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Virginity issues and peer pressure... :S
Kayla, if your a virgin these days your considered to be a prude loser who has never touched another human being of the opposite sex in their LIFE. And im only 13 in the 8th grade! Im just not ready for that. I don't want to be the one who's called a prude loser! I've made out and stuff, but im just not ready to go that far. My LUVER, lol, said "If you really loved me, you would have sex with me." I really do love him. More than anything. But, i'm not comfterable with my body, i'm not comfterable with my age, & i dont want an STD or to get pregnant. But when I think about it, if he REALLY loved me, he would understand that im not ready and make the sacrifice of not having sex yet. So Kayla, what do I do? Is my decision wise? & how do I show my love for him in other ways besides sex? :oOo Thanks. <3
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Um 1. I'm christian and I will not have sex before I'm married. its better that way and safer. Sure your boyfriend said well ifyou erally love me you will have sex with me, thats just something he says to TRY tomakeyou its a guilt trick - Yes you do really love him obviously but heck your in 8th grade thats a really dumb age to do something like that, and also most realtionships that young wont last that long sorry to say. Its just even though you think your in "love" you may be. But I highly doubt hes the one your going to be spending the rest ofyour life with. You should tell him "If you really love me, youwill respect the way I feel and not ask me to do something against my will." And I also have morals. I hope you do to. If your bf still hassles you tell him there are so many things that could happen; you getting pregnet, or stds for the both ofyou. Yes your decision is wise. Hugging/kissing/makingout/Cuddling/hangingout etc is other ways to showyour love, just caring for them and stuff is how you show love. You dont need sex to be happy. You guys are too young anyways and once you did it you would be too uncomfortable around each other and it would feel awkward. Ok - hope I helped.
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