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i love my girlfriend and we tell eachother everything. but lately ive noticed alot of black and blue bruises like HUGE bruises on her collar bone, legs, arms, ribs, face and back. sometimes like ocasionaly she will come to school with a black out. im worried. i alwyas ask her where they came from but she says its nothinng. and i know for a fact that her parents dont abuse her. but im afraid people will start thinking i did this too her. and i dont want that i love her and would never hurt her. but i wanna know where shes gettingg these from. what should i do?
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i think if it is nothing she would of told you what happened all ready so there maybe something going on there, even if your certain that it isnt her parents it still could be you never know. i think you should talk to her privatly and tell her your worried and that she can trust you after all you are her boyfriend. just tell her your there for her no matter what... if something is really going on i think she is just scared to talk about it.
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Her parents could be doing this to her [whether you think you know them so well or not]. The people you least expect to do these things are the ones who actually do it.
It could be your girlfriend doing that to herself for attention. If it's not her, does she have any siblings? Are there problems at home?
Whatever this may be, you need to turn her in to somebody you trust so they can get her help. Someone's hurting her & you need to make sure they don't do that anymore.
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the best thing you can do for her and you is to turn her into a respected authority. teacher, counselor, your parent & or friend. Somebody who you trust will help. that way they can take care of it and it releaves the stress from you and she can get the help she needs. That way you and her will be better off.
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ok well she could be depressed. emotionaly stressed. like cutting.(but more physical) watch for emotional mood swings. try to get threw to her that you realy want to help and are conserned for her safety. if it is nothing then she should have no problems telling you. but if its not your going to need to find out what it is before she gets really hurt. and i know your worried what people will think but dont tell her that. then she'll think your being self obsorbed and you dont really care whats happening to her. nut maybe one of her closest friends know. ask them. or her parents. but dont keep telling everyone. keep it private not everyone needs to know and start asking questions
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