This guy likes me, and I kinda like him, but he isn't the cutest guy (if you know what I mean) I want to see if things will work out between us but I scared of what other people will think/say. What should I do?
Go out with him... or that's my opinion. It never hurts 2 see if things would work out! Also, from my personal experience... my current boyfriend isn't the cutest guy either, and when we first got 2gether ppl always made comments about how he wasn't good enough 4 me and we weren't gonna make it and stuff like that. Well we have now been going out 4 about 10 months and it has been the longest and best relationship I ahve ever been in. You know that saying, "never judge a book by its cover?" Well, it's kinda true. Just bcuz he might not look the best doesn't mean that he isn't wonderful. Let me know how things work out!
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Im think im soooo fat and no matter what I do nothing seems to work. Im 105 pounds 5'1 and 13 years old. isn't that really really over weight?? any ideas what i can do to loose weight before school starts?!
Wow, u are NOT fat. Don't wprry about losing any weight!
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ok thers this girl that i like and she says that she wants to have sex with me but she is allways saying that but it never happens i would love to have sex with her and i love her alot but she is just shy. is there any way i can make her not as shy? 14/m
Woah... I would like 2 point out that ur only 14 yrs old first of all and prolly shouldn't be having sex. Anyways... she prolly just isn't ready, or she's having her doubts about having sex. Make sure that u guys have trus tin one another and then she'll prolly feel more comfortable w/ it. Be careful tho, u don't wanna do sumthin that ur gonna regret later.
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I'm only 13, but i need to save up some money 4 my Bestfriends birthday. But what i want 2 give her is really expensive. It's like 70 bucks! But i know it's wut she wants more than anything else. So, does anyone have any ideas for how to raise that much money??? thanx
Try babysitting, or ask ur parents if u can do stuff around the house 2 get money. Those are prolly the easiest ways 2 make money @ ur age. Or if ur in2 this, u can see if ur neighbors need their lawn mowed or garden work or something.
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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date?
Wow... well, I dunno how old u are... and it really doesn't matter, but no1 should be having sex on their first date w/ sum1. That's just wrong. Wait until you find sum1 that u truely love, and better, wait until ur married until u have sex, otherwise u might totally regret it. If he wants 2 have sex w/ u and ur not ready just say "no" and if he truely cares about u and respects u, then he'll get over it. Good luck!
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ok so my best friend is absolutely in love with this guy and a while ago he said he liked me more than a friend...should i keep talkin to him?
Of course u can keep talking 2 him! As long as u guys just stay friends then it wont hurt ur other friend. Even tho he liked u in the past, it doesn't mean he will like u now too. Just try 2 keep friends w/ this guy (and nuttin more) and it all should b fine.
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me an my girl wen tout for a while and i really found out that i do love her , she just never wants to open up to me or act like she trully loves me and everyone says she does but i dont know what to do so we took some time apart i asked for it so we could get things figured out and i love her but what should i do ?
You guys gotta trust eachother. If u want her 2 open up 2 u, don't be afraid 2 open up 2 her! From my experience, it seems like guys are afraid 2 open up cuz they r afraid they will b made fun of or w/e, but it'll be a lot easier 4 her 2 open up 2 u if u open up 2 her first. Good luck and I hope everything works out! Let me know how it all goes!
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im worried about my weight. I'm 5'3 and 87 pounds. Everyone thinks im anerexic and even though im NOT im still worried bcuz its so low. should i try to gain weight or something?
As long as u are healthy, than u are fine. If u are really concerned about ur weight tho, go see a doctor and they can put u on a special diet which allows u 2 gain weight rather than loose it.
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What is your view on long distance relationships? I started one today.. and I am nervous because I've heard both positive and negative things about them...
Currently, I am in a long distance relationship as well. Sometimes it seems like I never get 2 see my boyfriend, and that sux, but just try 2 stay in contact w/ ur boyfriend or girlfriend whether it is on the phone or online or w/e. Also, try 2 make a point of seeing eachother @ least once a week, that way u wont grow far apart. Good luck w/ ur long distance relationship cuz sumtimes they r really hard 2 maintain. Let me know how everything works out!
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ok i am 5'2 and i weigh 147..i was really pretty last year (and skinny) but this summer i gained alot of weight..imk still pretty i just wanted to know how to loose the weight..?(i rate good!)
First off, make sure u wathch ur diet. Try 2 get in2 some type of excersise routine, that way it will help turn the unwanted fat in2 muscle. Try doing 100 (or more) crunches a day, and that will help 2! Good luck losing the weight!
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i really like the look of black nail polish but the rest of my clothes are really preppy and it looks out of place. is there something i can do to make it blend in with the rest of my clothes?
thans
There are a few things you could try. 1.) Try 2 incorporate some black in ur preppy clothes, that way ur nails won't seem 2 outta place. 2.) Add a streak or design w/ another nail color 2 ur black nails. 3.) Just don't worry about it. If ppl don't like ur preppy style an dur black nails than it's their problem, not urs.
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ok..heres my thing you guys...
*my best friend lost her virginity last year and alot of people consider her a whore now :(
but anyways...my boyfriend wants me n him to lose ours now for our 1 year anniversary hes 16 and im 14...i really dont know if i should becuz i dont wana be considered a whore or nething like what happened to my friend....please help me in doin the right thing!!
signed,i honestly dont know what to do
It's prolly best (especially since u have ur doubts) not 2 have sex now. Both u and ur boyfriend are still young, and (no 2 be mean) but most likely one or the other of u is going 2 get hurt, and u don't wanna regret the whole experience in the future. If ur boyfriend truely loves you and respects u then he will be fine w/ it if u tell him "no" 2 having sex. Good luck!!
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my boy friend is a really kool person and great bf. he calls me and pays attention to me and stuff but im so over him... im just not interested anymore. i want to dumb him.. how can i do it nicely?
Really, there is no way 2 dump someone nicely. Just try 2 explain ur feelings 2 him, and if he really loves you then he will understand and want u 2 be happy.
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hi im 5'4 and 90 pounds. im worried that i dont weigh enough. everyone thinks im anerexic but im not so i dont care but i feel like my weight might be too low. should i gain weight?
As long as ur healthy there's no need 2 gain weight. If u really are concerned about it tho, go see a doctor and they can put u on a special diet 2 help u gain some pounds.
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Is it bad or like not cool to go out wit ure frends ex bf?? cuz my frend sed if once ure frend goes out wit a guy the guy is "their property" nd the frends cant go out wti them but then my otha frend has like stolen like 5 of my bfs.. so is it bad to go out wit ya gurls ex (not steal but just like a while after they break up.)
thnx
Whenever htis has happened to me in the past I've been ok w/ it, but u might wanna sit down and talk 2 ur friend about it and see how she feels about it. If she's really ur friend then she'll @ least listen 2 wut u have 2 say. Good luck!
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my sisters ex boyfriend really likes me and i like him... its been a few months since they broke up so is it okay if i hook up with him?? or no??
You should prolly try talking 2 ur sister about it first. Ask her if she's over him and if it would be alright if you hooked up with him. It's prolly better 2 ask bcuz if u just do hook up w/ him, she might get upset @ u, and if u hook up w/ him behind her back, she'll prolly eventually find out. Good luck!
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Is it ok to just flirt? I used to like be obbsessed with different guys but now I just wanna have fun...is that ok?
Well, no offense, but that's kinda mean JUST 2 flirt if u don't really have any interest in the guy. You shouldn't lead guys on 2 thinking that u like them if u really don't cuz then they could get hurt if they had feelings 4 u.
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im 14... and i dont really have a lot of gurlfriends, i from a family with 9 boys.. im the only gurl, anywho... Well i play the guitar in this band i'm in and i have the biggest crush on the singer *Brandon he is like the ultimate guy, we hang out all the time.. he calls me and stuff were really close!! and i just cant seem to find the right time to tell him, or anything and i have NO idea what to do cuz he's like my best friend... ya know!! i just really like him a lot and dont wanna blow my chance, or plussss do you think i should even tell him??? pleaseee help me i am sooo confusedd!! please ILL RATE!
signed,
what should i do.
It wouldn't hurt 2 tell him u like him. The worst thing he could do is say, "let's just be friends," and since u are already good friends it would still be awesome. If u wanna tell him ur feelings then try telling him sumtime when ur on the phone 2gether or 1 of the times that ur hanging out 2gether. Or if u don't wanna tell him in person, write him a note, that way u can say everything u wanna say and make sure it sounds right. Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes! :)
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What's a good way to get rid of pimples?
Well a good way 2 not get them in the first place is 2 make sure u wash ur face every morning and every night. 2 get ride of them, try different acne stuff that u can get @ the stores. Trust me, don't pick @ them or try 2 pop them, that'll just give u more pimples.
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whenever a guy and a girl makeout, why do the guys always asked if the girl liked it?
Well... I have never had a guy ask me that b4. If they ever do tho... it's prolly their way of asking if they are a good kisser or w/e.
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