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Hey well theres this boy Ryan, hes kind of popular and stuff and im not really popular but im friends with some of the people so im kidna of "cool" stupid but whatever.. so some of the popular jocks just are dicks and dont like me, im sure everyone knows what i mean. well Ryans in my spanish class so i left him a comment on his picture on myspace, and he IMed me on aim and said hey thanks for the comment and i said yup no problem. later on he IMed me and didnt say anything he just said I LOVE YOU and i was like who doesntt ( thinkin it was his assholefriend) and he was like yep haha and i was liek this isnt ryan! and he said yeah it is then put an away message on a couple minutes later. he smiled at me during class the next day and i talked to him online that night and we talked then he ahd to go and said bye see you tmra and then he sed "luv yah" so i was like what the hell?.. i talked to him today and i said maybe we can hangout sometime and he saidd


ryans sn: yeah sure i dont care
ryans sn: just calll me
ryans sn: *** *** **** ( his number)

and i said i dont wanna make you if you dont wanna ! and i gave him my number and he was like ok cool are you goin to the football game tomorrow?
then i had to go and i said byee ttyl and he said bye luv ya.. so what do u think? what should i do because i can be shy expecially when i might think they might be mean or a dick cuz theyre like popular.. if hes at the game tmra what should i do? help pleasee thanks

aww well if he sees you at the footballgame, he might just come up and say hello to you!
but i mean if he just ignores you and doesnt awknwolage you.. that means hes kinda jerk.
i guess..
also sweetie, do i know you?

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Okay, here's my problem. My one friend is just a very clingy person. She tends to become best friends with people, and then they stop. This happened before with her one friend. They were best friends, and then they spent too much time together, then they started fighting alot and, stopped. Now it's me. Well the problem is.. she keeps trying to become friends ( who don't like her too much =/ ) with my friends and whenever i try doing things with them, she always finds out and wants to join us. So I can't ever do anything iwthout her there. And I just spent ALL summer ( literally.. like, everyday cause I can't tell her no =/ ) at her house. So I already saw enough of her during hte summer, and this year I want to spend alot of time with friends and stuff and she makes it really hard. Like today, I made plans with my 2 friends ( one is starting to become friends with her ) to go to the mall... and then later that day, my one friend ( whose kinda friends with her and doesn't know about my frustrations with the clingy friend ) walks up to me and is like," Hey, is it okay if ___ comes with us?" and i kinda just didn't say anything. ( in my head I was goin' NUTS ) I mean I don't know what to do. I want this girl to be my friend, but I want to hang out with my other friends, without her. HELP!




Love,
Me

p.s. Sorry if all the "friends" were confusing.. I didn't know what kinda fake names to give em'. lol

ohh myy..
well I really think you should try to talk to her..
either way you tell her to stop inviting herself.. its going to hurt her,
but she needs to learn.

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My best friend who isn't a virgin, and I am 18 and am still a virgin, by choice I feel that I should wait until I am truly in love. Well any ways we got in to a fight to day and she said some ignorant thing, saying that I am a virgin because I can't get none. Which is so not true. I don't know if I should still be friends with her or not. And then we get in to fights because she is with her boy friend all the time, and we never spend any time together except for school. what should I do

To be honest..
I understand what you mean..
because your bestfriend shouldnt say stuff like that too you..
but weigh out what you feel..
make a list of her good qualities..
and her bad.. and which overcomes which should help you?

but if she treats you like that,
i wouldnt think its worth it.

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okay so there's this guy, and i'm kinda in love with him. but we broke up like before the summer even started. and everywhere i see him, he's with a different girl. he's like a man-whore or sumthin lol. but i'm still soo in love with him. and i've told his best friend that and stuff. i need him so bad right now but he's so outta my league now. what can i do??

Sweetheart, think.
are you in LOVE or LUST?
because.. alot of girls claim to be in love with a guy.
Especially if hes like your first boyfriend, your always going to have feelings for him, because he was your first.
If you see him all the time with OTHER girls, why waste your feelings for him?
I really think you dont need him, your probably lonley, so you feel like you really want him.
You know?
but it will all work out sooner or later,,
maybe another guy will come aloongg?

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ok me and my friends never really go any where what are somethings we can do and how do i tell them to go places

Well if your friends and you dont really go any where.. you canfix that.. plan dates to go out somewhere..
& the "how do i tell them to go places?"
you dont tell them to do anything, thats very verrrry rude.
The polite thign to do is ask them if they want to hang out, and if they do .. then you can discuss a place to go .. like;
out for cofffe
minigolfing
the mall..
movies!
or any other fun place wherever you live.

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I have a question. I have a TI-30X IIS calculator, and im wondering what kind of games i can put on it, and where from. please answer soon!
*soccer_crazii**
xoxoxxoxxoxoxoxo

I woudlnt put games on your calculator..
because some of the information your teacher will tell you to put in it, will screw them up.
So yeah..
& anyways games take up alot of space haha..

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okay so my boyfriend goes to a different school than i do and hes a grade older than me .. but im going to his homecoming but idunno whut to wear .. obviously ik a dress but i dont wanna be liek too dressed up but not dressed up enough. because if hes wearing liek a tux and im just wearing a skirt or im wearing liek this gown and him to wear liek normal clothes. idunno iwould feel gayy. =) thnxz i rate high

ohhh sweetie..
if its homecoming.. ask him or someone if its the fancy kind of dress up! you know? but sometimes homecoming isnt that dressy so it all depends on his school, just ask him.. Or
wear something that looks casual but sultry at the same time!

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How can I get a boyfriend? I'm really shy and don't make friends easily, but I am ready to date and would like to get closer to some guys. I'm going to be 16 in about a month, and I hadnt dated because it hadnt really interested me. Now I am getting more interested and want to find out how I can at least get some sort of relationship with a guy!

Thanks in advance for any help!

Well if your looking for love, that makes it so much harder to find. believe me..
It doesnt matter how old you are.. and relationships take alot of time.
Its good to be really good friends with a guy before dating or whatever..
If you want to just be friends with a guy, talk to them,.. and just its better if you guys are interested in the same things too.

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Hi, I have the VS Sassoon hair straightener with a gold plate on it. When I do straighten my hair, it just smells soo bad right after, like my hair is burned. (I straighten my hair after a get out of the shower and blow dry it, so its clean) My hair is completely dry when I streighten it. If i buy a CERAMIC hair straigthener, will that make a difference in the smell? Are they expensive - if you have one, please say if you would reccommend it. THanks!

If you want to buy a new hair straightner.. make sure it has things in it like bristles that will actually straighten your hair.
Flat irons/straighters just flatten your hair the same as it was before..
But basicly the reallly good ones are expensive, but its worth it.

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so i have an essay on stars and constellations. can someone please help me with this because i SUCK at science.. okay heres the question

if it were possible to send an unmanned spaceship to a nearby star, what kind of telescope would you use and what constellations and stars would you try to observe. propose a hypothesis and reseach study. what facts would you want to know about constellations and its stars?

PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE YOU 5'S!!

Sweetie..
what you really need to do.,.
is find information on it.
See theres the hubble teleschope (sp?) but.. google it,,. search that question on google.
Or ask your teacher?

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theres this boy and he liked me last year and asked me out.i told him i was taken but i would still like to talk to him.i broke up with my boyfriend over the summer and he knew about it.then he agian asked to go with me.i told him that i see him more s a friend.now is the new school year and my friend Diane thinks this boy is kinda ugly.i dint think he's ugly and neither do my friend Brittany.now i kinda like him and he's is still trying to go with me.even though looks arent important to me at all i dont want my friend Diane saying shit about him or me. should i just forget her and go for it or do you think a friends opinion is important

Tell your friend how you feel about it..
because she shouldnt trash talk anyone.
Also tell her, what comes around goes around.
karama has its ways. So dont worry.

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What do you do when a person wants to hang out with you all the time? thanks

Well if its like too much hanging out.. then tell them. Be nice about it say you need some space.
Mmm?

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ok so i have this s.s. project and we have to be certain ppl and i am stuck w/ Vasco da Gama! I don't need to wear like an over the top costume just sumthin that shows a little bit of who he was. i know this is the gayest question but plz help!
I need help on what i should wear!
plus the kid i like is in this class
plz help me
thank you so much!
~*i rate*~

Honsetly it doesnt matter if the kid you like is in yoru class you wont make a fool because if everyone has to do this.. But yeah try searching google to see what he wears.

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Okay Theres A Guy I really like but The thing is he lives in Michigan and I live in tennesee And every day i am wanting him beside me by my side.I cant Get over him no matter how hard I try. I am in love and I know I am. Ive neveR felt ThiS kindA love when I do talk to him.Hes Always has beenthere for me and had soothed me through thick n thin. Im just so depressed cuz we live so far away and its just not fair to me . I keep missing him everyday.I donT know how to control myself I Justdont know How I can ever stop thinkin about Him .What Can Ii do To not think about him so much
!? _love glaze

Well.. first question do you know him in real life? or from online? Because that has a big influence on how I'm going to answer this. Well I havent been how might i say this.. "in love" where fireworks and viloins and where life is pure bliss. Nope thats not for me yet. But I can tell you that everything happens for a reason. It may not be a good reason but life happens. Well maybe when you guys can drive or are old enough to see each other -unless you are. Visit each other. But dont do that if you met online. Its not safe at all. If you feel you know him well enough consider calling on the phone, or writing each other. But ifyour not going out.. and dating its all right for you to see other people. Because I'm sure at your school you have a crush on somone.
Hope I helped.

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Kayla, if your a virgin these days your considered to be a prude loser who has never touched another human being of the opposite sex in their LIFE. And im only 13 in the 8th grade! Im just not ready for that. I don't want to be the one who's called a prude loser! I've made out and stuff, but im just not ready to go that far. My LUVER, lol, said "If you really loved me, you would have sex with me." I really do love him. More than anything. But, i'm not comfterable with my body, i'm not comfterable with my age, & i dont want an STD or to get pregnant. But when I think about it, if he REALLY loved me, he would understand that im not ready and make the sacrifice of not having sex yet. So Kayla, what do I do? Is my decision wise? & how do I show my love for him in other ways besides sex? :oOo Thanks.

Um 1. I'm christian and I will not have sex before I'm married. its better that way and safer. Sure your boyfriend said well ifyou erally love me you will have sex with me, thats just something he says to TRY tomakeyou its a guilt trick - Yes you do really love him obviously but heck your in 8th grade thats a really dumb age to do something like that, and also most realtionships that young wont last that long sorry to say. Its just even though you think your in "love" you may be. But I highly doubt hes the one your going to be spending the rest ofyour life with. You should tell him "If you really love me, youwill respect the way I feel and not ask me to do something against my will." And I also have morals. I hope you do to. If your bf still hassles you tell him there are so many things that could happen; you getting pregnet, or stds for the both ofyou. Yes your decision is wise. Hugging/kissing/makingout/Cuddling/hangingout etc is other ways to showyour love, just caring for them and stuff is how you show love. You dont need sex to be happy. You guys are too young anyways and once you did it you would be too uncomfortable around each other and it would feel awkward. Ok - hope I helped.

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I have a friend thats a girl (im a guy) and ive been kinda attracted to her. Today i found out shes bisexual and i know it means she like both guys and girls, but do you think shes bi because she likes girls more? It kind of to me by suprise because she used to like my friend. well hmm, this isnt really a question but what do u think i should do about it, like ignore it, or like iunno, im just confused, what would u do?

I think shes Bi probably because she wants to expeierence what it would be like to b with girls and guys. Well she may have liked your friend but since shes Bi you wouldnt know unless she told you that. Well Im' not fond of gay or bi people that much but I mean the people themselfs arent bad its just I dont know what goes on inside their heads you know? but dont ignore her or what she told you, because if she told you this she must trust you. What I would do is if I liked a guy who liked guys and girls I think I would let it be, and find someone else or tell him how I felt and see what he thinks. Give her some time though.
Hope I helped.

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I dont know what to do I feel like cutting, I want to die. I don't know why I feel this way but I do. I feel heartbroken yet I just dont know. A friend had some good advice should I listen to it or no? I guess thats why I'm here asking.

From: I wanna end it all now!!!

Dont cut, thats the first thing. It does no good to yourself or to your emotions.. It leaves scars and it hurts. YesI know one of the points of cutting is because you focus on the physical pain not the emotional. But after awhile you'll go numb, and you will get to the point where you wont feel.. thats not good. If yourheart broken..talk to a friend dont cut yourself. self inflictingpain is the worst.It depends on what kind of advice your friend is giving..

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do you do these cuz I think I like someone online and i dunno wut 2 do

Yes I will answer these kind of questions. =]
Okay online dating..Id say isnt the best way at all to look for a realtionship. Because you never can be positive who theperson your talking to. If you like the person alot, maybe MAYBE talk on the phone.. if you've known them for a LONG time. I've talked to people I've known on the computer for a while on the phone.But yeah, be careful..

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How should I transform my harddrive motherboard to my migileptor fashizmaniz floppy disk?

Um be smart :D

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