ok i am 14/f and i had sex once with my current bf, but it hurt really bad so instead of keeping it in the front he went to the back, so my question issince i didnt do it for more then 3 min will my next time still hurt alot??
It will take some time to get used to. It might get sore, hurt, or feel uncomfortable. But I'm a virgin, so..
But does your boyfriend know what he's doing?
Is he taking it slow? Is he being gentle with you? Next time tell him about that, so it doesn't hurt that much.
If you are tight, then make sure you have some lubricant.
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hey im 13/f
my mom says if i ever get a boyfriend and she knows about it, shell be really pissed cuz im not aloud to be dating yet. i really like this guy and theres a rumor going around that hes gonna ask me out. well my best friend said and these are her words.."ill make sure your mom knows." i cant not tell my best friend that i have a boyfriend and even if i dont, itll get around. i just dont know what to do.
She just doesn't want you to get hurt. Start dating around 15. So you dont have to go through jerks now.
If you really want to have a boyfriend.. then wait for him to ask you out.
You do not tell your so called best friend.
She isn't much of a best friend.
Tell the guy what's going on.
Don't let your mom know.
If your best friend finds out and tells on you, you can deny it. I'm sure your mom will believe you. Get the guy to come over and say you aren't dating.
But really,
a guy..is
not worth all that trouble for.
You need a better best friend, usually.. they are supposed to be on your side..
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hey-
Its really bothering me.. I don't know what the guy's name is who went out with terri and pushed her over.. I can't think of it..
please help
I rate!
His name is Richard Murray.
Known as "Rick".
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Back when I was a senior in highschool I was really unpopular and I had a crush on one of the most popular guys. He knew I liked him but because of his popularity he never asked me out (but I suspect he DID like me). This is because I caught him checking me out at the prom when I was all dressed up and he used to sneak looks at me in our english class. At the time he was dating a very popular girl in the class. Well I just had my ten year highschool reunion and hadnt seen him since higschool. He is married now. Although he never talked to me I kept catching him staring at me. Do you think he may still like me?
Okay before.. he probably did like you.
But now that he's married.
I bet he just finds you attractive or he was trying to figure out who you were[if you looked any different]
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13/f
wow.. after our break up and it was almost our 3rd month i love him alot. and next thing i know it im going through a break up and hes ignoring me like a mother freaker. i hope he regrets it. seriously, i havent gotten any answers yet.. like why cant we just be friends? why didn't he tell me he wanted me to change instead of saying "its over." and leave me there thinking why. idk what to do.. he looks happier than i am.. which makes me more sasd. what am i supposed to do... leave him alone give him space and let him hate me? it was one little break up.. and it turns to something serious. my friend says if i like him alot.. and its worth it, go after him.. but im not the one supposed to go after him. I want him back, and i promised that i would change just for him. But then.. he wont listen to what im trying to tell him or say to him.. its either hes ignoring me or he reads the question or stuff im sending him but doesn't reply.
PLEASE HELP. i have alot of shit in my life now.
He's not worth being with.
If he liked you that much, he wouldn't want you to change. And you sound like a nice person too.
Don't let any guy change you. It's not right.
If he won't answer you or give you a reason why then forget him.
You have to be happy. Try to be happier then him.
Sometimes it takes a while for a guy to realize what he did. Maybe he's not ready to be in a relationship. Commitment may be scaring him. I don't know.
[maybe he seems happy but he's not, you never know.]
Boyfriends at age 13 usually don't work out.
You really need to forget him though if he won't answer you.
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hi...ive recently jus started goin out with this guy, and i realli love him.
the problem is .. he isnt the type of guy (looks wise) i wudda gone for .. the only reason im goin out with him is because of his personality and caring side...is this stupid?
Nope it's not stupid.
You want to be with a guy with a good personality and everything like that. You don't want a "hot" guy that is mean and stupid.
what's inside counts more.
So he's a keeper. :]
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i was always a diligent student. not a slacker. well, ever since last year, I feel too incredibly lazy to work. it's not really even lazy because i can go outside and work out and do stuff like that, BUT, i can't do school work anymore and i don't like it. i get super distracted, like more than usual. i read things, and i don't understand them. and it's only with school. i don't know. it's mot really a good thing. it's like school isn't even a priority. and i don't want to be a slacker. i got ok grades last year. but, i want to do even better! could i have ADD? i don't know. any advice would be helpful
Yeah I had the same problem when I was in my freshmen year. I was always doing my work before but then I slacked off a bit. I got distracted with everything around me. Try focusing on school. Make it your goal. Look for the fun in it.
Now that I've noticed that I've done poorly, I want to prove my new teachers that I can do so much better.
Because you know how teachers talk about their students? At one point they probably said something about you.
If it's something about science and you don't understand it. Go online to see some pictures and diagrams. Watch some clips about it too. You can always go to your teacher after school for some help.
Ask for a tutor or go to a counselor for advice, I'm sure they will want to help you. Maybe take one of your friends with you too.
Just look for the fun in it. Like if you're going to make a poster about a book, then get artsy with it.
If you're going to study, then get some music playing, so any other noises won't distract you.
Open a book, get some paper, maybe go online for some extra help.
It will take some time but it's worth it.
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I really need to know about high school. i am soooooo scared about it. in the movies, they make high school seem like hell. i know it won't be like the movies but i think it will be bad. i go to high school in one year for the first time. is it bad? or am i making it seem this bad? thanks!
it's not bad. it's quite fun.
i mean, people are mature so obviously they won't do anything bad.
there's some idiots in there that like to scare the freshmen but if you stay with your group of friends, then it's okay.
be happy. have fun. talk to people. and it goes by *so fast* so make the most of it.
it feels like i'm still a freshmen but i'm not.
you're just making it seem bad.
and whatever stories you hear... are wrong.
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okay i really like ashley tisdale's makeup here. but if i try to do it, i look horrible. it just makes me look liike i have way too much eye makeup on. can someone help me by telling me how to do apply all this makeup.
1) http://www.ashleytisdale.com/images_pub/pat616.jpg
also i have blue eyes and dirty blonde/light brown hair, so could you also tell me what colors to use. because i'm not sure if the teal and brown will look good on me. here is a picture of me to help your help me better :]
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v287/Nobodys_listening_xx/Aug1506004.jpg
i also like ashley's makeup here too:
2) http://www.ashleytisdale.com/images_pub/pat602.jpg
3) http://www.ashleytisdale.com/images_pub/pat425.jpg
so if someone could tell me how to do my makeup like ashley's in picture #1, #2, and #3, or just pick one and help me. and tell me which one will look better one me.
thanks so much for taking the time to read this and help me :]
Well less is more. You have to apply the makeup lightly and get all the right brushes to apply it with. Brush off excess makeup.
You can also try something new or go to a makeup counter, where you can ask someone questions about how to apply it.
And well it takes practice to do it well as them. Because they have their own makeup artists.
Cream and pink eyeshadows look good with blue eyes.
I really like 3.
Do you have liquid eyeliner? [with a felt tip] those are easy to use.
You can cover up mistakes with foundation, eyeshadow or regular eyeliner.
I'm probably no help. But maybe ask your friends?
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In the past, my best friend, used to ditch me alot. We had a big discussion on it. I said how it really hurt my feelings & all this stuff. So then she told me, she didn't mean to do it, & she was very sorry, & would never do it again. She promised & everything.
Then, just yesterday, she did it.
I went to this beach, like I don't know a week or two ago? & thats basically, all I've been talking about. & I kept saying I'm gonna invite you ok? & shes like ok, I can't wait. So I was all excited right? & then I'm like.. "I think were gonna go down there tomorrow. I was wondering if you can go?" & shes like "Yeah!" & so then.. around 6ish that day, I went to the park with my family & got ice cream. So, when I get back, shes all.. I can't go with you tomorrow, I'm sleeping over Kahlies house. & I got really really reallly really mad & upset. Because, I've been looking forward to it, for forever. So, since I was so angry, I just blurted out, I don't wanna talk to you anymore. & like stuff about being her best friend. So, then when she got to Kahlies shes all.. "Well, I can't believe your doing this when Kyle is about to dump me!" & then I just signed off. Because, I got mad.. that shes more worried about her boyfriendm, then losing her best friend? So yeah, I don't know what to do. I acted like I didn't care anymore, because I was tired, & wanted to go to bed.
What should I do? Should I continue to be mad at her? Or should I just forget about it.. & forgive her? I'm just upset, & need some advice. ASAP.
thanks
She promised. Since she hasn't been loyal as a friend, it's okay to be angry at her. But quickly forgetting about it and forgiving her, is not. She's trying to make you forget how she ditched you. I let people do this to me and it's.. just no good.
I don't know if her boyfriend really is going to break up with her or anything but she may be looking for an excuse so you wouldn't 'hate' her.
A best friend shouldn't make up excuses. Since she promised and then she flaked on you.. to go over some other persons house. She had an option to do so. There's no reason why she couldn't. Because she could have gotten a ride either way.
So she broke her promise.
You have a right to be angry at her.
Don't let your friends push you around and upset you.
Wait until she talks to you.
If she doesn't, you deserve a better best friend.
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ok well i went on my boyfriends myspace and i saw a message to another girl this was
it she aint 13 but umm its nothing even serious ne more and the girl is suicidal i think so if i try to brek up with her she will do something to herself so im sl;owing breakin that shit off i no i coul,d do better i had u didnt i?
well... that was about me so i confronted him n turns out it was this girl amber who wants torbeak us up now hes saying he cant trust me, and im fraid hes gunna break up with me, what should i say to him when he calls me, and how can i gain his trust?
honestly, you deserve better.
but if you want to hurt yourself even more, then stay with him and wait when he hurts you.
but if you break up with him first, you'll feel a lot better and be hey, "he didn't break up with me first!"
"slowing breakin that shit off"
he will treat you horribley, just to let you know. he's not going to treat you like you're his girlfriend
so let him go.
you will find someone who treats you so much better.
he has no right to say he can't trust you.
because well, if he gave you his password to his myspace then he obviously DID trust you.
and well, he's an ass for hiding things from you.
do not sink to that low level and try "to gain his trust"
because you don't need him.
i know i'm going to be rated a 1 because you don't want to end your relationship but i don't care.
you are going to hurt yourself a lot if you don't end it yourself.
so please don't make him feel like he's so good by staying with him or he will treat every other girlfriend like that.
you'll find someone who will treat you a lot better than that. someone who won't hide things and go behind your back.
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Alright, the reason why i think im depressed is because im sad and crying for no apparent reason, im extremely sensitive to what people say to me that are insults (even if its a joke), i do have some happy moments and days. The crying has last for almost a month, much longer than it was before, so im thinkin i need to see a doctor, but im not sure. Can you guys/girls help me out and tell me if im depressed or not?
a lot of people go through this.
and sometimes you're just sad for no reason
it's normal..
a lot of people have taken a test and came out as 'clinic depression'
but they really aren't depressed.
but go see a doctor anyway.
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kay well ive had my period for a year or so..but when everytime i have it and i have to go to school i feel uncomfortable..and i always worry . when theres nothing to really worry about i just end up becoming paranoid about it..and i wana know if theres something i can do to become more secure or to feel better about having it?
Yeah that happens to me too.
I worried about getting a stain.
I wore a long shirt/jacket or something to cover up and it didn't bother me....even though nothing ever happened.
Or you can mention to your friends that you have cramps or something... and it wouldn't be so awkward.
It takes time to get used to it. Just pretend you don't have it. hmm even though.. that is hard if you have horrible cramps like mine.
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ok well one of my best friends says i can't dump my boy friend and then my other best friend says i should do what i want and sometimes i want to dump cuz he can act really stupid but then he can be a real sweety what should i do
You should do what you want.
I mean if you have a good reason though.
Like if you are no longer 'interested' in him.
Or if he cheated on you... then you should be with someone else.
If he hurt you by saying something stupid, isn't a big thing unless.. he continues it over and over and won't stop when you tell him to.
But what do you mean act really stupid?
What is he doing?
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okay, well i went to this one school up until 5th grade. i moved to a bigger city, and believe me, I CHANGED. at my old school i was popular, but everybody was, because about 400 people lived in the city, and there were about 15 kids in every grade. i had a couple little boyfriends, but i was young and they moved away. Well, my new town was BIG and everybody only cared about appearace. well i was pretty, wealthy, but never really realized it cuz nobody really cared at my old school. (dont worry im getting to it!!) in middle school i was very popular and all the guys liked me!! but when i moved back at the end of 7th grade, none of the guys asked me out. im not mean, because i get along with them GREAT!! all my friends say im cool, pretty, fun, nice, etc. so why do the boys with high standards like me, but the boys with low standards dont?
The boys with "low standards" probably just don't like you. A girl with too much confidence can be quite annoying if you think about it. Because if you're like that, you have your way with things. And you.. could easily leave that guy for some other guy with "high standards"
So really, they are being smart
or shy
or maybe they just aren't interested.
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to get pimples between breasts? i was just wondering..
Yes it is. It's when sweat gets trapped between "night clothes" and the skin.
Even necklaces irriate the skin too and can cause the acne to get worse.
Products to use:
Neutrogena Body Clear Body Wash
Tree tea oil soap
Or go to a dermatologist.
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I'm getting all new make-up for school, but I don't know what colors would look good on me. I have light blonde hair, bluish green, fair skin. I already know that I want black eyeliner, but I don't know what color blush and eye-shadow I should get.
If it helps, I'm kind of one of those "scene" kids.
What is "scene" anyway? It does not make sense.
--
You should try things out.
Don't limit things because of the color and how people it wouldn't work.
Sometimes it works for certain people.
It's like
Don't let the makeup wear you.
You wear it.
Cream/Pink eyeshadows look good.
Blush:
http://www.cosmeticscop.com/shop/product.asp?CODE=SBLSH&PAGETYPE=M
look under description.
some colors to choose from
but go in a store and try it out first.
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okay, well, im just gonna say it: im really popular at my school. i think im pretty, and so does everybody else. im not gonna go into detail. cuz you know how popular kids are. well, this girl at school thinks that shes better than us!! WE dont even have that attitude!! we dont talk about how rich we are, or whatever, we just like to have fun and hang out!! she is always like screaming through the hallways, "omg jenny, do you have my ipod and louis vuitton bag??!!" and everybody else can see that shes trying to impress us. but we dont know why. shes really slutty and only has a few friends. she moved into my neighborhood a few years ago, and i asked her to hang out with me and my friends. after she did and we went back to school in the fall, she felt like she had to impress us. why is this??!! because she always copying our websites and stuff and badmouths us!! she is soo annoying!!
I think it's funny how some people think they are popular. But they really aren't.
Because people don't notice and they really don't care.
she wants you to pay attention to her... if she has "few friends" and maybe she's not trying to impress you. maybe she's just showing off to EVERYONE.
Maybe she's trying to get your approval.. which is really stupid.
She's just one person. Why should you care?
One person badmouthing you doesn't do anything. You already have "high confidence", I doubt it could hurt you.
If she bothers you that much, tell her to back off.
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okay, well, this is more of a poll than a question. i have kissed several guys, and i think kissing is JUST kissing, but you always hear, "oh hes a good kisser", or "hes not a very good kisser". i think thats a myth. how many people actually believe that there are really good in bad kissers. i mean, i can understand if a guy is like, all over you, thats a bad kisser, but just normal making out? i dont get it!!
Some believe a bad kisser .. is just.. if they can't french kiss, if it's sloppy [his saliva all over your face] and his lips are not quite kissing yours.
It's just their opinon. Some people don't mind if it's sort of sloppy.
I suppose some girls are trying to feel -something- like "sparks" when they kiss a guy. So he's known as "not a good kisser"
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ok so if i smush my face against my chest
i have a double chin
and i hate it!
how do i get rid of it!!!
everyone has a double chin..
it's not like you're going out "smushing" your face against your chest.
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