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F/14 and HIM M/14 TOO BORING?
Ive been going out with this guy thats liked me for A LONG Time and we were like REALLY good friends for a long time and then i liked him but he didn't like me, well finally he like loves me and things are going good for about 6 days but he said "we should slow down" and then i said what do you mean and he said like no more making out, its not FUn its BORING! What is THAT supposed to mean! SINCE when is MKAING OUT BORING!! He says thats all we do but thats not true! IS making out REALLY that boring or is there some other reason to this?
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It soudns like he is mature. I mean, making out might be really fun for you, but for him it's just too immature. It doesnt mean that he thinks you're immature, but maybe he wants to spend more time doing things that don't involve the two of you with your tongues in each others mouths. Just try hanging out with him in a non sexual way for a while, and try making him feel comfortable. Of you get too bored, then maybe you two arent right for each other at this point in your lives, you're young, life will go on, and maybe you can date when you are older. But to try and let him make all of the moves for a while. And just because he doesnt want to make out it doesnt mean he doesnt want to show you affection. try and kiss him on the cheek once in a while, and hold his hand and stuff.
If you're really worried, then talk to him, he may actually have something he's hiding that he's too afraid to share with you. So try and get him to open up. I don't know if this is exactly on the right track, but I hope I helped abit. If you have any questions feel free to ask!
Lots of love,
Angie91
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lady calm down.
now make out with another guy and get a second oppinion. =O (humor)
or you could ask HIM how to make it more interesting so HE can tell you what he wants.
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Not to sound rude...but maybe he's gay...and he is still trying to hide it
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