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too young..to curious
okay..
i know how parents say
that u shud wait till marriage to hav sex
(which i could do)
bt the thing is...
IM CURIOUS, AND I LIKE HAVING FUNN
nd i was wondering, do u think its stupid to hav sex at 14
just to try it?
i mean, if you use a condom and the pill...
do you think it would be ok?
14/f
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The only 100 percent way to be safe is to remain absitenant (sp?).
Don't have sex until you aare fully ready to resume any possible outcomes. Aka: children, STI's, etc.
I, personally, don't think it's a good idea at 14 =[
-Laura. (15-f)
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I'm fourteen too, and me and my boyfriend have been talking about sex. And even though we may be curious, we just gotta be responsible and know that we are too young for it. We aren't ready emotionally or even physically. And if you wanna do it just to "try it" then you shouldnt. Sex for the first time should be with someone you really love. You don't wanna look back and regret it because you weren't into the person, and were just "curious." I would wait (:
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I agree with everyone else, you should wait until you're able to take care of a child, and at 14 you have your entire life to risk. Do you really want to gamble your future for curiosity?
So yeah
it is stupid.
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It's still a bad idea.
Sex is still risky.
Pregancy is ALWAYS a risk with sex. Always. Even a condom and birth control and a little anti-fertility voodoo doll cannot make pregacy impossible.
And of course STDS, some of which you can get despite a condom... but here is the big risk people never talk about: A broken heart.
Trusting someone is always a risk. Being in a relationship is always a risk. Being in a sexual relationship is the biggest risk of all to your emotions and self esteem.
I am not someone who thinks sex should be saved exclusively for marriage, but it should be saved for two people who can respect one another completely, take responsbilty for thier actions and be completely truthful with one another.
Anything less is asking for wounds that will haunt you for the rest of your life. Most teens aren't ready for sex because they don't have the maturity and experience to take care of thier patner in a respectful and honest way and thier partner can't take care of them.
Don't put so much of yourself at risk. Just wait until it is something more meaningful then curiosity.
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having sex at such a young age might be a bad idea. even with protection, their is a slight chance of pregnancy. i wouldn't take the chance. but, hey, you make your own choices. live life like there's no tomorrow. life is one big risk. go with how you feel, follow your heart. just always be safe! good luck!
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