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i am going to this camp 4 older kids and i like this kid. he is going into 7th grade and im going into 8th. he is really nice and his friends and my friend all hang out together. i think he likes me 2
i have his sn and his number. but this is da last week i will c him. do u think i should tell him or wait till he tells me or forget bout him??

Tell him!! Good luck.






-xXoBrianna

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my ex girlfriend is currently dating my best friend. I pretend i dont mind, but i really do because i still lik her and i know she still likes me, so wat should i do

Nothing, if she liked you, she wouldn't be going out with your best friend unless she's trying to get you jealous!!






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i have this guy friend who im crushin on... i wana invite him out to hang this weekend just to get to know eachother more- but the problem is that hes going to start going to our school this year, and is hanging out with all the "hoes". the thing is, im a smart kid but not excately well known but hes so nice and hes getting to know the real me so... im worried. that when he gets to my school he will totally ditch me. so does anyone have a clue what i should do?

If he's not an asshole, he won't ditch you when school starts. And, if he does, fuck him!! You don't need a friend like that. Other than that, just keep on hanging out with him.






-xXoBrianna

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OK, today my private started to hurt really bad. and i looked at it and it started to bleed. I dont have mi period and i know its not that because the sides were bleedin. I dont know what to do! sumone plz help me. PLZ ILL RATE U A FIVE EVEN IF U SAY "BLAH".

plz help thanx

"BLAH", Lol.. I think you should deffinetly see an adult that's pretty close to you like your mom or something, then go to the doctors!! Good luck.






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I'm 14 and me and my friend kristina have been friends for like ever! since like kindergarten.. Well she got really serious with her ex boyfriend. They're like made for each other.. Well they broke up and were seeing other people for a while.. She got involved with this kid jason and he's totally obsessive! Well they broke up and she got back w/ the first guy.. Now jason won't leave her alone.. If you have any ways she can tell jason to leave her alone that she's with the one she loves completley could you tell me.. I was kinda lost when she told me about this

If it's that serious, tell her to go to court and have them put a restraint order on him. Or have the first guy kick his ass!! Either way, good luck.







-xXoBrianna

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ok i have been best friends with my best friend since 6th grade and we r starting 9th...... we were so close in the beginning but now it's like when i go over her house.......she makes up stuff she has to do and when i call its like "o gotta clean bye " "babysitting bye " "watching jerry springer bye". is this like some kinda sign that we shouldnt be friends anymore or something? please answer ASAP

Hmm.. Maybe she is busy?? Or maybe you should just talk to her and tell her how you feel!! Good luck.






-xXoBrianna

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my stepbrothers friend and i are in a relationship. we were thinkin about having sex, or at least me giving him head. whenever i talk to him dirty online he goes back and tells my stepbrother. im also scared cuz my dad is really strict nd im only 13

He sounds like an ass to me!! Don't have sex until your ready!!






-xXoBrianna

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 2 weeks now. Everything is going great, heck we're even going to the movies this weekend. But, I'm just not sure he likes me the way he says he does. Sometimes it seems like he just likes me as a really good friend. I guess what I'm trying to ask is..well do you know how I can find out if he really does like me the way I like him..

Ask him. Besides, why would he be going out with you if he just liked you as a friend?? Good luck!!






-xXoBrianna

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i am the kind or person that likes to keep things tom myself how can i get my mom to buy me tampons and let me shave my legs without saying it to her face?(hinting)

Tell her that your pads are uncomfortable and you'd like to try tampons. Also tell her that you don't like the feeling of hairy legs. You shouldn't have to ask her to shave your legs either!! Lol.






-xXoBrianna

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Hey. Well I'm going into middle school and I practicually know no one there. I am scared that I will not make any friends, and I keep getting scared over and over again just thinking about it. My school starts Aug. 23, and my orientation is tomorrow Aug. 19, and there's going to be 7th graders and new students there and the bus is picking us up. I'm pretty scared about that too, but more scared of the first day of school. Can anyone tell me how to calm down about this and give me motivation so I won't be so scared anymore, and tell me how to make friends early and quick. Thanx!, and I would really appreciate it if you answered my questions.

Hey, don't be scared!! I'm sure you'll make friends. Go up and talk to people--they won't shut you down!! Good luck!!







-xXoBrianna

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i had sex yesterday and i am so god damn sore around my upper thighs. what are some exercizes or things i can do to relieve the pain ....thanks!!!

Lol, no exercises. Let them rest!! Put those ice packs on them or take advil or tylenol or whatever!!






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I have this boyfriend who is really tight with my best friend. My boyfriend also has a best friend who used to go out with my best friend. I know it's confusing, but all 4 of us used to be so tight and everything. Now it's only me and my boyfriend because my best friend & my boyfriends best friend broke up and everythings so messed up. I know they still have feelings for eachother. What can I do to get all 4 of us back together like old times?

Talk to them individually then talk to them together!!







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Ook lately my friends havent asked to do like anything with me. They barely do. And i know theyre all good people and they dont particularly not like me but i invite people placez plenty of times and the invites i get back? Slim and few. Plus my best friends being.. well obviously not herself. My schools too small and I wouldnt leave them anyway... talking to them has proved impossible. so wat do i do.

You sound like a nice friend and I don't think you deserve to be treated that way!! Go find some new friends, because obviously the ones you have now don't care enough to be your friend. Good luck!!







-xXoBrianna


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You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*

If you guys broke up about something big, like him cheating on you or something, then no deffinetly don't go back with him. He probably would do it again!! Or, if you guys faught alot, no. But, on the other hand, if it was something little then yes give him another chance.. follow your heart

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ok ill be 15 in like dayz.. an i swtiched skoolz this las past year (in a middle of 8th grade) an when i switched skools.. all these girlz like started hated on me 4 no reason.. an they all wanna like beat me up an jump me.. still an its a new year comin up. I dunno what ta do because they wont leave me alone.. help please?

lost an confused

Tell the principal or a counsler or someone. Don't let them threaten you!!







-xXoBrianna

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i rlly dont wanna go to school tomorrow...i get made fun of, but thats not the point. i just wanna make myself throw up one time. ill never do it again..is that really bad?

Don't throw up unless you really have too!! The stomach acid from your stomach erodes the enamel off of your teeth, and that is really bad. Just tell your mom you have a head ache and your stomach hurts-- that's what I do and it works every time ;) Good luck!!







-xXoBrianna

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I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15?

It's deffinetly not wrong to be sexually experienced at 15!! When your ready, you'll know. You wont feel as nervous and you'll be completely confident. Don't do anything that you would regret in the future-- Good luck!!







-xXoBrianna

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ill be 15 in dayz an last year i wen ta this new skool an when i tried out 4 basketball an made it this rummor got started that i had "did it" wit the coach ta make the team.. when of course i ddin

now this new year even before skool started..
there is now a rumor that i did it wit this dude i wen out wit las year named Criag when i didn an every1 belives it..
i donno what to do bc im not a hoe like that i mean he was my 1st kiss
an all these ppl belive i did it. how can i make it stop.. how can i jus get thro it

Fuck them!! Don't even let it phase you. If you didn't do that shit, and you know you didn't do that, then why even bother. You know the truth, not them!!







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I am really trying to cut down on the snacks for when school starts. Unfortunately, I work in an icecream shop... for about 5 hours at a time...ugh...any tips on how to stop myself from eating the icecream I crave?

Lucky you!! I wish I worked at an ice cream shop.. But anyways, if I was you, I would just pretend that if you had another ice cream that your body would explode. Try eating before work, bring your own food, or just get a new job!! Hope I've helped and good luck!!







-xXoBrianna

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This may not be the right category, but I couldnt find a better place. I just found out today that one of my friends from school, that I graduated with passed away yesterday. His friends were going through his cell phone, found my number and called me. I had one class with the person, we always flirted with each other and talked about hooking up. I never called him after we graduated because I thought, yeah hes to good for me. Well, he still had my number in his phone and I feel bad for never calling him. I want to go to the viewing to see him one last time and to pay my respects to him. He was a great guy. But, then again, I dont want to go because I want to remember him from how he was before. I dont think I could handle seeing him in a casket. I dont know what to do. Should I go to the viewing or not? The viewing is Friday..so I need answers soon. Thanks!!

Deffinetly!








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