and he kept asking for hugs and thats all that happened well, my ex told me he wants me back but i dont know what to do, i love my boyfriend so much and i cant imagine life without him but then again old feelings for my ex are starting to come back, i dont know what i should do i mean my ex has been known to cheat but im just drawn to him i dont get why after everything that has been going on?

what should i do? should i brake up with my boyfriend?


and what we did, is that considered cheating in any way??

I personally dont think that you should get back with your ex. You've already been with your boyfriend for 8 months, and you cant imagine life without him. I dont want you making the mistake of breaking up with your boyfriend now, and then him cheating on you or breaking up with you for another girl and you trying to get back with the guy you are dating now. It will be one big mess. You have to keep in mind he broke up with you FOR YOUR COUSIN. That is pretty low, and just because she broke up with him, you are second choice.

Honestly, i think you should stay with your boyfriend now :]

GOOD LUCK!

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how do u remove the pimples on your back, and how do they form? and why? i have my prom soon, and i am waring a back-less dress! i have to look good! lol. :D need help urgently!!! :(

Pimples form usually during puberty, the skin cells lining a follicle tend to be shed at a quicker pace, increasing the probability that they will stick together and contribute to blockages in the follicle.

Other factors that are thought to contribute to acne include:
* where a person sweats
* a family history of acne.
* abrasion caused by over-vigorous scrubbing, frequent shaving, or other manipulation and "picking at" the skin.
* exposure to high heat and humidity.
* exposure to airborne pollutants.
* the use of certain drugs, such as glucocorticoids, iodides, bromides, lithium, artificial androgens and others

I would try using rubbing alcohol or stridex pads max strength

here is the link
http://www.stridex.com/products.htm

You can find them almost anywhere such as wal mart, kmart, and walgreens :]

Good luck

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about 9 weeks ago, my horse bucked me off. and since then, my tailbone still hurts, i cant recall if i actually landed on it, but i might of bruised it/cracked it. I didnt notice that it hurt so badly until i went back to school, which was about 1 or 2 weeks later. And it still hurts, I try to exercsise to lose weight and some of the exercises are ones where you sit back on your tailbone, and they hurt. My mom wont take me to a doctor or get my back xrayed. She says it wont do any good. And I continue to ride horses now, like 3 or 4 days a week. So are there any exercises or therpy exercises that i can do for my low back and tailbone? My mom wont take me to a chiropractor either, obviously. So for MY benefit, I would like to get my back better =]
Thanks!
15/f

The only way to make it better is to see a doctor. You need to tell her that if it doesnt get fixed it will always bother you.

Do you have a bump or bubble by your tail bone? if so, you could have a pilonidal cyst. I had one of those about 6 months ago. Let me know if that is the case and i will explain more, and if not then you need to ask your mom to take you to the doctor because only the doctor will know what to do best.

Goood luck!

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Alright so I'm pretty sure I've gotten myself into a "friends with benefits" situation and I am in need of some wise thought out advice.

I met this guy a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. He just recently came out of a 3 year relashionship so we aren't going to be rushing int anything. We've seen eachother a fair amount, each time ending in a make-out session. One time he even spent the night... He keeps telling me he doesn't wan't to rush into anything but less than 10 seconds after that he kisses me. I really like him so I just go along with it. I believe I have gotten myself into a friends with benefits situation and I want it to end. Not necesarily the whole relationship but the fact that he is somewhat using me for whatever reaons, consious or not. I'm clueless as to what to say or do to tell him I want "out".

Is there really an "easy way"? Probably not, so don't be afraid to be harsh if you need to, I want the truth, not some sugar lie.

Thanks =]

Well its very noble of you to want to end it. I am in a friends with benefits and i wish i wouldve ended it a long time ago, now im stuck in it. So, thats very good, because if you dont end it now you will be stuck. Him giving you mixed signals isnt helping you, and because you like him you are confused. Thats normal.

There isnt really an easy way to explain to him that you dont wanna just be "some girl" but its going to be easier that your going to tell him now and not later.

The next time you hang out just tell him that your confused because one minute he says he doesnt want to rush into anything, and the next minute he kisses you. Explain to him that you would want to date him, but you dont want to be a thing on the side. All you can really do is be honest and straight forward with him :]


Goood luck!

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20/f

I have been dating this guy who is an artist for almost a year and a half now.

Pros: *He is a really nice guy
*He claims he wants to marry me.
*His sister is awesome
*He makes me laugh and i can do stupid stuff with him

Cons: *We do the same things over and over
*He is an artist but he also has to have a regular job, so he is always broke
*I cannot stand his mother

Ok, now everyone is going to think I am a bad person, but I just feel like the Artist is my friend and not my boyfriend. So I have been looking. I have met this guy who is a firefighter online, and he seems really nice. I haven't met him in person yet, but I have his phone number.

What is your opinion on what I should do? I am so confused right now.

well with the artist, not all relationships are going to be perfect. But, if you feel like he is more than a friend and if you TRULY feel like he will never really be more than a friend to you, then you should end it. Maybe you are just bored with your relationship, try spicing it up by going on dates to different places, ect.

Youre not a bad person, you are still young so you shouldnt be tied down to one guy. If you say you connect well with the firefighter, meet him and see how it goes. Dont cross the line though. Just keep your options open.

In my opinion, i would just not do anything for the time being, and just meet with the firefighter and see how it is going. There is a saying "when in doubt, DONT."

You arent sure what to do, so just dont do anything, go with the flow


GOOD LUCK!

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SO i heard that if you ahve really frizzy, think, curly, wave hair that if you perm it. it will calm it down. is this true?
or something of the sort?

since the frizz is caused by the amount of humidity in the air, getting a perm will certainly not help. If anything perms tend to make hair more frizzy because they dry out and damage your hair.

However there are a ton of products out there which would completely stop the frizz and also condition your hair at the same time.
I would recommend a product by TIGI called 'Bedhead Control Freak' which basically will prevent the frizz as much as possible.

Just be sure if you do get a perm, stay away from your straighteners or hairdryer as much as possible because they just damage you hair even more! Subsequently causing even more frizz in the long run, which is not good.


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Any ideas for a good halloween costume? Im trying to go for the sexy but cute look. I dont want it to be slutty though.


Thanks!

Look at a goodwill near you, and places like halloween express. At goodwill you can find great mix and match things.

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im 17 and i havnt had a proper bf before. ive had one lousy kiss. no lad has ever called me pretty/cute/beautiful etc. i leave for university next year. i have no prospects for a bf before then but i really really dont want to turn up at uni an inexperienced virgin. cos i just know everyone else will have done everything already. all of my friends have lost their virginity and have boyfriends. i really hate it but im not sure if im confident enough to do anything about it. :(

Hello,

Just because you are going to a university and are inexperienced isnt really bad. Its good to lose your virginity to somebody you love and somebody that loves YOU. I made that mistake of losing mine to somebody that didnt LOVE me. Not that a regret it, but it would of been more special if i knew he felt the same. When you get to the uni. it will be a whole new world for you. Most guys will understand that you dont have experience, and most will be absolutely fine with that. Most guys like virgins better to be honest.

Because you are 17 and still a virgin, you will get more respect than the average girl who isnt.

Looking back when your older you will be glad you waited :]

GOOD LUCK

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Over the past few weeks i've slowly stopped really wanting to eat meat. I ate it for dinner and stuff but i just sort of went off it.

Tonight though, i had chicken and i just have this really sick feeling in my stomach. Not vomit sick but like, im disgusted in myself for eating it.

Just thinking about eating meat or anything from an animal makes me feel queezy.

So my question is, is it just a phase?

It's just strange because i've never had a problem against eating meat till now and i dont know if i'm just having a moment or i really cant stand meat anymore.

It may be a phase, but you dont really know unless you keep trying to eat it. Did you recently watch something that PEDA made? if so, you could be subconsciously thinking about the animals and stuff. If you keep getting the sick feeling in your stomache i would just try to stay away from meat and call yourself a vegetarian :p


GOod luck

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Yes, I know what you mean, and I have considered it. I will try it and see if it'll work out with my mom. Thanks ;) I'll get back to you later :)

Alright i hope it works out for you :]

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Thanks for answering my pop kiss question. You said there was no steps to it but don't you have to lean your head so you don't bump noses? How much do i tilt it? Thanks!

You just tilt it very slightly. But usually people dont even worry about that because it just happens naturally. Dont worry you will be fine dear :]


Good luck

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