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I feel like a bad person
So, there's boy A and boy B. They're really good friends with eachother. Maybe best friends. So, B tells me he likes me [[you know, like like]] and I thought I liked him back, so I said I liked him too. Then I realized I didn't really like him and I told A. A told B, and now B is mad at me because I 'lied' and didn't tell him I didn't like him anymore. I feel so bad and I was going to tell him but we never saw eachother so I was waiting to tell him in person. I'm kind of mad at A for telling him, but I guess it had to come out somehow. I don't know what to tell B, he must hate me now. Help?
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there best friends of course he going to tell anyways hes probably a litle hurt but if thats how you feel its better he knows hell get over it so dont worry about it hell meet another girl and youll both move past it if he continues to be mad theres really not much you can do. you could try apologizing but that doesnt always work if he holds a grudge then atleast the truth came out. its better to be honest.
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that happened to me once,only it was b/c i got back together with an ex and it just didnt work. i just explained that he honestly didnt do anything wrong, i just didnt feel anything for him and i was so sorry because i knew this had to have been hurting him. i told him that i still wanted to be his friend because he meant alot to me and i would understand if he was truly upset with me. you need to find a way to talk to "B" and explain things in the nicest possible way. im sure hes hurt but think of what he must be going through! i hope this helped some!
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Just explain to him what you did to me. Just be like,"Look, [B], I know you must really hate me right now, but I didn't want you to find out that way. I was waiting until the next time we talked so I could tell you in person cause I don't want to be one of those girls who just call says it real quick and hangs up and leaves you sitting there. But [A] told you before I could even get the chance to talk to you. I'm sorry. I really thought I had feelings to return, but I just thought about it, and I don't have those same kinds of feelings." He might still continue hating you, he might now. It'll just depend from there how he handles it. You were honest with him at least and explained yourself and you apologized. Just give him some time to cool off, and then ask if he'd still like to be friends, cause you can never do,"Hey I wanna break up, can we be friends?!" Cause that's just like crushing them and then acting like everything's cool. Just wait and see how he wants to handle it, and if he wants to continue to have a friendship with you. Hopefully, he will. I hope I helped. <3
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