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Tonight I am going roller skating for the girl scouts. One of my friends who lives in my neighborhood is coming with me. So, I asked my mom if she could sleep over. My mom said yes then she paused. She said the only problem was we are going to church tomorrow and my friend's parents don't like her going to church. One night she was going to come over but once her parents found out we were going to church they forbid her. My friend has only been to chhurch 3 times in her life! It's not fair that she can't go the second her parents find out that my family is going to church. She's the same religon as me so why does it matter? So I'm wondering should I still invite her over? What do I do?

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i luv u to lets cyber some day!!

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i was wondering on your advice colum you know like when you go into someelse thing and you click out it has this image that takes it away i was wondering how you could do that to my coulum but i dont know how can anyone help me please

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ive been dating this guy for 6 months.. he's been feuding with his dad for longer than i can remember. last night him and his dad got into a huge fight, and he cant stand his dad anymore. he decided to move with his mom in indiana (i live in illinois). i can't stop crying.. he just said goodbye to me and he's leaving tomorrow right after school, and i never see him at school anyway. what am i supposed to do to stop crying? me and him are going to continue to date but i can't stop crying and thinking negatively. help me please

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Sorry for the lengthiness ahead of time.
OK here goes, I am a 16 year old curious teenage girl. I have recently gotten a boyfriend, and this is the first time since about beginning of september. However, I have two other infatuations. And I think about them on a regular basis.
So now I will explain in a little more detail about them:
My boyfriend, I just met him at a concert on January 29th. He is a total sweetheart and a complete cutie.
One of the other guys, I have been talking to him regularly and we flirt which is no biggie, however we do talk about hanging out and kissing or making out on a frequent basis as well. however, that is not just recent I was doing that long before I even met my boyfriend.
The second guy, I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since about the end of October, however I havn't since I got with my boyfriend, but I have also failed to tell him about my boyfriend. Except I don't want him to be devastated because I am dating someone else, he is the last person in the world that I want upset or mad at me. He is my best friend, my savior when I need it. However, we weren't in a relationship, didn't have labels, or any form of ties keeping us together. Except I am now seeing that I think I developed real, raw, strong feelings for him.
I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt anyone. If you could help me out I would appreciate it so so much.
Thanks in advance for anyone who helps or even tries to. Because I know if I can get through this I can work through other problems that I have. So thanks again.
-Rachael

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im a 13/f.....no one likes ne at school everyone speards rumors and talks about me, my friends r backsabing bitches!!!!! no one knows how i feel im really depresserd, if one person doesnt talk about me its the other!!!!!

Please help!!!


I RATE 5'S 4 every answer that doesnt piss me off!!!!!


Thanks aton

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Im 13/f and one of my best friends (12/f) tryed somking today with her two other friends who have somked sice they were 10.
I am really against smoking and when I talked to her about it, she said she was, and didn't tell me that she tried it or act like anything was weird. I know she told others, I saw her whispering. I know she did it because I was with a group of friends next to the bush where they smoke and I saw her smoking. She was coughing all the way through the next lesson and STANK.
This was in first break and she went off with the other two at lunch too, so she might of been smoking then too. I havn't told her that I know.---How do I stop her before she gets addicted?---
She is really into sports and I know smoking makes you breathless and bad at sport. I think she would have a far better life if she didn't smoke. Sorry about the length!
Zoin.

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well with valentines day coming up i was soo confused on what to get muh boyfriend of 2 months. and i was thinking about doing this for him but i don't know if its stupid soo im asking you ppl for input! ok well here... at the beginning of the day im gonna go to his locker and hang out with him and act really bored! and then when i see him at the end of the day im gonna tell him that i really need to talk to him and its important and just to call me when he gets home. and im gonna hand him a note and that he has to read it when he gets home! and the note is going to be about how much i really do love him and care about him... does that sound like an ok thing to do for valentines day? and for the guys tell me what you would do if ur gf did this for you! thanks bunches

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i was really good friends with this sophomore named ryan (im a freshman) and we have started talking since the summer. the guy im dating now (kyle) and my friend ryan are best friends. well at least they were. ever since me and kyle have been dating ryan's been a real dick to kyle and telling him that i've been cheating on him n im using (and IM NOT). and ryan keeps telling me that he loves me and that he really cares about me. and just recently he told me that he really likes me. is this just an act of jealousy or does he just want me to go out with him?

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I invited a friend to come with me on April vacation and my other friend is meeting me there with her fam! but now all our other friends are pissed! and talking behind my back and stuff calling me not their friend! What do i do?! I didnt mean to hurt ANYONES feelings!! i just chose my best friend to go with me.

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Me and my mom just got into a fight. I have'nt even been home for ten minutes. I called her on the way to my other school asking her if I had to go because of the snow. Well first she got all grouchy with me so I was like I will just go then. Then she called back again and before then friend called "Brandon" on my phone cuz hers was dead. Well I thought it was "Brandon" so I gave it to her and it was my mom. So when I got home my mom was like so what people answer your phone now and I told her I thought it was someone else and she was like oh so your letting people use your phone I was like whats the big deal she was like I pay for that I was like yeah so I work for that money she was like okay. Then shes like I love you and stuff but when you hang out with different people you sometimes get an attitude problem and shes like if its gonna go that way then you and your father can have this place your goin up the road and im leavin? first of all what the ####??? where is she gonna send me? I mean its sad when I dont wanna come home because of her. I mean i'm like scared of her because I dunno whats up with her moods shes in at times. What do I do?

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I shave down there and when I do it, it always bleeds!! And then when I get out of the shower it looks really gross because it has a lot of red dots and all! I use a sharp razor...I try and go slow...and I use either conditioner or shaving cream to shave with!! Does anyone know how to prevent this from bleeding or getting ingrown hairs?? Thanks!!

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i have a friend that's really mad at me because i got the star part for our class play at school. what can i do to make her friends with me again?

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How can you get rid of split ends without cutting each one of them off? Also, how can you prevent them? Thanks.

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Omg, im stressing out seriously. Okay, well my boyfriend just broke up with me, my mom is always flipping out on me now, my best friend is mad at me for cutting. and nothing left of happiness is left in me. I dont know what i should i do. I just need help seriously. So please can someone help me?! Thanks so much. -- Colleen

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hey... i'm going to florida soon [i'm from new york lol] and i really want to lose 10-15 lbs. before i go. does anyone have any tips or pointers to help? thanks so much!

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ok so there is this boy liked sennce 2003-2005 right and this year its like i really really like him i catch him looking at me and i be looking at him and he catches me and i be rolling my eyes tryin to hide it but he knows that i like him b/c he be askin me if i like him i be saying no but then he be saying that he know that i like him and stuff and i be smiling trying not 2 but it happends and i catch him and its like i just stare @his eyes 4 ever till im late to class or someone bumps into me :) but does he like me, just teasing me, or just trying to be a flirt!!!!!!!

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ok..lets get to it my bestfriend wants me to smoke weed with her and i dont want to but she said she wont be my friend if i dont do it....what should i do

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hi,

does anyone have any tips on swallowing pills? i have to take some medium to large ones, and it's been hard for me to get them down. i can swallow small ones easy, its just those big ones. (no, i do not have a pill slicer.)


thanks.

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I'm supposed to go to the movies with a guy I've liked for awhile now, tomarrow. We've hung out before and stuff and we've make out and some other things and he told me he really liked me. So, on my birthday he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with some of our friends and of corse I said yes.I went and it turned out he never went so my birthday kind of sucked. Then he asked me again another day if I wanted to go to the movies and I said yeah. Ended up that he never even called me about it.Oh,and he never appologized either time. Do ya'll think I should trust him to come tomarrow, or do you think I should just invite somebody else?

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