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i dont know what to say or how to explain it really. im just simply, unhappy. i used to be happy, i dont know what happened. everything just feels so useless and people just suck. no one cares about anyone but themselves and i feel like im at a loss and i always find me second guessing myself. whats wrong with me? how can i be happy again?
one answer.....
Jesus :D
Okay, I am a catholic and christian. Have been for my whole life. I go to church every sunday, and pray every once in a while, not as much as I should. I do believe in Jesus Christ and have strong faith, but lately I have become obsessed with exorcism rituals, paranormal, and OBE's(out of body experience rituals) I have tried many times to have them and they actually work. Sometimes I feel like something is trying to enter my body when I do this, but before hand I come out of it like Im fighting it off.. I am scared that I could possibly one day become possesed myself. After I saw the movie The exorcism of Emily Rose it really made me intrested...so I am asking is this wrong and what can I do to stop this before I get deeper in?
The only answer is Jesus Christ.Have you fully relyed your faith in Him?He is the only one who can help you..When these things start to happen just say no and start praying.God is more poerrful than satan and you have to understand that only Jesus can help
I have thought alot about suicide. Wrote suicide letters, read them over and over. Some days I want to kill myself, others I don't. I was just wondering for someone who is catholic and christian why do these thoughts occur. I believe in God so much and go to church all the time, but yet I have these evil thoughts, what would happen if I were to kill myself, would I go to hell?
Well, I am Christian, and all I can tell you from this is not to give in to those thoughts. to something gooWhen they come into your mind,change them around to something good and ask God to help you.He is the only answer and the only one that can help you.
I hope I helped.....
First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.
But.
I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.
I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?
Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like
"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"
or outright flames will get a 1.
well, im Christian, and i believe that sex before marraige is wrong.Why would you want to waste pretty much your best way of showung your love for someone,on probably people you mite not end up with?
I was wondering if any of you knew where a good website is to load music from CD's onto to make a URL so I can put it as background music for xanga or myspace.
PLZNTHANKS.
I'll rate.
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if a man you lived with and had a relationship with moved out while u were in the hospital for 3 days and told you you needed to loose weight cause you are too fat should you take him back if he apologies?
Noooo!!
ok right james asked me out he was the first boy i was attracted to in college until along came tony. Now Tony won't talk to me because i rejected him 3 times when he asked me out and he thinks i told the whole skl and he thinks i am proud to have rejected him.Now i think he hates me he won't talk to me. Right i kinda held hands with Tony but we never kissed or anything and i was thinking James is the one who is not childish hes also really clever. Will Tony ever talk to me again what can i do to make friends with him again? and will he still fancy me becoz hes telling my friends how hes over me! but is he really over me? what can i do because everyone is calling Tony a pushover because of what i did. Now some of my friends say ignore him don't phone him.. my other friends say phone him say sorry i just don't know.
Tony still likes you, hes just trying to get revenge bcuz u rejected him 3 times!Tell tony youre sorry, and you like him now, and if he rejects you then theres always james!lol thats not so great but its all i could think of..sorry!
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i am on crutches =( and will be for halloween. I really wanna go trick or treating. What should i do? Even if someone like pushed me around in a wagon or something, i still hafta walk up stairs, and it will be so hard doing that all night. Please help me!
aw im sorry..that really sucks.But all you can really do, is see if some of your frends are willing to sacrifice going a little slower for you and if they would go up the staris and say "hey thats my freind on the crutches down there could you put some candy in here for him" lol maybe youll get some extra candy that way =D
I hope I helped you out!
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ive been best friends with this guy since the day he moved in across the street from me nothings ever been wrong i mean we got in small fights every once in a while but we hugged and forgot. since he went into 9th grade and i went into 8th we havent seen alot of each other but i understand why i mean he always has football practice or hes hanging out with his other friends i saw him at the beggining of the year and we hung out and caught up on what we did over the summer it was just like nothing had ever happened and everythnig was alright but when i saw him a few days ago he completely ignored me and it might have been because his friends were there and he just wanted to be stupid but i dont think so because he didnt even look at me and when i said i hate you (its an inside joke) he said it back when he usually says but i love you. to tell you the truth if it was one of my other friends i could really care less but its not because i like him and last year he said he liked me. what do i do so he doesnt ignore me and so i can see him more?
Well theres nothing for you to do about him ignoting you,thats his choice and its his fault.DONT let him take advantage of you!!!!!
You just worry about being you and dont try to change the person you are for him.If hes not realizing that theres this great girl that he used to be frends with and is ignoring you,then forget him!!Its hard to do but you can either just move on and forget about him or you can talk to him about it or try to have more 1 on 1 time like on the fone,or online or something..
I hope I helped!
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OK, well im 14 and still havent had a b/f yet. Is there like smething wrong with mme? Im affraid I wont have a b/f the whole 4 years of highschool. Thanks!
Dont worry.I mean, look at the whole root of dating...marraige.So maybe you should hold off dating until youre ready to konw how to look for who youre going to marry.And some people Dont date until theyre 16 so..I hope i helped
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i babysit one 5 year old girl and one 7 year old boy every tuesday, and i dont know what to do with them. they only can watch tv or play video games for a total of 1 hour and 30 minits. the girl always wants to play barbies or computer games with me and i can tell the boy gets kind of bored. could someone help me come up with some crafts or games i can play with both of them? thanx i rate high
try playing in the backyard with them!
but my friend is a chrisitan. He wants me to go to church with him every week, and im not all that enthusiastic. I feel guilty for even thinking about saying no because i get all self concious when i think of him thinking of me as a sinner. Anyways we were having a very good time at a footbal game and then we were talking about stuff and somehow the topic just came up about dying. He was like, no offense but if you died right now i think you'd go to hell. He was being really serious. Well, it depressed the hell out of me. Im a nice person, i dont try to judge people, i like to share, my morals are higher then anyone elses and then i get depressed because i cant live up to them. I was really hurt but i didnt let on. He wouldnt elaborate, he said we could talk about it on the phone sometime. Well, do you think it was right of him to say that? Or am i just being dumb? I cant help but feel like im some kind of 'project' hes trying to save...
Why don't you think of considering Christianity?take your belief into thought.. and if your friend is telling you this, it means he cares about you and wants to see you in heaven.Dont feel like a 'project' just look at it as how much he cares about you.That was probably really hard for him to say,so you gotta try to understand how he feels, and give him a chance.Dont take it offensivley.Just because "youre a good person and you help out people" does not mean anything.Youre friend is a really great one that he would say somthing thats hard to say because he cares about you....
I'm an Aethiest. I strongly believe that there is no god. I respect other people's religions, and I don't try to convert people or anything. Now, I've been in scouting for years. Lots of years. From a Tiger Cub Scout in 1st grade to a First Class scout now (I'm kind of slow with scouting). Anyway, the requirement for every class that says to live the Scout Oath and Scout Law in your every day life is now being enforced. My parents made me describe each part of the Law and Oath in great depth. When we reached Brave and Clean, I was starting to slip up. And then we reached Reverent.
Boy Scouts expects everyone to believe in some sort of god, and be straight. Gays and Aethiests have been kicked out in the past. And since Boy Scouts is a private thing, government can't interfere. People have tried to sue and lost the case. Now, I want to keep scouting. I love being a Boy Scout. Plus, it'll look good on my job application forms when I'm old enough that it won't be against child labor laws. =P So my options are:
a) Quit scouting (I don't want to. Really.)
b) Believe in a god (I'm not going to change my beliefs because of this. It's not in human nature.
c) Lie about my religion (Also against the Scout Oath. Not good.)
So obviously, I'm screwed. What should I do? It's putting so much pressure on me...
I'm so glad you asked this question.I'm a Christian,and please don't just blow me off because i said that,you said you respect other people's beliefs.So anyways,instead of lying or "pretending" why don't you take this whole athiest issue into deep thought.If you dont mind that I ask,could you explain to me why you dont believe in God or why you are athiest?Im almost positive I'll be able to help.
trust me you haven't changed my "religious veiws" if you're gonna believe in something you're gonna put your whole life into it so you better have proof to back you up abd proove others wrong,am i right?No, there's no official proof like a video or something, and you have to understand that believeing in God means putting your trust in Him and believeing that God is,was,and is to come...God always was..Thats all I can tell you.But could you answer my quesion and prooove that there is no God?
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at my school im not socially accepted and i dont no why this is my second year here and im not trying to be cocky but im really pretty, and im nice, but im not socially accepted for some reason. ps i go to a private school. But anyway my ex-best frieend goes to the same school i do and she thinks shes miss all taht or w.e and there are about 16/40 kids in my calss that i get along fine with its jsut the people who don't like me always hang out with those people i get along with. there is this one person who always picks on me saying that im annoying when to tell you the truth im really not. I have had a really hard life so far, and i don't want to see a therapist or anything, but today after school i was crying because im not socailly accepted and i really like the school and all, but some of the kids there are so mean to me. also does neone know some good combacks/stand up for yourself or nething
ps i would switch schools but i cant
ps there are only 2 other schools around me (one is a sorta druggie school, the other school i dont no)
ps what should i say to the person who keeps on saying omg your annoying get the hell out of here, etc
please help me i willl rate
please answer all my questions thats in my story and the ps ones
Hey i know how you feel.Im sort of goin thru the same thing.I go to a private school too (not that that has anything to do with it) and theres just "cliques" in my class and its kinda hard to find out which one you fit in with.The people who are annoying you, are proabably doing that because they're jealous.All you can do is ignore them.And if ur nice to them,it makes them really mad cuz they know that what they're trying to do isn't working.If you're not going to ignore them or make peace with them then try that.Trust me,it kills them.It's the best come back you can have.
Girl gets kitten. Girl doesn't know what to name kitten.
Yup.
Here's a picture of it:
http://tinypic.com/et9qhv.jpg
First I was thinking Pixie...now I'm thinking...Jelly maybe?
Ya you should most definitely suggest a name.
Please nothing so cliche' as "Snowball". Thnks.
I rate 5s.....like 95% of the time.
aw shes very cute
umm how about snowball?lol just kidding..
hm..Tinkerbell,Lady,those aren't so great but i dont know i hope you find the name you like best soon =D
well I sent alot of emails to a guy that I like, and then I figuared out that I aint ready to date agian for a while, how do I tell him that I aint ready to date yet, cause he really likes me as well, and I am just wanting to look around and find my self before dateing agian...how do I tell him??? that I aint ready to date yet??
Just tell him how it is.If a guy dosen't like you for who you are or what your morals are,then he's not worth it.You should'nt have to change who you are for him.Just say I'm sorry but I dont think I'm ready to date yet, and if he respects that, then good,but if he dosen't,then it's his problem.Not yours.