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hey im Jourdan.im like this. ppl say im gothic others say im punk. i dont know what i am but i dress goth but im too happy to be one. i always look at the bright side of things. AIM me anytime u need to talk to me. im always willing to help. im a good friend so anytime u need to talk just talk to me and ill try to help what ever is bothering you. if you have a question put something in my inbox anytime you want to talk to me :) and jonny the homicidal maniac is my hero!!!!!!
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lastnight 8 of us went to my friend stephen's house and then chili's and a movie and this guy robbie that likes me invited me and so at the movie he sat next to me and put his arm around me and he told my friend that he was sure he liked me last night but then today his AIM didnt work and so he had to put up away messages for me to read bc i was like hey and i didnt know his AIM wasnt working. so then his away message was like im sorry then another was like i just feel like we have nothing in common. then he signed off. and then i was talking to my friend and she said that robbie is not good at talking with girls and now he is thinking about if he likes me or not. and then i was talking to my friend eric and i was like i dont think robbie likes me anymore. hes like he likes u. and then he was like he just isnt good at talking with girls but i talked to him about it dont worry. so now i dont know what to do like if he likes me or not/ if he doesnt he shouldnt lead me on and like put his arm around me? (link)
maybe he thinks he cant get you or he has no chance so he gave up. i dont know it might depend on how long hes liked you for. ask him out if you really like him and see what he says


i went on vacation for four days without talking to any of my friends except for one for 45 minutes... well im bak and they feel like strangers to me. when 8th grade ends we wont be in high school together and we oviously wont last... right nowi could almost kill myself becuz its coming up too soon... and the vacation and coming bak makes me realize how much i dont like the fact that we wont keep in touch and be as good of friends. (link)
dont worry my friends left too when i went in highschool all you can do is get their numbers and stay in touch call like 3 times a week have them come over you know do stuff. just talk to them it happend to me and me and my bff were still realy good friends and got to see each other. email them. call them. aim them just dont stop talking


Well there is this guy i use to like...well he told me he liked me in all right...well noe hes goin out with this gurl jenny..an well i told him im mad at him becasuse he lied to me..but i dont want him thinkin an tellin people that im mad becasue he dont like me ...which i dont like him anymore beaces he lied too me ..an i cant talk to him an tell him becasue i freakin hate him..ugh what do i do ...help me ...I RATE GGOOODD (link)
well...........if you dont like him, tell people your mad at him for lieing to you because he did. and thats not right of him


Say you like a girl and you know she likes you. You've hooked up once or twice and promised to call her so that you can arrange a proper date. How soon should you call/meet/talk to to arrange this date? (link)
well call her like on her phone or cell then just say hey you want to go on a date with me sometime then if she says yet be like alright how about htis time. you know just talk to her. ask her about her past learn about her. ask her fav color food ect just talk


Well 1st of all im askin advice on what to do heres my story, well I still like my ex g/f, we went out in may and broke it off in june, becuz she went to Ecuador 4 the summer,we both have had relationships since but I still liked her, & I didn't feel right cuz as I was going out with other girls I was thinkin about my ex, recently we've been hangin out a bit, and we r good friends and when we hang out she's always flirty cuz she's like a natural flirt, but like idk what to do and I like her alot... (link)
if you love her then go to her. if shes all you think about then be with her she just might be the one


okay.. i went out with this guy.. and he is really hot.. but.. okay.. we broke up because it was like nobuddy wanted us together.. but we are still friends.. but anyways.. the other day.. i was in the hall.. and i kissed him.. and then the next day my friend said she was going out with him.. and i was like.. "omg.. since when?" and she was like.. since two days ago.. so.. he cheated on her with me.. and i dont know if i should tell her or not.. should i? (link)
first off you kissed him. therefor he didnt cheat. if he kissed you then yes he cheated. no he didnt because you kissed him. id tell your friend im sorry no one told me you and him were going out but i kissed him and im sorry say something


when people say "Christ is not a fasion" what are they implying? (link)
its not a fashion its a religion. some say crosses are not ment for fashion.


Hey, I have a scenario for you all. female responses would help the best, I have this friend at church, that I hardly talk to, and in the last 3 day,s we have gotten closer, she gave me her cell number and we talk all the time. So I told her 3 day's ago that we should hang out, and she said yeah, we should. So today, saturday, Im gonna call her and find out what time to pick her up, and find out where she lives. Since it's just me and her, and we have gotten closer, what do u think this means? She just wants to be closer friends, or is this a date and we're not just hangin out? what do u think, anyone help me? (link)
depends on weather shes flirting with u or not. if she is then yeah its more like a date. ask her do u consider this a date or just hangin out and having fun. just ask her that and ask her how she feels about u before u leave to pick her up ask her if she likes u more than a friend or just a friend


I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do? (link)
maybe u could hang out iwth ur friends. i mean do u like doing all this with him cuze if u are ur fine. but its when u dont. if u like it keep doing it but when u feel u want to go out and be free and play tell him or something


i don't know what to give my boyfriend for christmas. the only thing i know he's interested in is video games and i don't have money like that. what could i get him with about $20 or $30?? (link)
ask him what kinds of music does he like get him a good cd they dont cost that much he might enjoy it. i love cds so u know


ok there is this boy that i really like and he gave me my first kiss.And when-ever he was in trouble i was there to help him. Also his dad hit him alot and one day he and his dad were fighting real bad. Then his mom and his dad left. so he called around looking for me. i know this because all my friends started calling to to tell me that he is looking for me.we finally got to talk he asked me to come over asap. so i dropped everything and went to his house. i thought it was an emergency so i ran. it usually takes me 25min to get to his house but this time it took me only 15.min. but i got there he answered the door(he had a big mark on his face)(from his dad) and looked at me i helded his face and asked him what happened and he told me.i gave him a really big hug and i kissed his bruse.But my question is now he wont talk to me. But he tells all my friends that im the ONE for him but he continues not to talk to me and he ALSO has a girlfriend Please help me...... i beg you.... thank you!!!!
Ohhhh by the way not only does he tell my friends that im the ONE for him he brages that im a great kisser!please help me!i rate high....(16-FEMALE) (link)
alright he might be ashamed for being with u at his house. and maybe his gf had a problem with it. tell him if ur realy the one then he needs to figure out what hes going to do. ur a great friend. but tell him how u feel like u feel ignored talk to him
so he wasnt going out with her? oh well then im not sure what u could do sorry


My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We're getting pretty close. But my best guy friend..who's slept over my house a lot and he's always calling me and always around me..well, now he says that he keeps getting tempted to kiss me and he wants to hook up even if he has to share me. i think its crazy. but i dunno what to tell him. hes really fun and ive had questions whether i like him or not. but i really like my boyfriend and i wanna be with him so bad. what should i tell my best friend? (link)
tell ur best friend u dont like to be shared and if he wants he can wait if thats what u feel that u think how it could be. u need to tell him to back off or tell ur bf and have him say something cuze its not right. i mean he could do anything with u he wants and ur bf would get pissed so just tell him to lay off for now


Ok this happened a while ago so im preatty much not going to be able to act on it or anything but im still curious. I met this girl at a school function and we got talking and hit it off. there was a dance that day and neither of us had a date so i asked her and she said yes. after the dance she kissed me on the cheek told me she had a great time gave me her number and told me to call her. weird thing is everytime i called her after that she was busy, this continued for about a month with me calling her about twice a week give or take. i got a little suspicious and told her that if she didnt like me she should just tell me but she said that it was jsut becasue her mom was mean and kept not letting her go out. after another month or so i got tired of it and called her up with one last cahnce i knew she wasnt going to take. i said if you cant make anytime for me in this long then i dont think we should be going out she answered with "i think your a great guy but...yadayadayada typical blow off" i really dont know waht happened she didnt seem like the type of girl that would play a guy and she didnt get anything out of me so i really dont know. lets see i was 17 then and she was 14 so i dont know if that played anything into it. any help you could give would be appreciated, and i know you probably get this in 3/4 of the questions in your colum but youre totaly hot. (link)
lol alright well shes 14 right? shes a little slut right? ok were on the same page. some chicks do that so htey can tell their friends they went out with a 17 year old. she may have not done anything but to her ur age might be the whole thing. or, she could of found another guy that shes likes more i mean u never know


i've been on the pill for about 2 weeks now and i was told not to have unprotected sex until i was on the pill for about a month or so. well last night me and my boyfriend were having sex and 2 condoms broke...we were so caught up in the moment that we decided to keep going and he was gonna pull out. well he did and when i looked down it took a couple seconds for him to "go" i'm pretty sure we're safe but what do you think? (link)
i dont think ur safe it broke and theres that chance that somethign might just happen and u never know i wouldnt take that risk


Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself. (link)
dude if i were u id tell the guy. he needs to know so hell know if its comming or not. i mean id rather know the past then to find out hwen its already happend


ok i have 4 dogs:
-Irish Setter
-Golden Retreiver
-Beagel
-Yorkie
And I have 3 cats:
-Siamese
-Sphynx
-Pursian

I need ALL different kinds of toys for these pets! just 1 toy wont be enough they all fight over it! Do any of yall know ne good cat & dog toys??? in need of help b4 pets go boring and sad!

Blue_Fusion (link)
alright for hte dogs
chew toy bone
rope like a toy rope
stuffed animal
and ummmmm sqeaky toy thats all i can think of
the cats
bell in a ball
mouse
string
and lots of balls thats all i can give
hope this helps


I have had my Shih Tzu for 1 year and one month got him when he was 3 months old. My problem is he is very difficult to potty train,,,sometimes he has accidents in the house, can't figure out why at his age he does, being I thought he was potty trained he goes for long periods without doing anything, then out of the blue he messes in the house..Can someone help me please??? (link)
do u have a dog? u never said what it is. if its a dog then rub his nose in it. i know it sounds so mean but thats what we did to potty train our dog


I have a 6 month old beagle and he bites me all the time..and only me and sometimes my mom but not my dad or brother..he never used to to this! It started about a few weeks ago and I don't think he's mad because half the time he's around me and happy..and then the other half he just starts chewing on me and I tell him to stop and I move away and he get's even more mad! I don't know what to do it really bothers me and it hurts! I know he's not teething because he's past that age and he chews his toys too. If I try to stop and disiplin him he doesn't listen..but he listens to everyone else in my family! Please help! I'll rate high..thanks!! (link)
have u considered he needs to chew on something? i have a puppy and we got her this bone and its like all weird looking it says it helps with their teeth and plauqe so its good and she cant chew it all up. maybe u need to get the puppy something like that so it wont chew on u and when it does get it the bone or maybe a rope


My friend has a dog that won't stop eating like when she takes the food away he growls at her a bites her .all he does is lay around by his food and if anyone walks by he bites them
what to do (link)
id get a skrit bodel and squirt him when he nips or bits at u and say no


Hi, i'm sad cause my dog is the nicest one on earth. but he's sad cause we had another dog and we had to give her away. its horrible i cant stand it. my mom wont let me get another dog. wut should i do?-Caitlan (link)
my dog use to play with my cat. get a kitten theyll play but if ur dog is big hten idk we have a small dog and hed play with the kitten and vis versa. hope this helped




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