If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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ik this is dumb but i am really paranoid about my bf. we dont see eachother a ton becuz it is summer and we are both busy. i saw him 4 days ago but today like we didnt talk at all i have relatives over and etc. i really like him and i want to go out with him but if we dont see eachother i get all worried he will dump me or not like me or whatever. it sucks. then he has this pretty friend and blah blah blah i am just overreacting i hate it.
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Hmmm,well talk to him about the fact you're not spending too much time together. Don't worry about the whole dumping thing. Relationships end for some other reason besides not seeing one another. But it does contribute. He has a pretty friend? You don't have any guy friends? You're not overreacting much. Does he have a history of cheating or what?
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ok so i had anoriexia for a while and i recovered. i am at a normal weight now, and i have these 2 best friends. 1 went on a diet and is thin now and the other isnt as thin as my other friend but is very pretty and fine the way she is. so now she said started dieting and she doesnt eat alot. like..hardly anything. she always brings it up it seems like she wants attention and she always says stuff like "hey i ate something today!" she also said she is doing this to be thin like we are, and to impress us. no matter how much i talk to her and tell her how bad what she is doing is, she doesnt listen. and she alwwayyss brings it up. i am going to go crazy and idk exactly what to do.
help if u can
xo * (link)
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Tell her how fun it was to be anorexic and that you did the same things when you went through that stage and thats the last thing you want your friend to have to endure. Tell her you're anything but impressed and that you're worried for her safety. Also,as you probably already know,anorexia is a medical condition and needs to be treated by a doctor.
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Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ? (link)
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Bryant,dude. What are you waiting on? Ask her what shes doin next weekend or sone crap and flirt,but not too heavily. thats a turn off. Trust me,I know. If shes receptive,all i can say is just dont end up like Kobe Bryant and on trial for rape ok?
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hi, i am 15 and a female. I am very close to my friends, but lately two of them are fighing and one of them is lying to me. One of my friends told me that the other said something about me that was VERY hurtful. I confronted the friend that said this and he said that he DID NOT say it, but the other guy tells me that he really did say it about me. I don't have a clue who is lying to me and who is telling me the truth. It hurts to think that one of them is lying to me, but i really want to know who's lying to me. Please help :( How can i found out who is lying to me? (link)
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This is impossible for me to tell because I know neither one of them. Does either have a history of lying? Plus you have a thing called women's intuition,which may not help but it's the best i can do.
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Okay so when I went out with this friend I met I was having fun until , this really cute!! guy came along I could tell he was alone, My friend went off for something to eat, I stayed , i went over and tried to talk to him but he just looked at me finally we spoke he was sad because his gf moved away and now its his x g/f , but I told him I would try to help , but when we talked for an hour I got to know him ... alot more. Hes 16 andhis names CJ , he asked me out and Im only 15, I like him alot , but is he Prince Charming for me??? PLz help ,, Jenipher WBASAP!!! (link)
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What exactly is your problem? If it's a cute guy,yo both like each other,it sounds like,go with it. I have no clue whether he's prince charming. He's just a guy. Are you Sleeping Beauty?
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well im 13 and i weigh between 110-115 and my legs are big and its all fat and my family said i have a beautiful figure and i like it and all but it to much fat for me i used to wear ones and now i wear 7 and i wanna try trimspa but im not sure if i should are not i need help and i tried exersize and it doesnt work!! help me plz
o yeah and i have had ppl tell me i wasnt skinny but i like my curves i just dont like being so big (link)
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You sound very pretty. Not every guy likes a girl who's bone thin. Yu sound great to me,but if you want to tone your legs up,run or do leg exercises in your local gym.
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Hey everyone,
I really love this guy. The thing is, he has a girlfriend. Whenever i think about him, i smile uncontrollably. Just talking to him makes me melt. He's so sensitive. One summer, we talked all night about little things that we like, and really deep things. He's the type that's into deep thoughts, Jimi Hendrix, Bob Marley, Led Zeppelin, and even poetry. I myself love writing meaningful thoughts and especially poems. He's not in a serious relationship with the girl, and I dont even think theyre right for each other. Im the only one that sees his sensitive side. I love him for who he is, not who people want him to be. Hes not like other guys, and i dont know what i can do to get him to like me the way i like him. if anyone has any good advice, please share it with me. i am madly in love with this guy and will go to shocking lenghths to make im mine, and me his. (link)
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If the relationship isnt serious,it'll end soon. Do u know if he feels the same way about you? At our ages,the world "love" gets tossed around so much. Are you sure you love this guy? Take it slow and don't rush. Tell him how you feel but dont be ruined if he doesnt "love"you back.
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hi...im 16 yrs old and my ex bf(Aaron) hes 17 we got into a big fight one day about girl thats 15 she was supposed to be a 'friend' she kept trin to get with him so here me and aaron are gettin into it i said somethings that i now regert i have been tring to get ahold of him in all to tell him that i miss him and want him back....but he got his number changed(i think) no one knows where he is everybody i talk to tell me he has a new gf but i dont know...What should i do...should i just wait and see what happens or just try to get ahold of him and tell him how i feel?...please help (link)
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Well,first dont phrase it like "I want you back." It's a desperate phrase. Say more like " We had an argument and i said some things i didn't mean and im sorry. I'd be interested in going out with you again blah blah blah." Now about that phone number,ask one of his friends what the deal is and go from there. If it's changed,that seems like a lot of hassle just for a girl hes pissed off at. And why were you pissed about the 15 year old anyway? does he have a history of cheating or are u insecure or did something really go down?
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im really depressed and i dont know what to do with myself both of my best friends whom i hang out with all the time both have boyfriends, but me being the ugliest friend does not. i feel really left out the thing is no guy will notice me because im not pretty and im not fat but im not skinny im 5"8 and i weigh about 175lbs ive stopped eating basically, trying to lose weight. i just want to be happy again how do i get some confidence???? i have none at all... please help i feel like the ugly duckling of the group (link)
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Ok well,the first step in solving a problem is admitting to it,which you have. I was overweight once and then i began running. First a quarter mile for a few days,then a half and i built all the way up to 5. Don't stop eating,slows metabolism,but eat healthier. High proten,low carb foods are the key here. In addition drink a lot of water.But you have to want it. There will be days when you don't feel like it,but you have to. The day will come when you are no longer fat and you'll no longer be the ugly duckling. Remember as long as you want it,you'll like when people tell you can't do it. Good luck.
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Anyways, I just met this guy out of the blue by chance online. He's my best friend's boyfriend's friend, so I know he's not some sweaty old perverted guy pretending to be someone else online. It seems like we're both pretty interested in eachother; however, he just broke up with his girlfriend recently and he's been having a lot of trouble recouping from his past relationship. They broke up recently so I had no clue if they were going to get back together again soon, so I had decided to not get involved. But then he started calling me pretty and asking if I wanted any gifts cuz he wanted to buy me something... etc. Now I'm not sure what to do. Should I get involved in his recent relationship with his ex gf? should I just stay away from him?(there's no harm in that because I've never met him in person) Well, I'm planning to meet him in two weeks, and I need to plan on what to do. Please help! (link)
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Well if hes never even seen your face,then this sounds like infatuation. you need to take some more time to get to know this guy. Find out why his other relationship didnt work and see if he takes any responsibility. Take things a little slower(im a big believer in that) and go with the flow.
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hey i was just wondering do guys prefer straight hair or do they like curly/wavy hair? also which one do u think is "in".
thxxxxxx (link)
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Every guy's prefernce is different.
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do? (link)
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Well,imagine having a doll,that:cried in the middle of the night,cried if its hungry,sleepy,or needed changing,was a financial burdon and worry for the rest of your life. Oh be sure to do well on that Algebra test. And gotta finish that Biology homework. Girl,really,im sure you'll be a good mom in 10 years.
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Hey, im 5'6" and weigh about 119 lbs. Is that skinny, average, or what? I look more chubbier than people with the SAME height AND weight as me. Also -- ive tried eatting healthy, stop drinking soda, and running, but i cant seem to get rid of my love handles around my sides and lower back. Its so emabrassing AND obvious through my shirts..if you've gotten rid of yours, how did you do it? Thanks (link)
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At 5'6 119,you sound quite attractive to me,but you also didnt say how old you were. this may just be baby fat that'll go away and often times girls tend to overexaggerate. im sure youre very pretty.
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i am gettin braces and i heard u heard em do they hurt (link)
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They're not that bad,once you get used to them,and they'll be off before you know it.
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hi my friend has been really mean to me, they are starting to beat me up when there in a mood help xx (link)
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Don't hang around these people anymore. Either that or fight back. But don't say "OWW THAT HURT" or some crap like that. If you want to talk to them about it,say look what the hell are u hitting me for? in a very assertive voice.
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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
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I don't wanna be blunt,but at 27,if he's messing with an 18 year old girl,he just wants to get in your pants. It's nothing personal against you,but don't let yourself be used by a guy that age. Or any age for that matter. It is legal to get involved with him,but being a guy,i know how we think. Stay away!
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