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Wrong cat. Sorry.
So 2 days ago, I leaned over to smell the yummy food thing being cooked on the stove. I have long hair. Or I used to, at least. Anyway, I leaned over, 'mmm'ed for a sec, then screamed and put out the fire that had started on my hair. So more than 10cm were poof, gone, burnt. I happened so fast.
My hair was as long as ... halfway through my back, cut in Asian style with many layers. Now, the left side is long like that, but the right side, the burnt side, barely reaches my shoulder. I basically look like a clown and I don't really like it... I have an appointment with this really skilled hairdresser dude (he claims to be so, whatever) on Tuesday. Now my question is:
(1) Should I tell him "Surprise me!" when he asks what I want the haircut to look like
OR
(2) Tell him I want a specific style. (You have to help me here as well ... I have a very round face, I'm tall [if that matters] and I'm 18).
Thanks so much.
ok well even if he is a proffessional dont let him surprise you or you might not like it. short hair is good for a round face but if yoy tall it should have come length and be curly.
sorry this is long...
Why do a guy tell u that they like u and then said they like your friend too?
okay my best friend Jon i knew from high school went out with my friend Sara for three days, she never like him and she just wanted to be friends, she broke up with him. Jon told me he like me too but he was not my type. years went by and we all now are good friends. But HE stills like us BOTH!
and
i dated this guy name Tony for two months when i was in my 11th grade. i broke up with him because i was dealing with some famliy issuess and i couldnt deal with a realtionship. when i broke up with him i broke his heart. i felt bad but i was busy with famliy too. then my friend Sara told me that he wrote a note to her saying he likes her.
She never like him that way. i was jealous but i got over it. after graduation Tony moved to Hawaii with his mother.
3 years went by and he called Sara and me.
he told me he still likes me and i told him "im sorry but i dont feel the same" he said it was alright about it because he wants to be friends. Then he told me he liked Sara too. she said
to him "she liked him as a friend nothing more"
thats what Tony told me.and he said the same thing to her what he said to me.
I dont get it....? why do guys do that? they cant find out what they want and years go by and they still like us. and we still dont like them back.
I'm not jealous i just clueless.......?
boys dont settle. to boys its like why have 1 when i can have both. it isnt fair bu its just how some guys act. you shouldnt take it, and the next guy who does it you should say something to gim. let him know that he cant have both.
can you bring a Ipod, Game system like PSP or Nintendo DS, or a DVD player on the plane? i know they have rules of what to bring on the plane but can you bring these? i dont want to be borded the whole flight.
yes after a certain point they will let you use electronics. just not computers or phones or something that needs a wireless connection
My friends and I went on an exercise regimen, just to get more toned for the summer. Part of that regimen is 100 oblique crunches per day [the ones where you're not working out your abs, but more your 'love handles' or whatever, on the sides].
I've been doing my crunches for a couple of days now, but I'm not um, "feeling the burn," if you know what I mean. Like, it doesn't feel like I'm doing any kind of exercise.
Am I doing something wrong? I had never done these kinds of crunches before... so maybe I'm doing them wrong.
if your not feeling the burn then your either not doing it right or its not hard enough which just means you need another way to get rid of those love handles. look at how your friends are doing it, and ask them exactly how their doing it.
i really love my boyfriend. but it seems like all he wants to do is kiss and make out, and i just hardly ever feel like it. i have to force myself to do it so he wont think i dont like him. but i wonder if there is something wrong with me. i mean i really really like this guy, so shouldnt i want to do that stuff as much as he does? btw im 13/f and all we've done is kiss and make out a little so far. but we've been going out since we were 11.
first off dont force yourself to do something just to please him. he should get the hint that your not into it at the moment and to base you relationship on other things than intamacy. lovey theres nothing wrong with you. yoyr not the only one that feels that way. no you shouldnt want to do it just because he wants to. your 2 seperate people with 2 different interests. thats a long relationship you got their. so by then it should be based on truth. tell him how you feel. he'll understand
So, I am trying to decide if I am skinny enough or not to wear a bikini yet. I really want to because i have lost 20 pounds sice last summer but I am still 153ish. Im 5'5' and my BMI is a 25.5. So I am still overweight. I am not very tone on my stomache yet and I am scared that people will make fun of me because most the people at the pool I go to go to my school. I am worried that the guys will be like OMG she is way to fat to wear a bikini. Do people really judge you on what you look like in one? So should I do it or not? Sorry it is kinda long
well sweetsz people will judge you you cant help that. but personally i dont think its time to go to pool yet. try getting a tan because its summer and everyone needs color. dont give up on your diets r exercise. if you really want to go to the pool then just kick it up a notch. work out more. and do not cheat on your diets.
okay their is this guy who is obsessed with me and his name is andrew. hes a dorky and all. but hes nice. i dont like him but he follows me everywhere i go. hes always asking where i am and what im doing. he talks to my friends to see what im doing and when im hangingout with them so hecan join us. and even on his myspace it says I LOVE BRITTANy all over it. oh and he says i love you to me. even though he doesnt know me. he knows.. that i know that he likes me. its kinda like a no BRAINer. and hes even asked me out. but like i said i dont like him. But he tells me even if i dont likehim, he will never stop loving me. and honestly the guy doenst know me well enoguht to love me much less like me.
SO HOW DO I TELL him to basically screw off.. because ive tried that and it doesnt work and ive tried just telliung him nicely.?!??!?! help me.
ok heres what you do. get him alone privaetely. tell him plainly and calmly that you dont love him and you would like it if he just stopped. you flattered he loves you and all but hes just all up in your face too much.
if he doesnt get the hin in the next day or so then thats when you say screw him and take thigsa little meaner. tell him that you dont appreciate what hes doing at all etc. after that comes the silent treatment. if he had a brain at all he would take the hint and leave you alone.
15/f
I'm on the slim4life diet and have been for about a month. I keep cheating. It's making the weight loss slow down. I don't tell anyone I do but I am and I feel like I can't help it. Iv'e gotten a little better on self control but it's hard not to cheat. especally being a teenager and all my friends eat food like I want but can't have. I'm really trying my hardest not to cheat. Anyone have tips to stop eating off plan foods?
ask your friends to be more supportive. if they keep eatingin front of then that will temp you. get rid of all temptations. go to the store and buy nice diet foods. buy alot so the house feels full of food.find some extra curricular things to do. go out with the girls. just satay away from food stores. always keep some extra diet food and keep it with you in case your friends just stop by a food store. also chewing gum will help. it will burn carbs. and keep you mouth occupied.
thanks for the good advice! but what is a "mack"? i havent heard that before. thanks :]
a 'mack' is a guy that takes advantage of girls
16/f
i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, but i've known him all my life. he's extremely popular, good looking, outgoing and funny - basically a chick magnet with girls flocking to him all the time. he loves the attention and flirts a lot. i know there have been times that he's been close to breaking up with me for another girl, but so far he has stuck with me. one time he even told a girl he would break up with me to go out with her, but then he told her he couldn't do it because he really loves me. anyway, i really love him a lot but needless to say i'm constantly worried. i know there's no way to stop his flirting, thats just his personality and i dont think he'll ever change. part of me thinks i should just live with it, since after all it's me he's going out with and i do believe he really loves me. but sometimes i think i should just cut him loose so i don't have to be worried all the time. i know there are guys out there who wouldnt flirt and cause me so much grief... but i cant imagine liking anyone the way i love him. ahhhh what should i do?
well dont think that you cant spice up the relationship. but really if you both love each other there really shouldnt be much of a problem. i think you both need a good talk. hes hurting you and its to the point where you want to break up with him. he should get serious if hes serious about. he needs to understand that he cant keep going around to all these girls and keep comeing back to you. basically by your decription of him it seems that hes a 'mack'. you really dont want a mack as your boyfriend and you need to tell him that. stay close to him when other girls come around. keep a watchful eye without spieng on him. take him places make sure your weekends are filled with romance so he wont get bored and going to other girls.
Ok well when i got my leg waxed I found out later that there are still some green spots of the wax on my leg and I can't seem to remove it and i don't have any paper they used. I can't go back because it was somewhere far away.
What can i do?
go to another waxing place.
i love my girlfriend and we tell eachother everything. but lately ive noticed alot of black and blue bruises like HUGE bruises on her collar bone, legs, arms, ribs, face and back. sometimes like ocasionaly she will come to school with a black out. im worried. i alwyas ask her where they came from but she says its nothinng. and i know for a fact that her parents dont abuse her. but im afraid people will start thinking i did this too her. and i dont want that i love her and would never hurt her. but i wanna know where shes gettingg these from. what should i do?
ok well she could be depressed. emotionaly stressed. like cutting.(but more physical) watch for emotional mood swings. try to get threw to her that you realy want to help and are conserned for her safety. if it is nothing then she should have no problems telling you. but if its not your going to need to find out what it is before she gets really hurt. and i know your worried what people will think but dont tell her that. then she'll think your being self obsorbed and you dont really care whats happening to her. nut maybe one of her closest friends know. ask them. or her parents. but dont keep telling everyone. keep it private not everyone needs to know and start asking questions
ok, let's say there's a girl at your school, and *everyone* knows that her boyfriend is cheating on her, but she doesn't seem to realize it. do you feel sorry for her, or do you just think she's stupid for not seeing it? and then... when she does find out, she forgives her bf and gives him a 2nd chance. do you think she's a nice, forgiving person who loves her bf, or do you think she's a complete idiot for letting him play her like that? just wondering, becuz that girl is me and i wonder what people might be saying/thinking about me!
i would think that your being stupid for not noticing it. then i would find you and give you a talk on how you really feel and how you probabally dont deserve him.
im 13/f
ok i know this might sound stupid but sometimes i think im too nice, and people take advantage of me. like, if im sitting at a desk and someone says "aww i wanted to sit there", i'll get up and move, even though i really wanted to sit there. or if some girl is flirting with my boyfriend, i just sit there and dont say anything, even though i'd really like to punch her in the face. my dad and my boyfriend keep telling me i need to stand up for myself and not let people walk all over me, but i just can't do it! i dont want to be mean or look immature or rude! how can i stand up for myself without feeling like a "mean girl"?
you need some self confidence. alot of girls have this same problem. its good you want to be a good girl but you really shouldnt be a push-over. there is a way you can just say 'no' and not be mean. if its a small matter like someone needs a pencil thats ok to say yes. but if someone is flirting with your boy-friend then you def. need to say something (after all you dont want to lose him). you dont even need to tell them in front of so many people if your scared people will think your mean just talk to the person privately and tell them how your feeling. that way your not saying no your just telling the truth. and when you do think your being mean just remember 'im not being mean, im just being truthful'. besides everyone wants a truthful friend
14/f
i am thinking about getting my naval pierced and my mom has agreed to letting as long as the place is clean. but i was just wondering, do guys like it when girls get it pierced? are there like a group of guys who think it is disgusting? is there some poll thing i can look at of what guys like the piercing or not? thanks.
i think guys do think its sexy. all typesm like it. prepps like it because most cheerleaders have em. and emo kids do because their all about body piercings
15/f Okay. So, I have this guy friend and he's 18. And I have a friend who is a girl who is 18. And well, I used to have a crush on the guy, but he turned me down, and I got heartbroken. So then he started going out with the girl. I was SOOO wicked jealous...OMG. I hate(d) that girl's guts. Even though she's my friend. I like used to block her on MSN and he would get upset at me. So now...I made friends with her again. Like I unblocked her. And now, the guy friend thinks very highly of me for doing that. But he still doesn't like me in that way. And now I feel as they start going out more, I'm going to be left out and they're not going to be my friends anymore :( (I'm more worried about the guy being my friend than the girl). I am truly happy for them, with just a hint of jealousy (there always is) and I even tried to wreck their relationship once. But it upsets me that they will start paying less attention to me. Is there any way to overcome this icky lonely/jealous feeling? Should I just be supportive and very happy for them? And, if I may ask, is it normal in this type of situation to sometimes wish them the worst? (like in my mind) I mean..I don't mean it. But I don't want to lose him (yep, I don't care much about her).
Thanks so much in advance. :)
get active. do something and hang with your friends. dont get bored or you'll start to think of your situation. be supportive because they still are your friends. you dont have to be like ecstatic about them though. yeah its very normal. its just your jealousy acting up. jealousy is very normal but you need to focus your attention elsewhere.
im 13 and i wanna be a lifeguard when im 16. i'm gona pratice swimming and get better, but i want to know like whaat you have to do on the lifeguard test like to get your licence, like what do you do, like run, stuff like that.
please ttell me.
you have to float on back and stomach. stay afloat for a short amount of time. and a lot of laps in the pool without stopping.
sorry this is so long. ok. im 14/F. i am in love with my best guy friend, i'll call him trevor. i have beein in love with him for about 8 months. he is aware of this. (not from my own doing though.) the main problem is that he is my ex-bf's best friend. i was friends with trevor way before my ex even met him and decided he was his best friend. anyways, i dont think he likes or loves me as anything more than a sister, although everyone else thinks he does. its impossible to tell what his actions mean because we are so close as it is. even if he did like me, i dont think he would ever go out with me because of my ex, who i'll call brendan. brendan still loves me, we had a very serious relationship awhile back. he gets upset when he sees trevor and i talking, and has told trevor he doesnt care if he hangs out with me, as long as trevor doesnt talk to me when hes around. trevor usually complies with this. but brendan's ALWAYS around. he tries to be very possessive of me. basically, i need to know how to get my min doff him. i would do just about anything to be w him. i would do just about anything for him. i need advice on how to get over him, or keep my mind off him. i dont know what to do.
do something. be active and hang with your girl friends. dont just sit around because if you then you'll start to think of your situation. dont avoid them, just hang out with them less. nothings wrong with putting their call on hold=) hehehe. do something at school and get involved in something fun and interesting. or give other people advice. it will get your mind off your problem and help others with theirs. (thats what i do sometimes) =)
what age do you stop growing taller and how can you grow taller?
eat lots of nutrients. like mostly vegetables. keep it them and you will grow. also exercise and stretch your legs. as to when you stop, it depends. if your a girl its by 16. a boy is by 18-21
13/F
I have been going out with this guy, lets call him tom . Well he starting kinda flirting with this girl kinda lets call her sally[hahaha]. Well anyway, sally[who i want to choke] is all over tom. AHHHH i want to like kill her. Wow it makes me sooo mad. Shes all like giggling and smiling and stuff at him ahh. So one night i got so frustrated that i started flirting with this one guy lets call him logan. i really did like him at the beggining of the school year, so i thought it would be easy to flirt with him. So i did, and i look over at tom to see if he gets mad and he looked sooooo teed of. wow he was mad. then he looked away like nothing happend. now im trying to stop flirting because he stopped, but logan thinks i like him so he keeps flirting with me! ahh im afraid of tom getting mad at me. :\
need help badly,
ANYTHING helps.
thankssomuch
-kenzie
tell tom what the whole deal is about. tell that sally off. make sure she gets the point that tom is with you and she needs to get her dessperate hands off him. as for the new guy tell him what you did. it might hurt him but oh well hes young he'll get over it =)