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STUPID ME


Question Posted Friday October 21 2005, 8:38 pm

well I sent alot of emails to a guy that I like, and then I figuared out that I aint ready to date agian for a while, how do I tell him that I aint ready to date yet, cause he really likes me as well, and I am just wanting to look around and find my self before dateing agian...how do I tell him??? that I aint ready to date yet??

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alongtimelex answered Friday October 21 2005, 10:23 pm:
Just be honest with him and straight forward. If you lie, you might end up making things harder on yourself and him. If he brings up dating, tell him exactly how you feel. Ways you could tell him are: in an email, on AIM, over the phone, in person, and in a letter. I definitely suggest being honest with him because it would not be fair to lead him on, especially if he really likes you. If you value your friendship with him, make sure you tell him that you still want to remain friends. Do not worry, plenty of girls would like to "find" themselves before getting into a relationshp and becoming dependent on someone else. I hope everything works out, and you find a way to tell him how you feel. Good luck =)

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Curry09 answered Friday October 21 2005, 9:50 pm:
Tell him that you thought you were ready to date but your not, tell him that you don't want to try it yet either because you don't want to lead him on and then you breaking up with him cause your really not ready. He should understand and if he doesn't then maybe he's not the guy you thought he was.

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DaNcE_In_ThE_RaIn answered Friday October 21 2005, 9:34 pm:
Just tell him how it is.If a guy dosen't like you for who you are or what your morals are,then he's not worth it.You should'nt have to change who you are for him.Just say I'm sorry but I dont think I'm ready to date yet, and if he respects that, then good,but if he dosen't,then it's his problem.Not yours.

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