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Hey everyone! My name is Michelle and I'm fifteen, sixteen in a month! I'm a junior in high school. I've been in too many relationships, and I'm finally taking a break from boys. I'm a dancer and bowler. Ask me anything :) Thats why I'm here.xoxo, Michelle
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ok i was reading another question about ouji boards (or however you spell it) and i was wondering, where could you get one, and how much would they cost, or what?
thanx!
Yeah you can pretty much get them anywhere for around $20. They're real fun (:
soo i have a short tongue. and i basically wanted to know if like making out with someone with a short tongue sucks or not? cause i heard that long tongues are better. are they? if so..any tricks? to make it better and all?
I don't really think it makes much of a difference. I have a short tongue too, and I've never had a sucky make out experience. haha. So it should be fine (:
Does anyone know what stores or websites I can order ugg boots? I know most are sold out, but if not anybody know somewhere i can order emu boots?
The Ugg website. (:
http://www.uggaustralia.com/
well...i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and we have already run into some problems(at least from my point of view). he is the greatest guy i have ever met, but it just seems like he has problems with committing too fast!!! okay...so he already told me that he wants to get married and he keeps proposing to me but i am not even finished with school. so...what should i do??? cause i have already tried to explain to him that i don't want to right now. also i told him that i don't want to have sex until marriage and he is having a hard time understanding that. what should i do about all this???
Obviously you've got him wrapped around your finger. It seems like this boy really cares about you, and thats a good thing. The whole wanna get married thing is a little scary, but I mean how cute is it that a boy likes you so much he doesn't want to be with anyone else. Really. But he needs to realize you need to finish school. Your not ready to make that big of a commitment, and I don't think he is either. Even if he may think he is. I would just tell him that. If he's pushing it even farther, I don't think things will work out.
15/f
a bunch of my friends say I have really thin hair. My hair is a little longer than shoulder length, about light brown and i have no clue what texture it is. You could say straight, but then I have a lot of kinks in them (when its like straight then all of a sudden there's a little wave, then straight and then wavey) so I normally straighten my hair. I use heat protecting spray before and then I use a serum after (silk drops from FX) so my question is what can i do to have thick/medium thick hair?
another question of mine is that I part my hair on the left and sometimes it looks really bad. like the ride side of my part will be flat and nice, but then the left part (the side with more hair) will be higher than the right. what should I do about this?
thanks to all answers
That's because your used to parting it on the right side. When you move your part, it wont be flat untill your hair gets used to it. Straightening could help this. And for thickening your hair, just don't straighten it. I have thick hair, but when I straighten it, it becomes really thin. Thats all I can really think of doing.
i yearn for pale skin.
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this is my current skin color.
i believe i might look a little paler than usual because of the flash.
idk.
anyways,
tips or ways to achieve a pale skin tone.
???
: )
i very much appreciate your input.
thanks in advance,
meg renee.
Wow. Are you kidding? I hate being pale. Wanna trade skin tones? Lol. But yeah I agree with the person below. Skin lightener will help. I still don't know why you would want to be pale though. Hehe, good luck (:
so my friend told me that you can tell a Coach purse is fake if any of the C's are like.. cut off anywhere in the design. is that true? bc it seems kinda impossible to be able to get full C's in every single place. thanks!
I think she means cut off where the fabric ends. It's kind of hard to explain, but I know what she is talking about.
This site tells you hot to spot a fake Coach:
http://reviews.ebay.com/How-to-spot-a-fake-COACH-bag_W0QQugidZ10000000000839005
okay..
i know how parents say
that u shud wait till marriage to hav sex
(which i could do)
bt the thing is...
IM CURIOUS, AND I LIKE HAVING FUNN
nd i was wondering, do u think its stupid to hav sex at 14
just to try it?
i mean, if you use a condom and the pill...
do you think it would be ok?
14/f
I'm fourteen too, and me and my boyfriend have been talking about sex. And even though we may be curious, we just gotta be responsible and know that we are too young for it. We aren't ready emotionally or even physically. And if you wanna do it just to "try it" then you shouldnt. Sex for the first time should be with someone you really love. You don't wanna look back and regret it because you weren't into the person, and were just "curious." I would wait (:
13/f
my boyfriend has been talking about having sex in the summer, but....thats a BIG step, and i dont know if i should or not. ive been trying to figure out what the worse that can happen is...and if we use a condom...i dont think i could get pregnant.
Honestly, your not ready. You are young, but so am I and I understand how it feels to want to have sex with your boyfriend at a young age. I've been there. And if your boyfriend is planning ahead, and telling you in the summer, its not a good idea. You should have sex expectantly. It should happen when the time is right. Not when you plan it. I would really think about it. Because I don't think your ready for it.
Is it illegal for people in Pennsylvania to have sex if they're both under 18 (both 15).
In Pennsylvania, the age of consent is 16 for both a male and female.
This site tells you everywhere's age of consent:
http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
Call me crazy, but I think it's absurd that some people do not believe in love. After seeing all the good things people can do for each other and just seeing the love people have for each other everyday, I just can't believe it. Maybe it's because I'm a Christain and I've simply been raised to and have witnessed all kinds of love myself. But can someone please give me some insight?
I completely agree with you. I think that the people that say that have thought they were in love, and then had that person hurt them. It's a temporary statement for someone thats been through that or just have not experienced it yet. I believe in love though! And everyone should.
So my family's going on a vacation in winter. We're from Barbados which doesn't have snow or any relly cold areas. The coldest it gets is about 25 degrees celcius maximum. So we're leaving in a while (few days) and I have no idea how i'm goin to stay warm to reach New York. Tell me how to dress to go to the airport please? how many layers of clothes will i need???????
I live in New York! Right now, it's really snowy here. So I would definitely suggest a sweatshirt, coat, jeans, and boots (:
Anybody know where to get black lace tights/leggings? I know it's vague, so I'm open to all different sorts of suggestions :).
TIA
I got mine at Claires for like $7.
(:
They say if you stop looking for love, it will find you. How do you do this? I currently like this guy that I know i will never be with. Therefore, I want to stop liking him/looking for love. What do I do? By purposely avoiding looking for love am I doing something wrong?
Just don't think about it. Love will come when you least expect it. For example, I was dating a kid, but I wasn't very happy. I just kinda let it go, and stayed with him. All of the sudden, I fell for my best friend who I never thought I would like. And we are still dating (: So when you stop being so obsessed with trying to find a boyfriend or trying to get someone you like, love just comes at you. You'll be surprised, trust me.
i was surfing through the internet and i stumbled upon this....http://immortalityring.com/home.php
is it for real? or just a scam?
Obviously it's fake. There's no way a ring could effect your life, lol.
I have been going out with him for about 3 months. I feel obligated to him. I feel that I can't leave him, but I want to. I see him at school, so that would be weird. He makes me so so mad, then so happy. I just want to not do this anymore. He is not confident in himself, so he uses me as a feel-good agent in his life. I don't want to do that. It's so draining and I don't have time and energy to do that!
How can I break-up with him so his feelings are not too hurt?
Thanks.
I would just tell him how you feel. You kinda have mixed feelings, and maybe you guys just need to take a break so you can really think about what you want, and if he is it. If you are certain you want to break up with him then just say you don't feel the way you used to feel towards him. He should understand.
15/f
I'm having a lot of problems involving members of my family. I'm constantly stressing over not only these problems but also school problems and I just can't take any of it anymore. My brother and his girlfriend recently accused me of going into their bedroom and stealing 20 dollars from them now before any of you start contradicting me about this, I didn't go into their bedroom and I wouldn't steal not only from them but from anyone. What stresses me out the most is that because of this issue we no longer acknowledge one another or have any contact what so ever. My brother has brought into this my older sister and sort of "stuffed" a lot of BS about me into her head and now because of this my sister and I haven't been speaking to one another and she no longer trusts me. I just don't know what to do my one option would be to leave and go live with my aunt since everyone here has made it
Clear that they don't want anything of me. What would you do in my place?
I know how you feel. I constantly feel like life gets too hard to handle at times. If I was in your situation, I would tell everyone you want to have a family meeting. Tell them that you want to stay with your aunt for a little, simply because you need a break from your them. I'm sure they will understand, and if they don't it is probably because they want to make things better. Everyone needs some time away from people, and this just may be your time.
Jay and i have been together for 2 weeks and a day and he told me he "loved" me and "cared about me more than anyone" and i asked him why...and he wouldnt answer because he thought that i'd call him "corny". i told him i didnt care and he still wouldnt tell me. my last boyfriend told me he loved me and i believed him. and i let myself fall in love with him and he swore he'd never hurt me. and he broke it off in less than 3 months. and it hurt me like crazy. and i told myself i wouldnt go out with a boy until im ready, but im such a pushover, and thats why im with jay. and truthfully, im still not over my last relationship. not in the least bit. and i most definetely dont wanna get hurt again. but i cant ever picture myself loving jay, i mean love him like a brother or something, but never being romantically involved. should i end it or just keep going on like this? and when he says he loves me, how can i find out for sure? how do i know hes not just saying it because he thinks hes supposed to? or for another perverted teenage boy reason?
Truthfully, I'd end it with Jay. I never date anyone I don't see myself being with in the future. If you know things won't work out, then why waste your time? Right? And if you have only been going out with him for 2 weeks, he doesn't love you. Love takes time, and trust. You don't love someone in that small amount of time, trust me. And when that one person comes along someday and says he loves you, you'll be able to tell if he truly means it.
I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 26. We've been together for 3 years.
He's always getting text messages from girls. Girls that I've never heard of, that don't live in our town, let alone our state. He watches porn when I go to bed (which I don't really care about, he is male.) He's just really secretive about things. Like when he's on his computer, he won't do anything when I'm around.. but as soon as I go to another room he's typing away. And I'll come back in and he'll close everything he's doing. I always ask him if he loves me and means it, and he always says yes. I just sometimes feel like he isn't being honest or faithful to me. I worry a lot. I feel like maybe this relationship has been a waste of time.
I don't know what to do. Like I want to talk to him about the girls and the text messaging and all, I just don't know how to bring it up to him at all.
I would just flat out tell him your concerned. That you don't want to be a obsessive spying girlfriend, but that you think he's hiding things from you. If he truly isn't, I'm sure you'll be able to tell. Just go with your gut feeling. If you think things just aren't right, end it. You don't need a guy sneaking around behind your back.
okay everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i get this really weird feeling down there thats kind of uncomfortable and idk what it is does this ever go away?
I'm sure it shouldn't be uncomfortable. So just tell your boyfriend about it. I'm sure you can come up with why its happening (: Be honest with him though, don't just ignore it.