HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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First of thanks to anyone who tries to help me. Your not waisting your time as I will rate and give feed back for all advice. Here goes. My husband lives in California, I live in North carolina, he flew down here to marry me and I'm going to live with him in a couple weeks (we lived together before but had to return to nc for custody issues with my daughter from a previous marriage) I am having serious trust issues with him and I don't know why. Every little thing he does, I find something wrong with it and want to start an argument and call it quits. I dont know why I do this, as I love him with all my heart. A couple months ago we broke up and I miscarried, he didnt call me the whole time and i think I have alot of anger torwards him for that. Is there any way to get over this? Please help me. I do want to make this marriage work. p.s. I'm 24, he's 26. (link)
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well honestly the reason he probably didnt call u at that time coulda been cuz he was sick of you lookin for a reason to fight....no guy can stand a girl thats always lookin for problems....just relax and realize that if you want this to go on and for there to be love between you guys you need to let go of little things he does that annoy you a lil..if its big then you go confront him and try when you confront him about things that piss you off to go in yelling with an attitude.....try to look all cute and sad and make him get why you dont like what hes doin....
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lol..i didnt know wat category to put this under but here it goes... im 14/f & i am emo. people think that emo people are freaks. but we are not! we think of life in a different way. my problem is that people are making fun of me. thay call me a loser & stuff like that. i really dont care what people say but there is this girl that keeps on bugging me. she keeps on telling me that she is gonna jump me & stuff. i already told her that i didnt want to start a fight with her. but she wont listen. she is still bugging me.& its getting too far because she has been threatening me. how can i make her stop? thanks 4 your help. =] (link)
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well if you started off by telling her that you dont wanna fight her and she still dont listen the violence IS the answer in this case....i used to have this girl in my class thatd bug the shit outta me and id diss her out badly shed go home crying and she wouldnt stop till one day....I JUMPED HER AND BEAT HER UP....muahahaha...till now shes too scared to talk to me or even look me in the face you need to look like your not scared of her or shell keep threatining you if a girl like dat threatened to jump me i would say...I DARE YOU then BOOM CATFIGHT
shell respect you like hell after that
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ok im over weight and my family and friends are always like "loose weight" and ive tried the no junk food and exercize and thewhatching calories and non of this seems to work what should i do? (link)
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you know something...in order to loose weight you have to eat everything you want but in small portions ....like for example your lunch is a huge pizza...eat half of it..eat half of your regular serving and drink lots of water be4 your meals and you can even have a lil chocolate but if you prevent yourself completly from junkfood or carbs your gonna wake up one day after youve lost a couple of pounds and run to the fridge and eat everything you can get your hands on...and dont expect to go on a diet for 2 weeks or so and expect to have a beyonce body...it takes time....hang up your favorite pair of jeans on the door that no longer fit you and go "you know what i might as well give it off to charity if i dont loose weight" good luck
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ok, i have an online friend who i've been friends with for 6 years now and i sort of have a crush on him and i think he does too...he's just an amazing guys but lately he's been moody with me and just an ass sometimes...sometimes he'll be so sweet and tell me sweet things like he likes me and that he wants to be my boyfriend and then the next time we chat, he's such an ass and denies everything he said the last time we talked!
what is that about???? can someone explain?? is he just playin with me? should i just stop talking to the guy?
I guess i should point out that he's never had a g/f, would that have anything to do with it?
ok thanks in advance for any advice given :)
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no SHIT hes playin with you...what do you think? he tells you he likes you because he KNOWS you like him cuz you probably made it obvious!so he tells you he likes you so you can be all happy and he gets your hopes high then he brings you down!THIS is why hes never had a girlfriend! cuz hes arrogant and thinks he can play around with yall.give him a taste of his own medicine by saying something like sorry did i say i liked YOU??LOL!!!i musta been high
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I'm in love with my best friend. But unfortunatly he is going out with some girl I really don't like. She's the type that will hurt him really bad inside and will leave him for someone else. That is her process. How do I break them up without him knowing I did it on purpose?
Oh and he (best friend) knows im madly in love with him.
f/13 (link)
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he knows you love him? what is his reaction?if he likes you too then try being EXTRA nice to him and whenever his girl pisses him off ALWAYS be there to comfort him and hear out his problems and all.WATCH IT WORK...but itll take time..try to look better than her all the time
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i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere (link)
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ok try flirting around with him more and try to always look your best...guys like girls that act all curious and cute...ask him to play open book (its a game where you ask him questions and he has to answer honestly) but let him ask first so he dont get suspicious....then ask him if he likes anyone or if he likes you
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my boyfriends kind of skinny.
actually hes realllly skinny.
Alot skinnier then me.
and to be honest it kind of bothers me..
i feel so much bigger than him and i dont know how to get over it cause i really like him.
but like i feel like im going to crush him and i just feel like we dont look right together cause usually i go for more muscular looking guys
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tell him what kind of guys you like(the way they look) cmon guys are always tellin girls to go get boob jobs or loose weight why shouldnt YOU tell him how you want him to look but say it nicely dont be mean
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k so i'm 14 and i fell for a 16 yr old. He said he liked me and i told him how i felt. We decided that we'd wait a month before we decided anyhting b/c we had met really recently.
Now he says that he doesn't think he'll be ready to date anyone for a while, but he still only likes me. But i dont want to wait. Should i just give up and move on or wait for him? (link)
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give him up woman!!since he cant make a simple decision of weather he wants to be with you or not then hes just a kid not worth your time....go out and find someone eles you have a lot of years ahead of you and youll meet A LOT of guys trust me
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it's summer and i need some extra cash for necessities. what are some jobs i could do? and if anybody suggests soemthing like cleaning/dog walking ora ntyhing HOW DO I ASK people if they want ym services? and how? like how do i say i want 4.00 an hour (or how ever many) w/out sounding demanding? what would you want to hear? and what would uw ant done around the house? or outside? whatver. what would u want to heaR? ANY ADVICE ABOUT GETTING MONEY WOULD BE GREAT (link)
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work in a flower shop
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i have been working out for a few days straight.lately, my stomach has started to hurt.could this be due to working out? (link)
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definetly..im positive...its because your stomache muscles are pulling together and tightning just dont stop workin out or eles youre gonna gain what youre about to loose
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What products work best to clear up acne. I know proactiv but what else? (link)
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nuetrogena....duh!
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Okay, so, they guy i like, has a girlfriend, but he told me that he liked me and to wait for him. Should i continue to wait for him? (link)
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helllllllllllz no. cmon hes just using you!hes tellin you to wait so if one day he breaks up with her he has another toy to play with...go out and find someone thats worth it...your not his doormat.
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Hey Hey!
I am having a bat mitzvah and me and my 3 best friends are going into the city with my mom for a weekend, just us to celebrate before my big party. Any Suggestions on what to do, where to go, what to see?
I'll rate high!
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god i LOVE new york....ok go to kingz plaza mall and 6 flags great adventure which is like the BEST THEME PARK EVER and go to hersheys park
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i no this is weird to ask but
i get perinoid at times and like i freak out
and im scared one of these days someone is gonna come into my house and i no its bad to say but i dont want it to happen. even tho all the doors are lock and everything thing but if someone came in would my dog be sure to hear the person??
sorry i no im weird like that
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dude you need to chill out and stop watching too much horror movies...that can be the reason that your paranoid honestly ....how is anyone gonna get in with the doors locked...what you need is a lil personal "you" time ....sit down and think about it and youll get out of it....just dont panic or freak out because that ALWAYS makes things worse
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okay, there's this gorgeous boy I know. He's completely flawless, and I have a big thing for him. One of my friends tells me that he actually likes me. Naturally, I was thirlled, but there's on problem: HE WON'T GO OUT WITH ME!! There's a lot going on with him, I guess. I mean we still flirt, hang out, etc., but does this mean I should lay off him in terms of flirting? the things have nothing to do with me [more-so family], but does that mean I should leave him be for now? thanks (link)
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you asked him out and he said no and he still flirts with you means one thing....hes playing with you hes gorgeous right?usually gorgeous guys are arrogant and like girls to follow the around everywhere so he can go brag to his freinds..look...dont start by flirting with him let him start and when he does flirt then tell him you gotta go somewhere then leave then when he asks you out tell him...um sorry not today and u pick a day...play hard to get...guys take advantage of girls that are easy to get....what comes easy goes easy...hope you got it
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14|Female...For about two years ever since I found out my dad cheated on my mom...my life has been completely different, i use to feel really confident about my body but now i dont, i feel over weight and ugly (even though im 89lbs)I also have really bad trust issues now..I dont want to be like this anymore I want the old me back, My mom says the best way is for me to talk to someone about it but I cant talk to her because I know that it will upset her about the dad thing and I cant talk to my older sister because she will think im just going through some teenage stage...my mom suggested I see a therapist but i dont know if I want to or not because it just seems weird telling a stranger my feelings...and also I know they cost alot of money so I dont want to just waste money if I am going through a teenage stage but I dont think it is just a teenage stage...Im just really scared I am going to do something crazy if I dont tell people how I feel. So my question is...should I see a therapist or not? (link)
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hey imma ask you something....by any chance does your mom feel not confident because they way she feels about herself can reflect about the way you feel about yourself.you shouldnt let that influence you, seriously, and i think you should definetly open up to someone becausec if you dont then you will do something crazy.....god i know people that were gonna commit suicide cuz they dont open up to anyone....and going to a theripest is not a waste of time or money....this is your health were talkin about!!!for once just be a lil bit selfish by thinkin bout yourself and go top the theripist so what if he dont know you.and abvout your dad whats happened has happened get over it theres nothing you can do to change it!if the problems the money for the therapist then open up to yo mom shes your mom she loves you and will listen to ya nomater what dificulties shes faced wit your dad.....good luck
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