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boy problems.
okay their is this guy who is obsessed with me and his name is andrew. hes a dorky and all. but hes nice. i dont like him but he follows me everywhere i go. hes always asking where i am and what im doing. he talks to my friends to see what im doing and when im hangingout with them so hecan join us. and even on his myspace it says I LOVE BRITTANy all over it. oh and he says i love you to me. even though he doesnt know me. he knows.. that i know that he likes me. its kinda like a no BRAINer. and hes even asked me out. but like i said i dont like him. But he tells me even if i dont likehim, he will never stop loving me. and honestly the guy doenst know me well enoguht to love me much less like me.
SO HOW DO I TELL him to basically screw off.. because ive tried that and it doesnt work and ive tried just telliung him nicely.?!??!?! help me.
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your in a tough spot right now try giving him a chance and show him a different side of you that he will dis like and haas never seen, or you should tell him their really is no chance with me it is ok that you keep loving me but please dont stalk me it would make so happy if you stop so give it a try GOOD LUCK:]
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hes putting you in a difficult situation and it may seem hard to talk to him about it but you have to let him know that hes making you feel uncomfortable when he tells you he likes you. explain to him that you only like him as a friend and hes ruining his friendship with you by sharing his feelings. and even if he is dorky, hes nice so dont completely blow him off but stand up for yourself. dont worry, it will work out!
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There are some good ideas below, but also you could try being like " If you love me and care about me then you will respect my feelings and lay off." If he really is in love with you, he will back off. Good luck with everything
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ok heres what you do. get him alone privaetely. tell him plainly and calmly that you dont love him and you would like it if he just stopped. you flattered he loves you and all but hes just all up in your face too much.
if he doesnt get the hin in the next day or so then thats when you say screw him and take thigsa little meaner. tell him that you dont appreciate what hes doing at all etc. after that comes the silent treatment. if he had a brain at all he would take the hint and leave you alone.
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thats when you need to be like..."look...I don't like you, we'll never be together...You're not gonna love me forever...one day I'm gonna be older and go off and get married and your still gonna wait for me...I don't think so...you'd be miserable...I won't date you...it just wont happen..I'm not attracted to you in that way...but I'd be more than happy to help you find someone good for you...because it's not me"
He needs to find someone that likes him back...once he realizes what he's been missing by following you for so long he'll realize that he needs to move on...all he needs is a girlfriend who likes him and can show him all that he's been missing out on
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