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Okay, here's my problem. My one friend is just a very clingy person. She tends to become best friends with people, and then they stop. This happened before with her one friend. They were best friends, and then they spent too much time together, then they started fighting alot and, stopped. Now it's me. Well the problem is.. she keeps trying to become friends ( who don't like her too much =/ ) with my friends and whenever i try doing things with them, she always finds out and wants to join us. So I can't ever do anything iwthout her there. And I just spent ALL summer ( literally.. like, everyday cause I can't tell her no =/ ) at her house. So I already saw enough of her during hte summer, and this year I want to spend alot of time with friends and stuff and she makes it really hard. Like today, I made plans with my 2 friends ( one is starting to become friends with her ) to go to the mall... and then later that day, my one friend ( whose kinda friends with her and doesn't know about my frustrations with the clingy friend ) walks up to me and is like," Hey, is it okay if ___ comes with us?" and i kinda just didn't say anything. ( in my head I was goin' NUTS ) I mean I don't know what to do. I want this girl to be my friend, but I want to hang out with my other friends, without her. HELP!
Love,
Me
p.s. Sorry if all the "friends" were confusing.. I didn't know what kinda fake names to give em'. lol
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Hang out with her a little bit, but if you already have something planned, tell her she'll have to wait til next time. Just make sure she understands you need to have one-on-one time with your other friends too. If she can't handle that, she'll move on. If she wants to fight, let it be a one-sided fight.
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ohh myy..
well I really think you should try to talk to her..
either way you tell her to stop inviting herself.. its going to hurt her,
but she needs to learn.
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