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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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ok i know this is weird but i have a question to the song that goes like this i think, "im that star up in the sky, im the moutain peck up hi. Hey i made it, im the worlds greatest..." does any1 kno the name of the song and who it is by please tell me ill rate u a 5

The song is called: The world's Greated. The artist is R. Kelly. I believe that song was made in 2002. It was my brother's 8th grade graduation song.



Here are the lyrics


I am a mountain.
I am a tall tree.
Oh I am a swif wind sweeping the country.
I am river down in the valley.
Oh I am a vision, I can see clearly.
If any one asks you who I am just stand up tall look them in the face and say..

I’m that star up in the sky
I’m that moutain deep up high.
Hey you made it
I’m the worlds greatest*m
I’m that little bit of hope in my backs against the rope I can feel it, mm
I’m the worlds greatest.

I am a giant.
I am a egale.
Oh I am a lion down in the jungle
I am a marching band
I am the people
I am heavin’ head
I am a hero
If any one asks you who I am just stand up tall look them in the face and say..

I’m that star up in the sky
I’m that moutain deep up high.
Hey you made it
I’m the worlds greatest
I’m that little bit of hope in my backs against the rope I can feel it.
I’m the worlds greatest.

I’m that star up in the sky
I’m that moutain deep up high.
Hey you made it
I’m the worlds greatest
I’m that little bit of hope in my backs against the rope I can feel it.
I’m the worlds greatest.

Ohh
I’m that star up in the sky
I’m that moutain deep up high.
Hey you made it
I’m the worlds greatest
I’m that little bit of hope in my backs against the rope I can feel it.
I’m the worlds greatest.

I’m that star up in the sky
I’m that moutain deep up high.
Hey you made it
I’m the worlds greatest
I’m that little bit of hope in my backs against the rope I can feel it.
I’m the worlds greatest.

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I am going to the beach soon and i need to know the following:

If my last period started on the May 17th and lasted about a week when will i get my next one??

Well you should have been able to figure it out yourself if you know it's on a regular pattern. It's between 28-30 days after your LAST period ENDED. Buy a calendar and you can figure it out without having to ask us. But, you should be getting it between the 20-22 of this month. the 20th would be the 28th day and the 22nd would be the 30th day.

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how do you do those lil heart things?

&hearts ; without the space ♥

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whats with all the questions about 14 year olds smoking and drinking. its illegal no matter HOW they do it whether they get caught or not. am i totally out of my mind or are some people just asking too much of the columnists?

Well, drinking yes, that is illegal because they are underaged. But smoking is not illegal as long as they didn't buy it. Ciggarettes is legal for them to smoke but pot is illegal completely. I think its retarded that there are so many young people wasting their lives away with smoking and drinking. Screw that shit. Why can't you just go out and have good clean fun? I agree with you 100% though.

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what is the best way for love to happen? i've heard that love for sight is just lust. i think love is build on friendship, is this true?

It's not a true or false statement. It's a matter of opinion. Love can be found at the strangest places. My boyfriend was introduced to me over the internet by my best friend (he was friends with my best friends boyfriend). We talked for about a month before I actually met him. We had great conversation, he was sweet and had a great personality. When I met him he asked me out and we've been dating ever since.. It's been over a year now. We are very much in love. But alot of people believe that "love at first sight" is just lust, but that's just an opinion, not a fact. I think that the best kinds of relationships are ones where you've known eachother for a short time, got to know eachother a little and then started dating. See, if you were friends for a very long time and started dating.. What happens when you break up? It gets so weird between the two of you and things are never the same. That's why I never liked dating one of my friends. It's really all an opinion on what people think, you may not agree with what I'm saying or what anyone else might have to say, that's what an opinion is. But love can happen whenever, however between whomever.

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so my sister just got a mini doxen and my aunt is a groomer, is it true when it's fully grown, it will become a mean dog? are they good dogs?

A dog is only mean depending on how it was treated when it was a baby. If it was treated poorly, then yes when it beecomes full grown it can be tempermental. Doxens as far as I know are very good dogs, high strung, but good dogs. My neighboor has a doxen and he is a very good dog. So I really don't think you have anything to worry about.

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i really dont like meat..i mean just the taste of it..does anybody know a list of foods that i could eat that have protein in them! thanks a bunch! i rate!!

Well are you a vegetarian, or a vegan? If you are a vegetarian, then you can eat beans and eggs. If you don't consider fish to be meat, then you could eat that too. They have plenty of protien.

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Hi, I know this might be a stupid question....
My boyfriend and I have fooled around naked, although not had sex. My period is now late, could I be pregnant?

Well, it would be alot easier for us to answer the question if you said specifically HOW you were fooling around naked. If his penis did not go into your vagina, and he did not orgasm (he did not cum) then there is absolutly no way you could magically be pregnant. If you have been worrying about it since it happened, then of course your period is late. You've been freaking out about it and it's messing your cycle up. You need to try to calm down and take a nice hot bath and RELAX. You have nothing to worry about. If his penis DID go into your vagina at any point, then yes, there is a possibility you could be pregnant. Other than that, you have Nothing to worry about.

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i want to know what kind of guitar to get. not too expensive, but not really cheap. and also what kind of amp? i have no idea about anything, but i really want to get a guitar and then take lessons to learn how to play. a friend of mine has an ibanez. im pretty sure thats what it was called...so anyways is that a good kind? anything about guitars would help me out a lot. also..is there other kinds besides bass? im not going to be in a band or anything, maybe one day since my friend is already in one, but so is bass what i want? or what? please just tell me anything i need to know...and what to get. thanx!

If you're first starting out a good one to start with is a Fender. Fender Strats are very good guitars for when you're first starting out. They aren't that expensive, and they are of a pretty good quality. If you look at my column picture, it's of me and my fender guitar. I have a Fender guitar and a Peavey amp. Peavey makes very good amps. The place I take lessons at, all the guitar teachers have Peavey amps. Ibanez is also a very good guitar to start out on, they are a little more expensive than a Fender though. And as for the different types of guitars, there are electric, acoustic, acoustic/electric, bass guitars. Bass guitars come in 4-6 strings or even more. Try going to your local music store and they will tell you everything you need to know about guitars. What is best to start out on, what exact instrument to start on and so on. They may even provide lessons for you. Playing the guitar is alot of fun! It's my life pretty much. Have fun with it and don't get too frustrated with it, you're not going to be an expert right when you pick up a guitar. Good luck and have fuN!

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my friend wants to knwo this answer../not me!!!i aware!!!"Okay,so like lately i ahve been getting this white substance..ya know..like forever!!it never stops!!!i ahfta use panty liners and stuff and it never goes away..it is ya know..haha..smelly?hahaaaa..but i was wondering..what do i do!?"

You do nothing but keep it as clean as possible down there. It is called discharge. Almost all girls get it. It's completely and 100000000% normal you can't stop it EVER it will be there for as long as you are alive. I know it sucks BUT keep it clean and stop worrying about stupid stuff like that! You're not effin dying! I promise!

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I just overdosed. I do it all the time but this time I think I did to much. I keep passing out so I'm making this quick. No one would understands my problems so I can't tell anyone. I feel freezing I have no air conditioner though and I live in FL it's 90 degrees. Something's definatly wrong. What should I do?!

I really think you need to call 911 right about now. What did you OD on? If you really have that many problems why didn't you just tell your guidance counselor? That's what they're there for. You need to call 911 and get yourself to a hospital before you end up dying. Once you do that and are all better, send me something in my inbox If you want someone to talk to about your problems, thats my soul purpose in life. You can tell ME your problems, if no one else is going to listen to you then I will.

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Ok well me and this boy fucked on satday alright its monday and last night i started getting bumps and oucer thingys in my mouth we made out too well i guess you'd no that. But today i was talking to my bestest friend ed and i showed him and it spread all over the inside of my lip well you no right infront of your bottom teeth. He said its herpies. Is it? It was the first time we both had sex and i no hes kissed at least one other girl other then me this week or 2. And if this is herpies how can i get it to go away with out seeing the doctor?


*-*Plz help ill rate 5*-*

If you put your mouth on his penis or on his mouth that he had on another girl with herpes, then yes, you most definately could have herpes. If they are small blister looking things, then I have to say that YES you have herpes. There is no cure for herpes to date. Efforts to develop a herpes vaccine by biotechnology companies are ongoing. That means, no you can't make them go away without seeing a doctor. Herpes actually never go away. You always have herpes, but it depends on when you have outbreaks. Meaning even if there are no more blisters, you still have the disease. When you start seeing more you've had an outbreak. You need to go see a doctor. There is no way for them to go away without seeing a doctor.

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Ok i just had sex a few days ago for the first time. We used a condom i made sure of it!! Ever sence like the next day ive been liking having clear stuff come out of me. Its kinda like the stuff sometimes you get before or after your peroid but its not after my peroid or before. I asked my one friend that already had sex and she said no she didnt have anything like that. What does it mean?

*-*thanks a bunch*-*
~*~If your nice about it and dont make fun of me ill rate you a 5*-*

All that is, is discharge. Almost all girls get it whether they've had sex or not. It doesn't mean you're pregnant. Once you have sex your body starts changing a little bit more. You're still maturing and your hormones are still outta wack, so your body is going to be doing weird things you're not used to. You have nothing to be worried about if you used a condom. Start worrying if you miss your period. But other than that, I'd have to say there is nothing wrong with you.

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Can anyone please tell me where I can find a bamboo plant? Please say a specific store if you do know. Also, if anyone knows, does anyone know if you can like buy them as a seed anywhere? If so, where at? Thank you sooo much! I greatly appreciate it!

You can find a bamboo plant at any store like the Home Depot of Lowes. They should have them in the plants section. Ask an employee there to point you in the right direction. I've seen 'em. They have it =)

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My friend Felicia just invited me over her house in like 30 minutes..the problem is, I don't want to go. I just don't feel like going...What excuse could I possibly use? I can't say my parents are making me go somewhere because they're both at work. I can't say I'm hanging out with friends because all my friends are out of town. Please help!

Tell her that you aren't feeling well and when you asked your parents they said you couldn't go. Or you can tell her you have alot of homework to do (If you're still in school.. I am).

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im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks

There's a few things actually

-Tell her you love her every chance you get
-Kiss her and hug her whenever you can
-Rub her feet/back or both
-If she's had a rough day listen to her problems
-Let her bitch to you about whatever she wants
-Bring her roses and chocolates (if she can even eat chocolate while she's pregnant... Alot of women get sick from it)
-Leave her little post it notes in the bathroom or kitchen in the morning for her to wake up to
-Tell her she's beautiful even if she really does look like shit
-Hold her
-Watch a movie with her
-Take her out to dinner



-Most of those things you can do WHEN YOU HAVE THE TIME I understand that you're away alot but every time you're free- try to do that for her. She will be very appreciative.

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Is there any way you can change your screen name for the "ask ......." thing? i dont like my name anymore but i dont want to delete all of my questions & answers. please help...i rate ^!!!

No, you cannot rename your column. The only way to get a new one is to start completely from scratch. I wish there was a way because I don't like mine either. Sorry to bust your bubble, but it can't happen.

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hey. how do you get one of the star ratings by your name thing whenever you look through the columnists thing? do you have to have a certain number of ratings or something? thx

Yes, you need a certain number of ratings. You need to have been rated at least 5 times in the last 30 days. Then the stars will show up for you. The answer to this question and many more is listed in the Help and FAQ

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also, how do you center your text in your column like m3lizas??? i rate ^!!

In your profile you type < center > just take out the spaces and it should work.

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hey there!
is the age for a girl to be in playboy 18 or 21? i am unsure because i have heard both. thankyou!

18. You are legally an adult at 18. You can do anything at 18 except drink of course.

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