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which one is lying to me?
hi, i am 15 and a female. I am very close to my friends, but lately two of them are fighing and one of them is lying to me. One of my friends told me that the other said something about me that was VERY hurtful. I confronted the friend that said this and he said that he DID NOT say it, but the other guy tells me that he really did say it about me. I don't have a clue who is lying to me and who is telling me the truth. It hurts to think that one of them is lying to me, but i really want to know who's lying to me. Please help :( How can i found out who is lying to me?
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This is a tough situation. You need to figure out which one you trust more. Decide who is more likely to say something about that. You could also try asking other people if they have heard this person talking about you. If really necessery and this keeps happening you should just drop them both and move on.
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i already know... the guy who says he isnt sayin it... u should slap him seriously... that guys seems like hes doin something i would have done... so hes lying. slap him
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This is impossible for me to tell because I know neither one of them. Does either have a history of lying? Plus you have a thing called women's intuition,which may not help but it's the best i can do.
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Ahh, it's SO tricky when you have two close friends fighting- and you're in the middle! It's hard to figure out exactly who's lying to you. But I've seen this happen so many times, one friend says that the person their fighting with said something mean about the friend (who is you) that's friends with BOTH of them just because they want [you] to take their side. Tell them both how you feel. Say how (obviously) one of them is lying to you, and it really hurts. Tell them how them fighting is hard on you, because you want all of you to get along. ALSO, say how if they have something to say, say it to your face, not through another person. When it comes out through another person, you can never truly tell if it's true or not. Just ignore what they say if its like "Oh, well HE said this about you!" and such...eventually they'll get over whatever they're fighting about. But no matter what, don't take sides, and always listen to what they're saying- even if you think they're absolutely wrong. :) I hope I helped! Please rate me!
Sincerely, Cammie
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Find a way to trap them in their lies that way you can figure ou t who's the honest frined and who needs to b let loose from your frinedship.
~KiSsEs~
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