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Q: Well my family is a family with 5 kids. We are running sort of low on money. How couild I help them out. I mean my mom could nopt even buy shampoo the other day!

ok try babysitting or doing odd jobs like mowing the lawn for other ppl etc. also be conservative on the amount of things you use

Q: Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya!

try the gossip girls series it is really easy to get wrapped up into them.......
and also try all american girl by meg cabot
the bean trees is interesting

Q: im 14 years old. My mom isnt working right now so we dont have alot of money. The clothes i wear are american eagle, aeropostale, hollister, and abercrombie mostly. Well for school my mom said i cant get alot of clothes unless i buy them with my own money. i was wondering if anyone knew a way i could make money for some clothes. The place that i live at there arent that many kids, so i cant baby sit around here. Does anyone have any ideas?

try selling off your old clothes to platos closet and also try places like tj maxx and ross who sell american eagle abercrombie and hollister

Q: i have stage frite! when im singing w/ my music teacher or around my friends or for an audition for a play by myself, i barely sing! im so nervous! but when im by myself singing or singing to my cds, i think i sound pretty good! i mean i must be since i keep getting nominated for things like all county, nyssma, select choir, etc. im just SO nervous! how can i get over this REALLY annoying feeling? thanks in advance!

ps-i have another audition for a musical auguest 1st

we all get it
first take a really deep breath but dont hyper venalate(yah how ever you spell it)
also dont go into the audition think you will mess up cause then u will
every one is for you not aganist you
next close your eyes for a sec and pretend no one is there...make sure you can hit all your noted be fore the audition
then go in and kick butt!

Q: what is the title and artist of this song:
if i go crazy will you still call me superman.

kryptonite yes! by three doors down

Q: wat is the title and artist of this song:
if he loves me i wanna know. how can i tell if he loves me so?
is it in his eyes? oh no it isnt
and so on.
thanx

the shoop shoop song(it's in his kiss)

Q: does anybody know some good alternative rock i wil give good rating please help

Relient k
switchfoot
3 doors down
howie day
the killers
fall out boy
my chemical romance

Q: when you put a song in the recycle bin what happens .. do they refund your money ?

no...unfortunately

Q: does anyone know of any really good alternative rock songs..(like lifehouse, foo fighters, howie day)or bands? PLEASE tell me i'll rate high because i keep listening to the same songs over and over again and i wanna try some other new songs!

*Relient K -be my escape.forward motion.getting into you.(all of them are good)
*howie day-collide
*killers-somebody told me.mr.brightside.smile like you mean it
*lifehouse-everything.hanging by a moment
*fall out boy-grand theft autumn

Q: i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God.

read your bible here are some verses to read
mark 11:22-25
luke 12:29
issiah 46:10-11b

Q: hi i'm 13 and a Christian but i have a bad habit of lying...i know that its really bad like i dont lie big time just like little white lies but they r still bad so do any of u know any bible verses on lying, not lying,how lying is bad and stuff like that? plz help!! ~i rate high~

lying is bad yes..but god will always forgive you...ask him for help when it comes to lying.im sorry i dont know any verses about lying but try a concordance in your bible

Q: i am a christian,but i relate much more to the catholic ways. Is it sacriligious to be from a different form of christianity before becoming catholic, and is there a procedure to take before u can be one?

there are christian catholics..it doesnt matter as long as your foundations or your faith is built on

Q: ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.

dont worry you havent missed your chance...God knows it isnt easy for you to raise your hand...just recently i was in the saeme situation..i recommitted my life back in april and all my friends who thought i had been a real christian were shocked...but there is something called a scauffer..that is a person who basically makes fun of you for your belief that goes to your church..this is between you and God...you dont have to be around anyone to except jesus as your personal savior you can do it your self.
proverbs 28:26

Q: I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me.

I dont know but if you have ever heard the song "take you back" by jeremy camp...it talks about how no matter how many mistakes you make god will always forgive you and take you back..... From personal experiences i can tell u he is amazing...he odoesnt care about your past...you just have to believe that he is your personal savior and he is the only way to get to heaven.

Q: ok so i am a guy and i signed up well tried out is more like the word for colorgaurd this sport that were wel lyou twirl guns wood of course and flags and show school spirit. and the great thing is i made it but my friends and well a lot of people disagree with my desicion. i mean i know i shouldn't care what they say and that god is here and i am doing it for him i want to get these people t know him and show others that this activity is not a joke or it is "gay" in there words. and i mean it hurts because i get made fun of but i live with it and give it all to god. but i still need prayer. so if you would pray for me that i may get through this rough time and show others that i can make a diffrence. and i mean i just ned advice and support on like how can i deal with this stress i mean i give it to god of course but how can i make it so when hurtfull words come to me such as "dude you'r a looser for doing that, coorgaurd is so gay and dumb only stupid kids do that" i mean it hurts do you have any verses i can look up and how to deal with this stress and what not. And pleas please please pray for me. on this situation

thnx a bunch

monn

ok first of all i was in colorguard for the first half of the school year and then i quit because it was more than i could handle....i met guys on other colorguards that WERE NOT GAY...being a guy and on colorguard is fine..so dont worry....i think it is a good idea to give it all to god!as ill like to think of it color*GUARD* your heart for God...... God is amazing and is indescribeable!
keep livin it up your reward in life will come

Q: Im 15/f. At the moment I'm a Christian, but I'm considering becoming a solitary witch. I've got some questions I'd like to know the answers to from people who actually practise witchcraft and aren't just writing a book

1) Do I need to start praying to the God straight
away?
2) Do I definetely need a separate altar, goddess
shrine, god shrine and lunar shrine because I
only have a small room
3) Does being a witch cost a lot of money?
I'm too young to get a job so I don't have
much money

Don't get me wrong, I really want to become a witch. It's just that the books I'm reading just aren't answering all my questions as they are written by older women dedicated to the craft completely, not a young beginner. Any sources of information or tips on becoming and being a solitary witch are also welcome.

Thanx to the moon and back xxx

Ok...i hate to tell you but worship satan is just going to bring you grief... satan is what is trying to get you into witchcraft...doesnt witchcraft seem a little wierd???i dont know alot about it but God loves you....and if you were a christian in the first place you wouldnt turn to satan....
How bout you pray to the real god instead.....before turning to witchcraft

Q: I am a dancer and when im home alone... i dance lol.. what are some good fast pace songs that are good to dance to?

Gwen Stefani*
Hollaback girl

Q: im a 14/f, almost 15, and im around 5'4 or 5'5 and about 135 pounds, but im muscular. how many shots would be safe to drink? i drink for fun, but i want to be sure i dont get blood alcohol poisioning. what would the safe amount to drink be?

there is no safe drinking...

Q: My bro is in iraq and its hard to deal with cause one of his friends was killed and the other one shot last week. how should i deal with it?

Well God is a lifechanger...i know praying isnt what you want to hear but he changes lives.. He can help you through this situation.....he cares about you

Q: I absolutely hate my hair. I have thick light brown hair with blonde highlights. When i say thick.. i mean really thick. I have anywhere from 5-10 minutes in the morning to do my hair. Besides the everyday ponytail... what can i do to my hair? I am taking coloring, cutting, and styling ideas.

i have really thick hair too..mine is blonde but what you could do is straighten it the night before i reccomend a chi iron because other ones will make your hair greasy after you sleeep on it...get it how you want it...it will be kind of frizzy and poofy but once you sleep on it ..it will settle down.... then in the morning all you have to do is touch up......

cutting your hair i would reccomend layers...not choppy.. longer layers are good and light side bangs are managable and in style and are easy to grow aout and they make anyone look good. the also look good with ponytails.
coloring my friends has brown hair and she put a lil red streaks in it and it looks sooo cute so maybe if you want to try that!

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hey it is KJ!!! I love fashion shopping music hanging out with my friends God is the most important thing in my life. i am not one of those adive columnist who put random junk..so feel free to ask anything...