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okay. im flat. like i take a 30 A. well thats what my bra says. but like. that one is kinda small and i need a better one. i was thinking victoria secrets but i dont know what size i would be, and would they carry my size? i want a push up and padded. but i have no idea if they would have my size and like.. i guess i have to ask them to measure me cuz im lost.
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What i would do...is go to a bra store (like Vicotria's Secret, or Nordstrom etc.) and ask them to measure you, and then you can just get whatever size they tell you...and if that makes you uncomfortable, you can just go into a bra store, and try on a bunch of different sizes, and then you can determine which size you like the best.
Good Luck!
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I have a problem. I have this guy friend and he wants to "hook up" with me, here's the catch...he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. I have liked him for 3 years and finally he wants to make a move but it doesn't seem right to me. I don't like the idea of going behind her back and making-out with her boyfriend. He wants to hook up in school, I rather do it outside of school so we could be alone and have no chance of getting caught.
I want the same things he wants from me. My best friend thinks that I should leave him alone but I can't help but think that this might be my last chance to be with him. Cam you help me?
-Troubled Heart
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DONT HOOK UP WITH HIM! Its so unfair to his girlfriend to have you going behind her back like that. THink about if you were in her shoes, would you want your boyfriend hooking up with someone. You will most likely get caught...because people always do, and if you do get caught, then word around school will get around and you will be regardes as a slut. DONT CHEAT, he is an ass who is willing to cheat on his girlfriend, do you really want to be involved with a guy like that?
Good luck, and i hope you do the right thing.
Sorry if this seemed harsh.
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I know the two go hand in hand, which explains why I feel so low at the moment. There's so much going wrong with my family life, my work like and my health right now and it's affecting everything. Even my relationship with my boyfriend.
The question is, what do I do about it?? I can't keep going the way I am or I SWEAR I am going to have a meltdown.
Please help and if you can, I would appreciate natural help, rather than counselling or therapy. (link)
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I think what you need is a break. If you can, take a few days off of work, and eaither check into a hotel, or stay home, and just relax. DOnt bring your boyfriend along, that way you can be all alone, and just calm down. Try and get some more sleep, and eat healthy to help get some more energy. If you cant take time off of work, try relaxing after work, just take some time for yourself. Some that ALWAYS helps me is to watch a movie or tv. Sit down on your couch (or on your bed) or somewhere comfortable, and watch your favorite movie, and get a snack and just try to forget about all of your problems, and then take a hot shower, and go to sleep early. I really think that would help you.
Good luck!! And i hope that you feel better!!!
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I am 16/f. I have seen this guy around my school for about two weeks now and hes really cute! But I never know what to say to him. He's mostly always with his friends. And I know like none of them well enough to say "hey hook me with me up with your friend". So I was just wondering what are some clever ways to talk to him and what are some good converstations starters knowing nothing about each other? How should I get to know him? This is also kind of urgent he's a senior so I have 3 months to get to know him. I know that's a lot of time to most people but I'm really shy so I need time to just work up enough courage to say something to him. (link)
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Try dropping a book or something (i know thats cheesy/ like a movie/ cliche) but he might stop to pick it up for you or something and then you can make small talk. Or you can try stalking him (hahaha) so that you run into him in place where he isnt with all of his friends (like afterschool, you can coincidentaly be walking by his car, or something like that).
My last idea would be to ask for something like a pencil, like if you run into him right before a class or something, ask to borrow a pencil or somethikng like that, that way you have an excuse to talk to him again when you return whatever it is that you borrowed and you can make small talk or something. Or you can try to track down a mutual friend, someone that could introduce you guys.
I hope these ideas helped you! GOod luck!!
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okay, so i really want to go to this concertt. i live on long islandd and the concerts in massachussetts. (4 hours to drive)
..my mom said no, but i need help convincing her. i havent asked my dad yet, theres a possibility he will say yes, but i need some help convinving.
*(im only 13, so an adult will have ot come withh)
so my question is...
1) how do i convince my parents?
2) can you think of any other alternatives on how to get to the concert?
.. and its not a matter of money. its the drive thats the problem. (link)
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well, i would try to convince one of your friends parents to agree to go to the concert with you and your friends, because once you have a chaperone that is willing to go, i think that it will be easier to convince your parents. Also, you should try checking trains, and see if there is a train that goes to Massachusets. Or if it is that your parents dont want to drive, you could hire a car (or limo depending on how many people are going) i know that sounds expensive, but if you research limo companies you will probably be able to find a reasonably priced one if you split the cost between everyone going (maybe you could even raise the money yourself)
Good luck with convincing your parents, i hope that i helped! Let me know how it turns out!
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I will be participating in a "pageant" with a 90 second talent bit. I dont want to do the cliche sing, dance, play instrument bit - any ideas for me? i would especially love to make people laugh. (link)
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You could make up a comedy act (or find one online that you could use...i dont know if that is allowed in your pagent or not) Or you coud do something silly like play the water glasses (like in Ms. COngeniality with Sandra Bullock) or you find an easy, unusual instrument that you could learn a short song on...or you could learn some form of a dance...like an international dance, like the hula...its not really the cliche kind of dance thing...but its still a dance...
I hope that this helped, and good luck in your pagent!
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Pls help me, I'm so confused! I'm 17/M, and black. I've always been real popular with the girls and I never questioned my sexuality bfore but now I do cuz I'm very confused about my friend Steven.
He is very different from my other friends who are mostly hiphoppers, he's got spiky, black hair that is long in one side and I think hes gothic - very pale and white, and like real skinny and pretty like a girl. He also has many of his friends wearin' only black.
He is one year younger than me and I guess I've been quite protective towards him all along. I always stood up for him when some of the other black guys wanted to beat him up because he's white and wears gothic-kindda clothes and even eyeliner.
Latey I've become more and more obsessed with Steven and I can't stop thinking about him when we're not together and even think of how it would be to have sex with him?
I know that he's bisexual cuz he's told me, and I think he knows the effect he has on me and it's like it's humouring him. I sometimes get the feeling that he's actually teasing me and I don't know what to do
I try to convince myself that it's just curiousity, but I'm not too sure? I have NEVER been attracted to any other male bfore and I really don't want to be gay! It would be such trouble with my friends, my family, my whole life!
I relly need some advice, and fast! (link)
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Unfortunatly i cant tell you how you feel, its something that you have to feel for yourself, but if you dont want to be gay, then dont be gay (i believe that you can choose) even if you are attracted to men, you dont have to act on those feelings, try to block them out/ ignore them, and only date women. But if you want to act on those feelings, then you should. Do what your comfortable doing...but i do believe that YOU have the power to choose.
I hope this helped! Good Luck!
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i love love love gatorade. if i only drink water do you think that i could loose weight..
and how much water would i have to drink..
im not willing to give up junk food. ha. thankss (link)
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i dont understand what this has to do with Gatorade...but my answer is no...i you wont loose weight from drinking water... but if you stop eating junk food then you would...
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what are your opinions on tankinis.
are they more for older women (25 and up), or can teenagers where them too and still look cool. like would you wear them?
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You can deffinatly wear Tankinis! I personally wear bikinis..but i have lots of friends that wear tankinis (i am actually thinking of getting one) i'm 16, and i think that as long as you get a cute one...your fine.
You should be careful of which one you buy though. There are tankis that do look like "older women suits" but if you find a cute halter or soemthing...it will look great! Look for tankinis in like "teen" stores that way they will be focused on a teens body.
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Hi, can anyone help me, I'm turning 16 in a few months and I've never even been on a date!
I feel so pathetic, no boys ever even smiled at me!
I have loads of friends (mostly girls) and they tell
me I'm pretty, but I think they just feel sorry for me. Does anyone have any advice (I'm a girl by the way) even if I do get a boyfriend now, he'd probably be into much more serious stuff than I'm ready for. (link)
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OMG you just pretty much summed up my life. But dont worry about it, i used to be all stressed over it, but i'd rather wait for the right guy. (i know thats annoying to hear) but there are guys that like me...but i dont want to date them b/c i wouldnt be happy) and you shoudl do the same. Its no big deal to not have a boyfriend, just have fun with your friends. And never let a guy pressure you into doing more than your ready for. You dont want to grow up regretting what you did in high school (like having sex, or oral sex etc). Just dont think about it. It WILL happen for you...and if it take until college to find the right boyfriend...then so be it.
But...you can also just hang out around guys more and maybe, if you have friends at other schools, you can get introduced to guys at other schools...because sometimes you just need to meet new people.
I hope this helps..and good luck!!
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how can i convice my parents to let my go to a boarding school about 3 hours away? what are some good things i could say at least to get her to consider it?
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Tell your parents that you want to gain some independence and become more confident...and you think that boarding school will help you achieve these qualities...and so many more! You could also lie and make up an excuse for wanting to get out of town (like a fight with a friend or something)
Also...promise them that you'll write, and call, and visit A LOTTT. Also say that you want to learn to become more responsible, and by being away at boarding school, you will be forced to gain responsibility because you will be forced to manage your own time, and study habits, etc.
I hope that this helped...and good luck!
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im very scard. i smokED, i recently stoped 2 weeks ago because of my shortness of breath. (weed and cigs) i noticed if i went up about 6 stairs, i was complety out of breath. i used to play soccer, but i cant anymore cause i cant breath. today i was skiing and i took 2 aleve in the morning, for my knees. at 4 i came in and they were killing me, so i took another aleve. now its 6:30 and its kind of hard for me to breath, and i have a killer head ach but i cant take anything for it. also im drinking cold water. but i saw a commerical on mtv, that was talking about lung cancer. im 14 and my parents DONT know i smokeD. i was wondering what are signs of lung cancer? im scard i might have it. (link)
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i dont think you have lung cancer...but you should probably go to a doctor... because you deffinatly shouldnt be out of breath that quickly (and i dont think that your knees are related to smoking). Tell you parents all of your symptoms, so that they can take you to a doctor (but dont tell them that you smoked) and just say you dont know why...let the doctor assess you and see what happens.
Also...it might be asthma.
I hope that i helped!
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Okay. Me and my boyfriend made out at the movies the other day. It's the first time that either of us had made out, so we didn't exactly know how. So, we were kissing and when we were done, our faces were both drenched in drool. I'm pretty sure that's not supposed to happen. What are we doing wrong?
Also, any tips are greatly appriciated.
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Not to sound like a rude brat...but you only have to kiss his lips..its not like your supposed to be licking his face.
GOod Luck!
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How much drugs and alcohol can you drink and take before your sperm starts to become weaker or get a lower sperm count? And do you always get morning sickness when you're pregnant? Thank you :) (link)
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Although i'm not sure about the drug and alcohol thing...i know for women who are pregnant it really depends on the person. My aunt got morning sickness really badly, wheras my mom hardley had it at all (and then i know of people who had moderate sickness) It just varies, and i think that if you just eat healthy--you shouldn't get it too bad.
Hope i helped :)
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Ive been going out with this guy thats liked me for A LONG Time and we were like REALLY good friends for a long time and then i liked him but he didn't like me, well finally he like loves me and things are going good for about 6 days but he said "we should slow down" and then i said what do you mean and he said like no more making out, its not FUn its BORING! What is THAT supposed to mean! SINCE when is MKAING OUT BORING!! He says thats all we do but thats not true! IS making out REALLY that boring or is there some other reason to this? (link)
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Not to sound rude...but maybe he's gay...and he is still trying to hide it
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I asked this friend of mine to the girl's choice dance. I asked him if he was going, and he said he didn't know, so I said "you don't have a date then?" and he said no, so I said "do you want to go with me?" and he said "I'll see." what does that mean? I could understand if he said "I have to think about it" but what does "I'll see" mean? do you think he's just keeping his options open? (link)
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I would ask someone else...because i HATE to say it-- but maybe he is waiting for someone else to ask him. He is a total ass, and dont even give him the option, your too good for him.
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Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend? (link)
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OMG I COULDNT AGREE MORE! i'm 15, and it honestly made me feel so good to read that. It seems that lately everyone is just giving head and getting fingered...even people younger than me, and it shocks me, becuase i still feel like we are all "kids". And i am so glad that i'm not the only one who feels this way. Thanks :)
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I've got a bit of a problem with sexual compatibility with my husband. He's into things I really am not into and I'm afraid if I don't try some of these things, he'll find someone else who will. I already found a receipt for condoms, which we don't use, which he purchased on his way to Florida, when was away on a job for 3 weeks. That was proof of what was on his mind and what he was capable of. He's into really kinky things like wanting to dress up in womans clothes with makeup, has fantasies of doing it with a man, and wants me to try a threesome. I never thought of myself as square, but I guess I'm more traditional than I thought. I feel pressure to go along with some of his ideas, which I haven't yet, because I know he'll stray elsewhere. He let it go for a while & our sex life is a once in a blue moon deal, because I know he's bored. Any advice? Do I do what he wants even though I hate it, just to keep him? I do love him and hate to divorce him over this, but trust is a big issue with me too. He knows I'm not into this stuff, but just recently brought all this up again. I don't mind watching a little porno or using toys, but this is just out of my league. What should I do? I don't think compromising will work with him.
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If I were you, I would stick to what i feel comfortable with. If it makes you uncomfortable (or if you just dont like it) then you shouldnt have to do it, because you should never feel scared or uncomfortable with your husband, and if you are having trouble trusting him, then maybe you need to see a marrage counselor (i dont mean to sound rude), because there is nothing more important than trust, especially if you are worried about cheating, because if you feel that he is cheating, then he isnt worth it anyway.
Good Luck!
Hope i helped!
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i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but im starting to have major feelings for an ex boyfriend. i know its very bad of me but my boyfriend now just isnt making me happy anymore and i dont know what to do. my boyfriend lies to me about everything so im to the point i dont know whats real and whats a lie. hes lied about smoking (twice), going to a party, going to school, and to as stupid as how much he spends on something. i just dont understand. he tells me hell change but hes said that since day one and it continues. also on two occasions he didnt go to school once i found an earring and the other time i found an ankle bracelet. i asked whose it was and he told me he didnt know. i told him i thought he was cheating on me and he got all mad and said he wasnt. im just not happy anymore. i love him to death though. but my ex boyfriend and me have been talking the past 3 days and im not sure whats gonna happen but hes making me so happy. ive been smiling nonstop and hes making me feel whole i talked to him yesterday from 1:30 pm all the way til 5 am nonstop. on the internet and phone. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but in the same sense im not happy. but i dont wanna rush it with my ex boyfriend either. please help me (link)
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DUMP HIM!! if your that unhappy, then you shouldnt be with him. If your ex makes you happy, then hang out with him more...and then maybe get back together with him. But DEFFINATLY dont stay with your current bf, there is no sence in staying together with a guy who makes you unhappy, who lies, and who [might be] cheating. And you dont have to rush anything with your ex eaither, you dont even have to get back together, you can just be friends.
Good luck with everything!!!
Hope i helped!
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where can you get black or tan uggs for cheap?(besides ebay) because i'm not gunna spend $100 on them. and today i was in marshalls and they had the exact ones i want in both colors but they only had them in a girls 4. im a womens 8 so yeah its not gonna work out lol. so where can i get themmm? or similar ones? thanks (link)
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You can try TJ MAXX, or some kind of department store like that (or look online at marshalls) otherwise, you'll probably have to just pay the 100 dollars.
Hope I helped!
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