Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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does anyone know how to put a you tube video onto your myspace??? thanks! (link)
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Alright, whenever you go to the video, you know how under the person's username, they usually have words typed? Well, even if they don't it doesn't matter, but it helps. Anyways.
Just look right under and there should be two little boxes one that says URL, and the other EMBED you just copy the EMBED code, and paste it wherever you want onto your myspace.
It should work, just message me back if it doesn't, and I'll try and help some more. But like I said, it should.
I hope I helped.
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alright heres the background info..
theres this really hott guy at my school, Joe, and me and him are really good friends. well my friend jess went out with him last year and they broke up over the summer.
now the girl is completely obsesing over him! she never stops talking about him and shes always like OMG HES SO HOTT! its so f***ing annoying! i wanna slap her so bad! he doesnt like her anymore (i asked him) and she wont accept the fact that hes over her. she says she wants to get over him but she cant.
how can i help her try to get over him? shes really getting so annoying. i dont know how much more i can take! i mean i know the guy is drop-dead sexy but she doesnt need to say it every 5 seconds! please help me!! (link)
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I know it's annoying, but you just got to think from her point of view. She probably still can't believe that her and this really cool guy broke up, and she misses him. It's going to take some time to get over. That's good though that she wants to, and it IS really hard sometimes to get over a guy. You just need to sort of lead her away from him. She needs to stop talking about him, first of all. Reminding herself of him isn't going to help. So if she begins to talk about him, change the subject or remind her to zip it about him. Help her focus on other things. Hang out with her more, go shopping, pick up a new hobby, join a club, try even getting her to flirt and talk to some other guys, hopefully getting her mind of Joe. Learn how to bake, anything you guys can think of doing. It may be a little hard for her at first to try and not talk about him and everything, but slowly over time she'll start to think of him less and less until eventually, he's no more in her mind. Oh, and if she talks to him too, she has to talk to him less because if she keeps talking to him alot, he'll keep "charming" her and making her laugh and making her realize how awseome he is, etc. I hope I helped.
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I've given out advices a lot and here and there I've gotten 1's with very rude comments. I've treid my best to answer each question but someone goes "YOU RETARD" or osmething along that line. I'm getting very fed up since 1)They don't give enough details and when we try and answer the question, they go "That didn't asnwer my question *adds extra info*" gives a 1. 2)They don't understand that not all the advice will go out smoothly. No one is going to hold their hands every step of the way and they need to tweak it a little to get it adjusted. Then ther goes the 1 again. This is getting really annoying and I think the moderators who check the questions should reject ones that have barely and information on it and something about it (link)
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I've had this happen before. Some of them can just unappreciative, rude people. What I do is I either file a abuse report, which is somewhere near where they rated you. It should say "think this rating is unfair? file a ABUSE REPORT" or something similar to that.
Also, if there's a question that doesn't have alot of information, then skip it and hopefully someone else'll take a crack at it and can get the low rating. Or, if they sent it to you in your inbox, just write to them normally where you'd answer the question "i don't have enough information, can you tell me more?" or something like that to let them know you're not exactly sure how to answer it yet, but you'd still like to help.
Like younggrandma said, you need to re-read your qiestions sometimes and see how the tone of the answer might come off to you. You may think whenever you're typing it, you're typing it in a nice way, but if the other girl is reading it, she could take it as an insult or you being rude, which may lead to some 1's. So, I always double-check and try not to sound too harsh whenever I type mine out.
I hope I helped.
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When I was in college (which is now 20 years ago), I did a few things (usually while I was drunk) that were very embarrasing (nothing illegal). The other day while exchanging e-mails, my good friend referred to one of my more embarrasing acts in his email. Although, I think he meant it in "good fun" or as a "joke", I was offended that he brought up this long-ago act. Should I say something or just forget about it? (link)
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For now, I would just forget about it. I know you were offended, but he probably did just mean it in a joking way and was just talking about the funny good times. But, if he continues to mention all these times that offend you, mention it to him then and ask him if he'd please stop talking about them because you don't like to be reminded or that you're offended by it. I hope I helped.
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I got into really big trouble at work last Thursday, because I've had a lot of time off ill (ongoing health problem, not skiving), people on the team have apparently reported to our Manager they think I'm not pulling my weight or working at 100% and someone (No idea who) reported they saw me out mucking around when I was signed off ill. Just to clear it up, the last one is rubbish. I'm not that sort of person at all.
In the last week, I've covered one team member's late shift, cleared my colleague's work diary for the week by doing the work, handled my own work at the same time as all the incoming calls for the work I and a colleague deal with. I didn't take my lunch break today so I could get the work done and have subsequently clocked up 4 hours of overtime.
The problem is, I need to find a way to make my Manager realise how hard I'm trying so he knows I'm working on being better at work. But if I mention the 4 extra hours, I can't think of a way that won't make it sound like I'm trying to claim overtime. After what happened last Thursday, I don't have the audasity to try to claim overtime!!
So how can I left my Manager know how hard I'm working? They don't record people's working hours or their productivity at all. (link)
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Well, I am not sure where you work, but most places of business have security cameras around where the employees stand behind the counter, etc. So possibly have your boss look at the footage and hopefully you'll be on there and of course the time'll be at the bottom of the camera so he can notice how late you worked.
And your boss should at least have some trust in his/her employees, I mean, if you say you put in 4 hours of extra work, then he should a least believe you a little.
Did any friends or anybody else you're friends with at work see you? Cause you can have them tell your boss too as a "witness" of you working or whatever you want to call them.
I hope I helped.
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hey iam a 17 female and i'll be like 18 in a few days and I know iam pregnant becouse I took 2 pregnancy tests I took 2 to make sure the first one was right and both of them came out positive so I told my mom right away and she took me to the doctor so I could get an ultra sound down and it came out positive so I know iam pregnant right now my mom and my boyfriend are both being really supportive about my decision to keep the baby,but how do I make sure the baby comes healthy like what should I be doing? (link)
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Talk to your doctor about it, and he'll let you know mostly what a pregnant woman should and shouldn't eat [ cause I don't have much experience in this field ]. But from what I do know, it's best to stay away from alcohol, drugs, smoking, secondhand smoking, anything bad that can harm the baby because that's how disabilities can come about after birth. And never eat for two, that'd be too much weight to gain, especially with a child sitting there in your oven. Just eat for yourself, and it'll be good for him too. I wouldn't say stay away from ALL foods, but make sure to but healthy foods and fruits and vegtables in your meals and drink some milk.
If I didn't help enough, hopefully this site can:
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/pregnantdiet.htm
I hope I helped.
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when a guy says that he thinks im cute but doesnt really think he could see us as boyfriend and girlfriend mean i have no chance with him? or should i become better friends with him, hoping that we could have a chance.. or does it seem he wants nothing to do with me? (link)
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Whenever guys say you're cute, it can be taken as "you have a cute personality" "you're cute like, as a little sister cute" or "you're cute like, attractive cute". It is hard to tell, but if he's saying he can't picture you two being together more then friends, then that's all it'll probably ever be. I'm not saying you don't HAVE a chance, because things can change, but that's probably all that's going to happen between you two is friendship. There's nothing wrong with YOU, obviously not, since he says you're cute, it's just some people can't picture themselves with others taking their relationship to a higher level. Like, if he DOES think of you as a best friend or sort of a little sister, imagine yourself dating your brother or a relative or something. Wouldn't that feel really awkward, haha? I hope I helped.
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me and my one of my friends were friends since kindergartin...and noweveryday she follows me around doing the same exact things i do.All my other friends say you should tell her to act like her self and not be me.I really need help.what should i say?
softballbebe1 (link)
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You should try and talk to her. Instead of her friends telling her, the friend that she's copying needs to let her know. Just tell her how everyone kind of has noticed that she follows you around and everything, and you're not like, raging mad, but it can get a little annoying at times. And let her know you're not trying to be harsh or anything, you just feel she needs to know. Some girls just admire one of their friends so much they don't realize how much they might be copying the other. So, also think of it as sort of a flattery too.
But another way to do it in a more nicer way is whenever you guys go shopping or another, lead her to her own individualism. Point out clothes you think would look cute on HER, or colors that look good with HER or hairstyles, makeup, etc. And then hopefully sooner or later, she'll develop her own sense of style and they way she does things, and she won't be all over what you do.
I hope I helped.
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My boyfriend just told be that he doesn't want to kiss at school.
I don't see why he doesn't want to kiss at school. Maybe if it was making out, because I wouldn't makeout in school either. But just a peck?!
I know he has alot of friends, and maybe it would be a little embarassing to kiss infront of his friends, expectally guys. So I understand from his point of view.
But My heart felt like it was bleeding wide open today. I felt like I needed to be with him, I wanted to kiss him. & now I can't.
I don't get to see him constantly out of school either. =/ And plus I'm almost constantly supervised, expect when I'm in school.
I don't know what I'm going to do.. help? =/
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Yeah, I can understand both the point of views you and your boyfriend have. You guys just need to learn to comprimise. You won't give him a kiss infront of his friends, but maybe you and him can find a little "sneakaway" place like the kids in school do. Like, sometimes the couples'll be walking up the stairs, and if nobody else is walking there, they'll do a quick peck and continue on. Just let him know how you feel and how you want to be able to give him a little kiss at school since you two hardly get to see eachother. I hope I helped.
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well i made a contest site and im making pictures. like default ones, those kind. and i found a nice picture i want to use and im doing this all on paint. i saved the picturen, opened it on paint, and now i want to have the name of the contest across the picture. the probably is everytime i do it white is in the backround of what i just typed. how do i do that with the picture in the backround and not white? (link)
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Alright, whenever you go to paint, get the picture on there and everything, and then click on the text icon. Now, you see the two boxes under all the styles and paintbrush icons that have the little shapes in them? Well, the top one gives the text that white background, but if you click the square BELOW it, then it should be able to get rid of the white background and be fine. If you didn't understand this [ I hope I made sense lol ] then just IM me or message me again and I'll try and re-explain it. I hope I helped.
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i dumped a guy and i want him back he styll has feelings for me but doesent want me back!! so what should i do knowing that i love him and knowing i ain't with him makes me cry..
HELP
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Just try talking to him about it. I'm sure since he still has feelings for you, he'll listen to what you have to say. Just explain to him that you're not really sure why you dumped him, you were confused and whatnot, but once you did it you realized just how much you miss him and like him. Like they say,"You don't know what you've got till it's gone." And just tell him you know he doesn't want you back, but does he think there's still a chance? Because maybe over time if you two get to hang out again and talk and feelings are still there, maybe you guys can get back together, because you'd really like that. And hopefully he'll want to!
But, there's always the possibility of the "no".
If that were to happen, then the best advice I can give you there is to try your very best to just get over him. Focus on other things, activities, friends, your life and try to enjoy yourself. If you're still all sad, once you start pretending to have a little fun, after awhile you WILL start having fun. Try taking up a new hobby, listen to your favorite music, just do whatever you like! It might take awhile, but soon you'll get over him.
But hopefully you won't have to, and I hope I helped.
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well we just got into high school this year and there is a new girl in our grade. shes basically aqauntances with the whole grade (she's not like a loser, pretty jappy but nice) i talk to her sometimes when shes in my class.
anyway at lunch she was sitting by herself and then i asked her to sit with my friends. when she left my friends told me not to hang out with her cause they think/know she is a bitch.
but i don't want to be mean and stop talking to her.
what do i do ?! (link)
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I know you're friends are concerned for you like a good friend would, but your friend really can't tell you who or who not to hang out with. If you have a good instincts about this girl, then you should follow them. If she wasn't a bitch to you at lunch, then I'm sure she's not going to be a bitch later.
Just talk to your friends about it and let them know you appreciate the concern, but you think she's a pretty cool person and she needs somewhere to sit at lunch ; she can't sit alone. And I'm sure if they gave her another chance they'd see she's a really cool person, but if they still don't like her, then she can just sit next to you at the end and they don't HAVE to talk to her ; every now and then you can just turn and talk to her and balance the conversations between people. And if some of your friends stop talking to you or get mad, then they're not real good friends.
I hope I helped.
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when people said w4w i know what that means. but how do you actually whore someone ? (link)
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The person you want to whore will send you a code [unless you want to make the code for them ] they made with their link and picture in it so then all you do is just copy and paste it into a bulliten, and if people want to, they click on it and add them. And then you do the same back. If you go to Google or wherever and type in "myspace+whore codes" or something similiar to that, they should give you a couple of sites where you can make them. I hope I helped.
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My boyfriend has a VERY overprotective ex-girlfriend and I really want to help him deal with it. I'm not the jealous type so I'm not really worried about her but she's really giving him a hard time and acts like she owns him. She has told a few people that they are still going out which is absolutely untrue and she also constantly asks me if I've seen him lately. She sounds really worried if I say I have and I just really want to help him cos it's ruining his life! He just wants to be left alone by her, Please reply soon. We don't know what to do about her! (link)
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Your boyfriend needs to talk to her. He needs to explain to her how he's been hearing she keeps telling people that they're dating which isn't true ; they broke up and still are broken up. And he should let her know that if she at least wants a friendship with him to still be able to talk to him and everything, then asking everybody about him and making false statements is not the way to go about it. He needs to let her know that he's not going to take it, and if she's going to be this way, he's not going to talk to her or want anything to do with her and that she needs to back off. Knowing that, hopefully she'll back off of you two a bit.
You might want to talk to her to. Let her know that they're not dating, you and him ARE. And let her know that spreading things is not going to make him like her anymore, and that he just wants some time to himself and for her to back off a little bit. And let her know you're not trying to sound harsh, but she just needs to know.
If nothing else works and gets through to this girl, the best thing to do is just ignore her as best as you can. Whenever she asks about him, change the subject or just don't answer. Whenever she spreads rumors saying their dating spread around that you two are dating, they're not and it's all lies and make sure that everyone finds out cause if she ever tells it again, obviously they'll know it's not true.
I'm sorry if I wasn't too much help, I've never really had this problem before, but I do hope I helped some! Good luck getting her off your back, haha.
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Ok, so I've seen some profiles on myspace, and in their "music" section they have pictures of their favorite bands.. how can I do that? Is there some code, or a layout I can find? Thanks in advance! (link)
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Go to google or yahoo or whatever you prefer, and find a picture of a band you like. Then right click, and copy the link or copy the picture's like from the navigation bar, however your internet does it. Then, just go to your music section on your myspace and do " and it should work. I hope I helped.
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Theres this guy named phil i have been dating all summer. he lives like 1 hour away. i love him, i really do. we go together perfectly. he treats me like an angel and hes everything i have wanted in a guy... well almost everything. hes kinda sarcastic and acts like hes right a lot of the time and hangs out with the wrong ppl and is kinda sexual. but then i went back to school and theres this guy named andrew thats in drama club and chorus with me and hes wickedd cutee and funny and talks to me most of the time and knows how to make me happy. he lives closer and he makes my days better just by smiling. i love phil to death but the distance and i cant deal with not seeing him cause it makes me wonder whats hes doing.. and im afraid me and phil are gonna fall apart. any suggestions? (link)
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Well, first of all, I'm not trying to be mean here or anything, but if you really truely loved Phil then you wouldn't want to date anybody else but him or like anybody else. I mean, I'm not saying you DON'T love him, but I'm not so sure if you 100% love him if you're liking other guys. Even though you do love him, if you're having feelings for another guy, you need to break up with Phil, it's not fair to him.
And Andrew sounds like a lot better guy to be dating. I mean, I obviously don't know these guys, but from the way you described Phil him always wanting to be right and being sexual is not healthy in a relationship if he's always telling you you're wrong, and later he might be trying to get you to do things with him you don't want to do.
So go for Andrew, and just explain to Phil that the long-distance is too much and you just wonder what he does whenever you're not there and it's just not working out, and you're sorry.
I hope I helped.
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Okay I was just wondering are the Gossip Girl series real or fictious?
They include all these fan emails and sightings and things about the characters , and that seem like they could only be real. Does the author just make those up as she writes the story? (link)
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The books are found under the fiction section in stores, so they're fiction. I hope I helped.
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my best friend just asked me out today and i said yes and usually we talk ALOT on aim but im scared that there will just be an awkward silence tomorrow wen i see him at school because he is in 2 of my classes. i REALLY suck at making conversation so do you have any tips or things we could talk about?
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well, since he's your best friend and you're most comfortable around him i assume, then just talk to him about whatever you guys usually talk about. just maybe add a little flirting in-between here and there so he doesn't start to think you just like him as a friend or anything. i hope i helped.
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I am a STRONG supporter of the homosexuals and transvestites. My best friend is homosexual indeed and he will always remain my best friend.. I'm 14/f by the way. Anyways. I know that about 80% of the people in our school are homophobic and about 50% of them will harm my homosexual friends mentally and sometimes physically. I myself am bisexual but I haven't come out of the closet yet. Not even to my best friend. The thing is that I've lost several friends now since I declared my homosexual friend my best friend. I don't mind because I know that they are too shallow to match up to me. But the problem is that people are starting to tease me and such at school. For instance they ask "Do you uygs do it, you suck him, he's your slave whore, ew, you're friends with a gay guy" etc. It's been going on a lot lately now that I've entered high school. The other day, when I got off the bus, some guys decided to hassal me and one rammed into my chest with his shoulder. I believe that his actions were the result of me being friends with mybest friend (They were teasing him and me on the bus on the way home before I got off). Now I don't know what to do because I know that this situation is bound to escalate to worse situations. I don't and will NEVER drop my homosexual friends. EVER. But the thing is that I'm always hassaled by homophobic people at school and I just don't know what to do about them. (link)
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Well first of all, I'm really glad you're sticking by your friends no matter what and won't drop them. People are so immature. You'd think by Highschool people would've grown up already. The most advice I can give you is to just ignore them. Like you said, you wouldn't drop your friends, and they're all you need. Who cares what those immature idiots have to say? Their opinion really doesn't mean anything, if they have problems with other humans just because they're homosexual. Anyways, hopefully if you ignore them enough, they'll slowly stop once they realize you don't care, but if they start becoming pyshical with you and your best friend, I would go to the principal and report them before they can do anything to you guys. So whenever they start to tease you, just walk away from the situation and don't bother with a repsonse. That's all they want out of you, is a reponse and for you to get all upset. I hope I helped.
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ok so there is this girl i really like and i want to tell her how i feel, but i'm already in a relationship, but i'm not happy with it soo here are my questions:
1: should i tell her how i feel and see if she likes me back?
2; stay with my current girlfriend? (link)
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First of all, no matter wether or not the other girl likes you back or not, you should break up with your girlfriend. I mean, if you're not happy with the relationship, there's no point in staying with her and lying to her and letting it linger on. That'd only hurt her more in the end. So break up with her [ as nice as possible ] and then wait a few days, so let her cool off and everything. Then, ask the other girl if she likes you or not [ because if your girlfriend hears you're already going out with someone else, it'll make her feel horrible and that it's all her fault and everything ]. But yeah, take a shot and tell her how you feel. What's the worse that can happen? I hope I helped.
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