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on hollister/abercrombie/aero jeans, is there any step by step directions on how to do that to your jeans, esp. adding white paint drips on your jeans. (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Distressed-Jeans
http://www.jeans-and-accessories.com/how-to-distress-jeans.html
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well i really like this guy and he really likes me b ack but i cant date him till next year. He has a girlfriend who he is always around so i can never talk to him. Plus, on myspace and msn his name is like I love her so much talking about his girlfriend and it says like i really hope we stay together for a long time, so what is up with him? what do i do? (link)
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Bottom line: He has a girlfriend, and he probably does like her a lot if he says all of that about her. I think he may just be playing games with you, the best thing you can do is to not play back. Just be friends and only friends with him, move on with someone who will want to be with you, and only you.
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What does it mean to 'live life to the fullest'? How does a high school freshman live each day to the fullest? (link)
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The quote means to live each day like it's your last day, so you have no regrets on the things you have done, and basically, are careless and live without a worry. You can live life to the fullest as a freshman by...
*Making as many friends as possible (this will help you all throughout high school)
*Join extracurricular activites that you like
*Volunteer and give back to your community, help others
*Don't let things stress you out, have a positive outlook on life
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Hey, does anyone know any websites you can order clothes from online? I don't want it to be an actual stores website, because i'm tired of having the same clothes as everybody.
Thanks :) (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.famousstyle.com/
http://www.asos.com/
http://www.fashionbliss.com/
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ok so im 13...im 115 lbs. and 5'1 .... is that a normal weight for someone like me???? and if not can you please tell me some exercises i can do???
thanx :) (link)
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Yes, you're at a normal and healthy weight for your age and height.
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i go to a middle school many kids tease me about my weight. there are gangbangers. the hit curese and yell. please tell me how i can stop this besides going to an adult? (link)
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Here you go.
http://www.lehman.cuny.edu/faculty/jfleitas/bandaides/teasetips.html
http://www.parenting-ed.org/handout3/Specific%20Concerns%20and%20Problems/teasing.htm
By the way, if you let their teasing get to you, you're letting them get what they want. Ignore what they have to say, and if you can think quick enough, say something to them that'll put them in their place. Those people aren't worth getting upset over. Try building up your confidence, and showing them that they can't bother you anymore. No matter what they say.
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Self injury-ic
i need help, anyone willing to give advice on cutting? (link)
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Hello, since I don't know much about this personally, I thought I could still try to help by looking up some links for you. =)
http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Cutting-Yourself
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/cutting.html
http://health.discovery.com/centers/teen/cutters/tips.html
If you would like anymore links, please feel free to ask for more in an inbox question. And even though I don't know much about cutting, if you ever just want to talk, you can always email me (my email is on my page, just click on my username). I wish you nothing but the best of luck.
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does anyone know the song name...?
lyrics:
cause youuuuu are the brightest/broadest star and i'm in love with who you are and youuuuuu
it's on the show "The Best Years" and it's on the episode "Mommy Dearest" and it's on the part where Sam and Trent are in the shower. (link)
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*White Lines & Red Lights by Between The Trees
http://www.1songlyrics.com/b/between-the-trees/white-lines-and-red-lights.html
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that i used to like like serioulsy 2 years ago, and i am 16 now. and i just cant seem to let go of those feelings....can you please tell me how i should let go? because i tried everything i could think of. (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.therelationshipgym.com/how_to_get_over_a_break_up.htm
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Break-Up
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/relationships/broken_heart.html
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i was watching a episode of " friends" the other day, and joey was auditioning for a role in a movie. and the director said that he had to " not be jewish" and i asked my mom about this, and she said that there was something on a mans penis that joey didnt have but he said that he did...
can someone PLEASE explain this to me?! (link)
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Here you go.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circumcision
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im ready so don't be like it's when you are ready caue i am (: but approximately how long in a realtionship do you think you have to be in to be felt up..like i like this boy soo much and he likes me a lot too...but like 2 months or what..cause i dont want to get a reputation like "wow they went out for this long and he got it and so if i go out with her for that long i can get it"...soo just give me an estimated amount of time (: thanksss a bunch.
if it helps. im 14/f (link)
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Really, it's more of a personal preference and as far as guys talking about you -- they're going to talk whether it's the next day or months later, if that's really what they want to do, unfortunately. I don't take these things lightly, so it would be months into the relationship before I'd go that far, if I was even that comfortable by then. It really just depends.
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Well his parents let him spend the night @ my house and I'm a girl and I don't what to think because I'm his girlfriend I should be on his faves not that girl but I know he has feelings for unless he's a good acter (link)
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Wow, my parents would never let that happen, but that's beside the point. Sorry. I'm not really concerned about another girl being on his favorites, I personally (and this is just my opinion only), don't think it's a big deal. I would just ask him about it, and leave it at that. I'm more so concerned about his parents letting him spend the night with girls, and he could be at a girls house now, unfortunately. But I don't know how you'd find out where he is, can you call his parents?
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Does anybody know where i can watch series 1???
thanx (link)
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Here you go.
http://www.tv-show-downloads-online.com
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I have a strange problem in approaching women,i always have a negative thought that i would get rejected so i avoid most of the time.Can anybody help me out in refering some ebooks(free download)
Effective ways to flirt with women
How to impress women?
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Here you go. =)
http://www.ehow.com/how_5468_impress-woman.html
http://becomeaplayer.com/flirtingtips.htm
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Well there is this guy at my school who I think is cute and seems to be nice. His locker is right across from mine and I am not in any of is classes. I see him at lunch also. I want him to notice me. When I say notice I don't mean going out with him then and there. But becoming friends if the friendship seems good, then possibly consitering going higher into our friendship(taking it slow). If it doesn't seem possible then we could remain friends. What my question is,is what's the first step into introducing myself(please don't give me any advice letting him know I like him. (link)
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I think this will help you out. =)
http://www.wikihow.com/Act-Around-a-Guy-You-Like
And this should also be of help to you.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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Well I'm 14 and he's 15 why (link)
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The reason I asked is if he's really young, he couldn't be staying at a girl's house. Well, at least, most parents don't allow this. So now, I don't believe that's where he's at, but I do still believe there's something going on. Maybe it's something at home, that he can't tell you about, and there's a good reason for you not being able to call.
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How do you break an addiction to chocolate! no joke im addicted and now i have all this halloween candy i keep eating! please help! thank you and i will rate all helpful posts ;) (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.thehealthbank.co.uk/nutrition_articles/chocolate.html
http://www.mypharmacy.co.uk/health_books/books/o/overcoming_your_addictions.htm
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Ok im 15/m and i have a bestfreind whos 15/f, well i am a very quiet guy and calm but she is the complete opposite and shes always dressing sluty, i dont like her.
Although sometimes she cool most of the times i hate her.
I only see her as a regular freind not as anything else, I dont know what to do,
weve been freinds for 3 years and ive not liked her for 2 years
anyone have any ideas on what to do, and dont tell bull**** like give her a chance cause i cant be freinds with someone i dont like (link)
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Here you go.
http://www.wikihow.com/Break-Up-With-Your-Friend
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Yeah its me I would go to his house or call his house but there's a fire where he lives so he's staying @ "his friends" house til the fires out but he could @ least call me (link)
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That's true, he should have called you by now or he should have gave you a number where you could call him at. By the way, how old are the two of you (if you don't mind me asking)?
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how do i do my eyes like hers:
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y47/himynameismarcie/DSC03655-1.jpg
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y47/himynameismarcie/11-01-07_17412.jpg
shes wearing eyeshadow and mascara and eyeliner? (link)
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*Black Eyeliner (Top & Bottom)
*Black Mascara
*In the first picture, all she has done has taken the black eyeliner and used it as an eye shadow. On her eye lid, and below her eyes. And smudges it a bit, to give it the 'smokey' effect.
*In the second picture, she has used black eyeshadow, and smudged it to give the 'smokey' effect.
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