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i am so confused with this guy! is he over his ex?..
16/f
well bottom line- i madeout with this 14 year old but he looks much older and im attracted to him.
you see he slept over at my cousin nates house and then they had to go so his friend joe wanted me to pick him up (i know joe too) but like we arent very good friends. and he wanted to hangout with me until my cousins got back from this party they had to go to. well we went shopping, went to eat, and then to a movie and he asked to kiss me and stuff and i was like allright so we did and we madeout a little bit and then he was like rubbing me. but then he asked if i wanted to do more stuff and i was like noo...and he was allright sorry for asking!! and hes like do you forgive me and im like yeah... and hes like promise? and im like yes.
but then just like 3 weeks ago his girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with him because she saw he was messaging me like two months ago and it wasnt even that bad! but then he is still like..i gotta talk to my girl. i still love her...
but then at the movies he is like you know that im over cortney (his "EX" girlfriend) and i start laughing and im like yeah right.. and he is like noo im serious im trying to get over her or im starting. but then still i know he will always be whipped over her. i feel stupid now because for a little bit i was starting to have feelings for him but now..when he still calls her his girl and says he still loves her i dont know what to do! Grrr it makes me so mad! and what we did at the movies..he told me not to tell anyone and he made me promise. what the heck is up with that? does it sound like he just wanted to hook up with me. but then that night he called me and we talked on the phone and he was like hey im sorry i asked you that and im like asked you what? i think he was talking about at the movies when he wanted to do more and i said no but i was like ohh its allright os i think he still feels bad! the thing i like about him is he knows that no means no and he wont pressure me into doing anything. and he always asks my cousin if im over and everything. i know for a fact that he thinks im attractive he even told me but i just dont know! im really mad so do you think its a good idea to not talk to him and have him approach me first?? because i dont just want to be a booty call and im not use to this. this was only the 2nd time i madeout with someone so now its like...
am i starting to like him? do i want him to like me?..i dont want to start liking him though and get screwed over if him and his "girl" get back together but i guess she is really mad and told my cousin she isnt going back out with that jerk and all that! even though he is soo nice to his girlfriends its ridiculous.
what would you do in my situation? ive never had a boyfriend and ive never been asked out so its kinda nice having attention on me but it just happens to seem like the wrong person =(
well thanks!
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yes, it sounds to me like you're starting to like him.
but, if i were you, i wouldn't want anything to do with this guy.
i mean sure he's nice and he knows no means no, which is good, but i would just have him as just a friend. no friends with benefits or anything.
i mean, he's still obviously hung over his ex. calling her and telling her he loves her, and then telling you he's trying to get over her or is at least starting to? he just sounds like he's trying to juggle the both of you at the same time. and who knows if you two ever decided to date, that he'd find some other girl and tell her the same stuff, and then you'd become the ex-girlfriend on the phone getting told all the "i love yous"?
i know it's nice to get attention and everything, but you should get attention from a nice single guy who while they're complimenting YOU, won't be calling their ex-girlfriend's and complimenting HER and telling HER stuff.
so i say just keep him around as maybe a friend, but if you find yourself liking him more and he's still calling his ex and everything, i just might want to forget about him all together, cause it just sounds like it could all become one huge complication after awhile.
i hope i helped.
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