Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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i am a 13 year old girl and i was wondering at what age should you start to shave your pupic hair and at this age do guys expect it to be shaved?? (link)
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well, i wouldn't really know how to answer you in this department [ especially about the guy part seeing as i'm not one ] but i guess you can start shaving whenever you want to. i might want to post that as a quesion everybody can see so you can get some older girls opinions and some guys opinions on it. i'm sorry i wasn't much of a help.
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can someone give me a code to hide my friends on my myspace? (link)
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I believe this is it.
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tell me if that's wrong though, i'm sorry if it is. i just have like, 230-9430 codes on my myspace so i get confused which ones are which, lol. but try copying and pasting it into your WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET section and preview the profile and see what happens.
i hope i helped!
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16-female
i am a junior this year
and so there is a football game tomorrow night against our rival team! like i mean everyone is friends with everyone from our schools but its like we want to beat the other team so bad because there our rivals! well this freshman on the team wanted me to go because i dont know he asked me to but he is on the other team and my cousins go to the other school too! i mean i bet everyone is gonna be there but i seriously will probably talk to everyone that goes to the different school because i hate the people at my school i seriously cant stand them. like the partiers and the popular people. ughh i want to go and i think we are because my cousin wants to but she wants me to sit on the other side (their side) should i? or will it be weird and will people be like oh my god why is she on our side? and i dont want to deal with the stupid people at my school even though we start school on tuesday...its gonna be weird seeing them and it will just be awkward! and i want to cheer for our team but then i dont know. none of my friends go to the football games so i cant ask them to go and i already said i would go with my cousin! my cousin is kinda nerdy but she has alot of friends so people will see me and be like haha why is she with them? i dont know! ahhh what do i do. (link)
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well, you can walk around, can't you? try visting both sides of the bleachers. depending on how long the football games normally last, [ say like, 3 hours ] spend an hour and a half over on one side, and then spend another hour and a half over on your schools side. and just explain to them,"i got cousins who go to that school that are my friends and i wanted to hang out with them cause they asked me too and they asked me to cheer for their team, so, i did. it's not like i'm not cheering for us, too." if people start talking about you in school, that is the most ridiculous thing i've ever heard of. i mean yes, i've heard of spirit, but nobody needs to make a big deal if you're going to visit your friends that just so happen to be on the other team. it's junior high football, for god sakes. ha, rant moment over. anyways. and if you like that kid, go over and cheer him on! with some stadiums, the way it's designed is the "enemys" bleachers and before the entrance gate where you pay to get in, so you'd have to divide your time easily cause you can't run back and forth unless you want to keep paying to get in over and over. so hang with your cousins the first half... of the hours, whatever, and then hang on your side the next.
i hope i helped.
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16/f
well bottom line- i madeout with this 14 year old but he looks much older and im attracted to him.
you see he slept over at my cousin nates house and then they had to go so his friend joe wanted me to pick him up (i know joe too) but like we arent very good friends. and he wanted to hangout with me until my cousins got back from this party they had to go to. well we went shopping, went to eat, and then to a movie and he asked to kiss me and stuff and i was like allright so we did and we madeout a little bit and then he was like rubbing me. but then he asked if i wanted to do more stuff and i was like noo...and he was allright sorry for asking!! and hes like do you forgive me and im like yeah... and hes like promise? and im like yes.
but then just like 3 weeks ago his girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with him because she saw he was messaging me like two months ago and it wasnt even that bad! but then he is still like..i gotta talk to my girl. i still love her...
but then at the movies he is like you know that im over cortney (his "EX" girlfriend) and i start laughing and im like yeah right.. and he is like noo im serious im trying to get over her or im starting. but then still i know he will always be whipped over her. i feel stupid now because for a little bit i was starting to have feelings for him but now..when he still calls her his girl and says he still loves her i dont know what to do! Grrr it makes me so mad! and what we did at the movies..he told me not to tell anyone and he made me promise. what the heck is up with that? does it sound like he just wanted to hook up with me. but then that night he called me and we talked on the phone and he was like hey im sorry i asked you that and im like asked you what? i think he was talking about at the movies when he wanted to do more and i said no but i was like ohh its allright os i think he still feels bad! the thing i like about him is he knows that no means no and he wont pressure me into doing anything. and he always asks my cousin if im over and everything. i know for a fact that he thinks im attractive he even told me but i just dont know! im really mad so do you think its a good idea to not talk to him and have him approach me first?? because i dont just want to be a booty call and im not use to this. this was only the 2nd time i madeout with someone so now its like...
am i starting to like him? do i want him to like me?..i dont want to start liking him though and get screwed over if him and his "girl" get back together but i guess she is really mad and told my cousin she isnt going back out with that jerk and all that! even though he is soo nice to his girlfriends its ridiculous.
what would you do in my situation? ive never had a boyfriend and ive never been asked out so its kinda nice having attention on me but it just happens to seem like the wrong person =(
well thanks! (link)
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yes, it sounds to me like you're starting to like him.
but, if i were you, i wouldn't want anything to do with this guy.
i mean sure he's nice and he knows no means no, which is good, but i would just have him as just a friend. no friends with benefits or anything.
i mean, he's still obviously hung over his ex. calling her and telling her he loves her, and then telling you he's trying to get over her or is at least starting to? he just sounds like he's trying to juggle the both of you at the same time. and who knows if you two ever decided to date, that he'd find some other girl and tell her the same stuff, and then you'd become the ex-girlfriend on the phone getting told all the "i love yous"?
i know it's nice to get attention and everything, but you should get attention from a nice single guy who while they're complimenting YOU, won't be calling their ex-girlfriend's and complimenting HER and telling HER stuff.
so i say just keep him around as maybe a friend, but if you find yourself liking him more and he's still calling his ex and everything, i just might want to forget about him all together, cause it just sounds like it could all become one huge complication after awhile.
i hope i helped.
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I went out with Adam about three months ago. Before I went out with him, my friend Lanie went out with him. Me and Adam broke up, but we remainded close friends. However, Lanie and Adam started dating again.
Now Lanie won't let Adam talk to me at all anymore! It's so stupid, she thought we were flirting, but I have a boyfriend! Its really annoying, cause now he won't talk to me or else she threatens to break up with him. He'll try to sneak over and talk to me when she's not looking, but sometimes she`ll catch him and get super mad! What should I do? I miss my friend!
Thanks, Haylie. (link)
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You need to have a serious talk with Lanie. Ask her what's going and why she'd think that you would be flirting with your EX-boyfriend, whenever you already have a boyfriend. Assure her that there's nothing to worry about and she can trust you and her boyfriend, and that you two are merely just friends. And point out that he obviously really likes her if he'll give up talking to one of his friends at the risk of losing her! But just ask her to put herself in her boyfriend's shoes. How would she feel if she suddenly couldn't talk to one of her good guy friends anymore because Adam thought they were flirting with eachother, whenever they both know they wouldn't? But you need to have a talk with your friend Adam, too. He needs to let his girlfriend stop being so controlling and telling him who he can or cannot talk to, he's allowed to talk to his friends. Even his girl ones.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out.
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So, there's boy A and boy B. They're really good friends with eachother. Maybe best friends. So, B tells me he likes me [[you know, like like]] and I thought I liked him back, so I said I liked him too. Then I realized I didn't really like him and I told A. A told B, and now B is mad at me because I 'lied' and didn't tell him I didn't like him anymore. I feel so bad and I was going to tell him but we never saw eachother so I was waiting to tell him in person. I'm kind of mad at A for telling him, but I guess it had to come out somehow. I don't know what to tell B, he must hate me now. Help? (link)
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Just explain to him what you did to me. Just be like,"Look, [B], I know you must really hate me right now, but I didn't want you to find out that way. I was waiting until the next time we talked so I could tell you in person cause I don't want to be one of those girls who just call says it real quick and hangs up and leaves you sitting there. But [A] told you before I could even get the chance to talk to you. I'm sorry. I really thought I had feelings to return, but I just thought about it, and I don't have those same kinds of feelings." He might still continue hating you, he might now. It'll just depend from there how he handles it. You were honest with him at least and explained yourself and you apologized. Just give him some time to cool off, and then ask if he'd still like to be friends, cause you can never do,"Hey I wanna break up, can we be friends?!" Cause that's just like crushing them and then acting like everything's cool. Just wait and see how he wants to handle it, and if he wants to continue to have a friendship with you. Hopefully, he will. I hope I helped.
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So i have this friend and she's a really good friend and i like her but she doesnt feel the same way back and i basically gave up on her for a while but for some reason i think about her all the time and i still feel that i want to be with hershould i just forget about her or keep trying or what?
by the way i'm used to hooking other people up and giving them advice that usually works but when it comes to myself i'm clueless (link)
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Most people are like that. Like with others, I tend to give good advice, and then when it comes to myself I can't either.
But, anyways. The point.
Well, you could always be the risk-taker and try and ask her out again. But let you guys talk more, flirt a little, give her some time to grow to like you, and then try again. If she still says no, I would continue to be really good friends with her [better friends then nothing, right?], but I would try and move and find another girl out there. And once you meet them, eventually thoughts of your friend might slowly fade away. :]
I hope I helped.
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my period has been 2 weeks late and I havn't had sex and iam still a virgin so I was wondering why I havn't started yet? (link)
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If you're still in your first year of getting one, it won't always be on time ; it can be irregular. My mom even told me anytime whenever she was young it would be irregular at times. But if you don't get it for awhile, talk to your mom about it or go ask the doctor and see if anything's wrong. I hope I helped.
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theres this girl I like and shes one of my best friends.I want to ask her out but alot of other guys like her.Im not sure what I should do about it. (link)
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just ask her if she'd like to hang out at the movies or some place with you, and see what happens. be really sweet to her, compliment her even, and just be kind and maybe even flirt a bit and make her laugh. then at the end of the night, just let her know how you feel. and whats the worst that can happen? you take a risk, you ask her, she says no you remain best friends. you DON'T ask her, you never know what she WOULD say, and you remain best friends. OR... you ask her, she says yes, and everything's great. just say something like,"___, i just wanted to let you know.. i like you, and i was sort of wondering if you'd like to go out with me. i mean, it's totally fine if you don't, i hope we can still be best friends cause i wouldn't want to lose that." and if she says yes, great! but if she says no, like i said, remain best friends. being best friends is better than nothing, right?
i hope i helped.
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my hair is thick i dont know if i am doing something wrong or what but it doesnt work i dont know how to i guess..give me some tips or directions .. (link)
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whenever i want to scrunch my hair, i just take a shower and leave it all curly and everything. then whenever it's almost dried, but still damp, i just take gel and put it on my fingers and you just sort of, grab/"scrunch" your hair and keep it curly. and then a little later, i put a little hairspray in it to keep it curly longer. i hope i helped.
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i want this jacket thats 60 dollars..how can i be able to afford it in at least a week..puh leeeessssssse help (link)
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well, during the week sometime you can have a garage sale and sell some of your old junk so you can get rid of stuff, and make some cash too! or just ask people if they need help around the house or ask your grandparents or parents. and for each chore, maybe recieve 10 bucks, so if you do 6 things, you already'll get 60 bucks. i remember i made 30 in one day by mowing the lawn and washing the cars. there's alot of things you can do like, rake the leaves, water the flowers, plant flowers, pull out weeds, do the laundry, cook dinner maybe, wash/clean the dishes, take out the garbage, etc.
i hope i helped.
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Ok so i try really hard to look good for school. well my first period is PE and we cant change clothes . SO what should i do cause i get all sweaty and grose and i dont think i lok good after pe anything i can do to stay fresh ? and we dont have showers or anything like that after Pe (link)
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whenever i used to go finish gym, i would have a little towel in my bag to wipe all the sweat off of my face and everything, and i would re-apply all my makeup. and i would apply a fresh new "layer" or whatever you call it of deoderant and spray some light body spray. And just take a little sip of water if there's a water fountain in there too. And like the other girl said, change bras while you're changing so if the other one's all sweaty, you won't have stains or anything. And what I try to do in gym is just I try to play the games and do the activities and everything, but I don't get fully into it so I don't sweat as much. I hope I helped.
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Well,today this guy I liked came up to me and said you sure are quite today..and i like this guy but im not to sure if he likes me he looks at me sometimes...but the think is im nervous to talk to him im afaird ill say something stupid so how do i try to get to know him better?? (link)
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Well, if you're nervous face-to-face, why not try just talking to him over the phone or over the internet for awhile until you get less shy? Just before you go to talk to him face-to-face take calming breaths and it's okay to be a little nervous, he might even find it cute and just ask him whats up, how was his summer, is he in school yet, how is it, [ or if he isn't in school yet ] is he anxious to start going soon?, etc. And just ask him what his interests are and stuff cause it'll show you're interested in wanting to get to know him better and you're a good listener. I hope I helped.
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lats year i got all a's and b's then 2,3,4th quarter i got a girlfriend and my grades dropped signinficantly help (link)
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All people's grades tend to drop whenever they start dating someone because your attention tends to focus all on them and less on school and grades. I would just have a talk with your girlfriend and tell her how your grades are dropping and how sometimes you might need to study instead of hang out. And she should understand. But, if you want to even spend time together WHILE studying, have her become your study buddy. Just hang out with eachother for like, an hour and the devote the rest of the time you guys hang out to studying and memorizing answers and everything. I hope I helped.
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How reliable are condoms? what are the chances that they will break during intercourse? (link)
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Well, it all depends on what type of condom you get. I wouldn't know, so I would suggest asking maybe your doctor or Planned Parenthood which are the best types of condoms to get. But any condom is usually only about 85-90% safe, so they still have a small chance of breaking. If you want to be really safe, I would also go on the pill. I hope I helped.
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This question doesn't even relate to the Rolling Stones, but you've seen their tops; they have the tongue!
My realy question is, can you roll your tongue?
I want to survey how many people can and can't. Answer this if you can or can not.
If you are an 'expert', can you tell me how? How long does it take?
I'm taking Spanish 1: Do you need to roll your tongue?
Thanks so much!
Anything will help; and you might get a points! (link)
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I can roll my tongue. :]
There's no real way to teach someone how to do it ; it's just one of those things people know how to do. Like some people can make shapes and stuff with their toungue ; they just can.
In Spanish 1, I doubt you're learning that much where you need to be able to, but whenever you advance to bigger words and stuff, there's some words where you might need to roll the "r"'s, but I'm sure if you're not able to, and you just explain it to the teacher, it'll be fine if you aren't able to.
I hope I helped.
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our hosue is like a bee attractor, we checked for nests but there are jsut so many flowers in my garden and all around we keep getting bees evryhwere! even inside! what can we spray to prevent them from attacking?
please and thank you =] (link)
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my mother buys this:
http://www0.epinions.com/pr-Pest_Control-Chase_Products_Kill_Zone_Wasp_Bee_And_Hornet_Killer_Spray
and she just walks around outside where the bees normally sit and just sprays there. and obviously, if you find any nests, spray there too. i'm not sure if i would do it inside though. i think it's only meant for outside. but whenever you're leaving the house, just be careful of when you open and shut the doors and windows and everything. that could be how they're getting in. i hope i helped.
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Ummm.... I need help with this guy who is like my best friend ans we talk all the time and he nowz i like him but he didn't ask my out but he is alwayz make jokes bout me given him sumthin wat should i d0o0o ask him out or just wait for him to ask???/ (link)
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well, you can't be too sure of his feelings here. even though he's always making jokes, he could just be friendly and joking around with you.
but, what would you rather do? just take a shot and see what happens, or sit there and wait for him to ask which he might be too nervous to do, or just not do? i would just take a risk, and go after him! just be like,"well, you know i like you and everything, and i don't know how you feel about me, but i was wondering if you wanted to go out with me. i mean, it's fine if you don't, i hope we can still be friends and everything, but it'll just keep getting to me if i don't ask." and just see what he says. if he says yes, great! if he says no, just keep a really good friendship with him. i mean, better friends then nothing at all, right?
i hope i helped.
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14/m
So there's the girl I like. I always liked her and it feels like I always will.
We were never dating but we were close. But now she's moved on to another guy. I can't get her off my mind!! I'm always thinking about her..she just seems so..perfect.
And now and then I look at the old notes she wrote me. The ones saying she likes me and looking at those it..it hurts. I wanna just throw them out but is that really going to help? I want to get over her...right?
Really confused,
Greenlalablue (link)
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She sounds like your first love, and you're never going to get over that. It's something you're always going to remember because their your first. They were special to you.
I wouldn't suggest throwing away the letters ; keep them as memories. If you did, you'd probably regret throwing them out later in life. I would just suggest putting everything about her into a box and putting her away somewhere. Under your bed, in your closet, wherever you won't see it or bother to look for it.
I know it might take awhile, but you just need to distract yourself. Take up a new hobby, learn a new instrument, draw, write, paint, listen to music, maybe even attempt at writing some music. Try exercising more, playing a new sport. Just improve yourself and focus your attentions elsewhere and any time you find yourself thinking of her, try to quickly think of something else. What I do sometimes is put a really catchy song and get it stuck in my head and that's all I'll think about pretty much all day.
But you don't want to get rid of those letters. They're special memories for you and will always be, and you can look back at them and just be like,"Ha, oh yeah, I remember her." But you'll be able to look back at them without thinking of any pain or anything. You'll just smile and remember the good times. And maybe even show them to your kids. But even though she seems perfect, there's a girl out there somewhere whose even MORE perfect and she'll want to be with you and she'll stay with you.
I hope I helped.
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well heres my problem:
I Dont know when but soon im gonna meet up with my boyfriend that i havent seen for ages, weve been going out for 5 months, and we talked about sex im only young and a vigin but hes older and experianced and i trust him. I told him that i was ready do "do it" when we met up. Now thats true i do wanna but my worse fear is getting pregnant and im scared about it. i dont know what to do or what to tell him or if its worth the risk. It is somthing i trust him with, but bad things always seem to happen to me and i really dont want to get pregnant but i wanna do it. Please Help What Should I Do? And Wha Should i tell my boyfriend (link)
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Well, since you're worried about getting pregnant and everything, you don't sound 100% sure that you want to have sex, and you shouldn't until you're 100% sure mentally and psychically.
But if you really want to and feel you're ready, then go to Planned Parenthood and go on the pill and have your boyfriend use a condom, to be extra safe.
But I highly ask you to reconsider. I think your first time is something that should be waited for and shared with someone you know you're going to be with for a long time and that you really really love. I mean, once it's gone, you're not going to be able to get it back. And plus, things happen and even though you use a condom, you could still possibly get pregnant. And I doubt you and your boyfriend want to be teenage parents, do you?
I hope I helped.
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