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My best guy friend wants to hook up with me...
I have a problem. I have this guy friend and he wants to "hook up" with me, here's the catch...he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. I have liked him for 3 years and finally he wants to make a move but it doesn't seem right to me. I don't like the idea of going behind her back and making-out with her boyfriend. He wants to hook up in school, I rather do it outside of school so we could be alone and have no chance of getting caught.
I want the same things he wants from me. My best friend thinks that I should leave him alone but I can't help but think that this might be my last chance to be with him. Cam you help me?
-Troubled Heart
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DONT HOOK UP WITH HIM! Its so unfair to his girlfriend to have you going behind her back like that. THink about if you were in her shoes, would you want your boyfriend hooking up with someone. You will most likely get caught...because people always do, and if you do get caught, then word around school will get around and you will be regardes as a slut. DONT CHEAT, he is an ass who is willing to cheat on his girlfriend, do you really want to be involved with a guy like that?
Good luck, and i hope you do the right thing.
Sorry if this seemed harsh.
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You have two options:
(A) Hook up with him: Let him use you, get a kick out of your "last chance". Once he's done, he'll go back to ignoring you. Is it really worth it? Do you want to be the other woman? He just wants action. But hey, if your okay with that and know that you will not have a long term, exclusive relationship - go for it.
(B) Don't hook up with him: He's not worth it. He knows you like him, and he's going to ignore you afterward. Not only that, but the gf - once she finds out (and she will), you don't know what she will do. Be a better person and say no hooking up until he's single.
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DONT TOUCH HIM!!!!
hear me out..... if you hook up with this kid you will love it for 5 hours after that. then, you will think "oh crap why did i do that". you will start sooooo drama if you make out with him.
tons of people with hate you, and if other people hate you.... that guy will hate you .... he will follow everyone else!
if he likes you he would break up with his girlfriend and date you!!!
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I know this is going to be reaeeeally really hard for you..but pleease take my advice and donttt do it! I would be heartbroken if i were this guys gf and i found out...annnd i would be soo angry at you. things could get out..people would talk about you..call you names..you would get a horrible reputation. plus why do this to yourself? you desserve better! this guy is pretty shallow and scummy..how could he do this to his gf? he would play you just like he would play her..he would mess with your feelings..this situation could get really messy..it would create soo much drama.my advice is definately dont do itt.. definately inbox me if you need some more advice
i hope i helped
-melissa
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Don't do it. You're uncomfortable with it, and I know this sounds like such an old person thing to say, but you really shouldn't do things that you're uncomfortable with. You'll regret it, and it'll be on your concience.
Also, think about this. He has a girlfriend, but he wants to cheat on her. If you were ever his girlfriend, he could just as easily cheat on you. Don't do it. It's definitely a bad move.
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