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should i tell her?
ok so there is this girl i really like and i want to tell her how i feel, but i'm already in a relationship, but i'm not happy with it soo here are my questions:
1: should i tell her how i feel and see if she likes me back?
2; stay with my current girlfriend?
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well either way you shouldnt stay with your current girlfriend because you dont want to be with her. if you want to do the right thing then break up with your current girlfriend wait a little while so she doesnt think the only reason you broke up with her is for the other girl then ask the other girl on a date
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if your not happy dump her and tell your feelings girls like guys who tell feeling but dont be to dramic
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Don't be a weenie! Either stay with your girlfriend or don't, but not with the idea of her being 2nd choice! That is just lame! Make up your mind and remember what you could be losing, before trying to have it both ways.
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dont feed the fire by talking to this girl UNTIL youve called it quits with your present girl. that would cause way too much unneeded drama.
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If you're unhappy with your current girlfriend, I suggest breaking up with her. You aren't only hurting her, but you're hurting yourself aswell. If you stay in the relationship but you don't like her, you aren't getting anywhere. I would just call it off, if I were you. Explain to her that she is a great person, but you don't have those kinds of feelings for her anymore and you think it would be best, to just be friends.
Now, since you like this other girl, I suggest talking to her about it. Explain your true feelings for her, than take it from there. One step at a time. But, don't give up on her. If you REALLY feel like there is something really special about this girl, don't give up until you have her. You never know, she could be the one. So never give up, especially if you have strong feelings for her. ♥
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I'm guessing you're young.
And you need the experience with other partners to find what you like right?
Go with number 1. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel, and if she likes you back.
Explain to your girlfriend how you feel about finding someone new.
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First of all, no matter wether or not the other girl likes you back or not, you should break up with your girlfriend. I mean, if you're not happy with the relationship, there's no point in staying with her and lying to her and letting it linger on. That'd only hurt her more in the end. So break up with her [ as nice as possible ] and then wait a few days, so let her cool off and everything. Then, ask the other girl if she likes you or not [ because if your girlfriend hears you're already going out with someone else, it'll make her feel horrible and that it's all her fault and everything ]. But yeah, take a shot and tell her how you feel. What's the worse that can happen? I hope I helped.
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No one should ever leave someone for someone else. It is selfish and makes the other person feel insignificant and inferior to the other girl/guy. Give her a chance. A relationship is a commitment. I believe that you should only break up with someone if the person cheats on you, hurts you, uses you, or if interest drops between the both of you.
So stick with number 2.
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Alright first off let me tell you something.
Never have two girlfriends at once is the first because you will get yourself beaten up because of it if they find out. But on a seriose note...
If you're thinking about another girl, you really can't like that girl too much (the one you are hanging with now) so I would dump her anyway.
If you are not going to dump her first then the girl you like probably already knows your dating and think you of a player which isn't so good for a first impression.
So if you take my advice you are going to break up with her eigther way. That answers the second question.
You should tell her how you feel. I find it less painfull over the internet but some people find more security over the phone or confronting. Which ever works for you. Think of it this way. What is the worst that can happen? The worst that can happen is that she says "no". Following me? Listen I really do hope this works out for you.
Best of luck,
Ryan
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First break up with your girlfriend if you're really unhappy like you've said.
Then tell the other girl how you feel and see how it goes.
Maybe BEFORE breaking up with your current girlfriend, send the other girl signals and see if she sends them back..
hope it hlpes!
Laura =]
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If you are really unhappy in your current relationship break up with her first. Then approach
the girl you really like.
If you approach her now while still in another relationship it won't make you look really good. Plus she may not take you seriously. :)
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