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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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What does "pop your cherry" mean? Like I know it has something to do with a hymen...what I'm not exactly sure what a hymen is!! Like does it just happen when you put something...up there? Does it hurt? Like what IS it? And is that a way someone can tell if your a virgin or not?? and i rate.
The Hymen is a thin membrane that partially covers the vaginal entrance of most females at birth; although an intact hymen is sometimes erroneously thought to prove virginity, it can actually be broken by many activities besides intercourse, such as; riding a bike, inserting a tampon, horse back riding, getting fingered, etc. Many people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is not. It's part of the vulva, the external genital organs. It's located outside the vagina.
For more information, hun, you can just check out the following website (I'm sure it'll answer any type of questions you may have!): http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm ♥
How do you get the google search bars to be on your Advicenators page? Like a code or something?
I RATE! thanks in advance
[ search ] 'YOUR TEXT GOES HERE' [ / search ] But, just remove the spaces. ♥
okay! ahh! so i haven't kissed anyone before. and so one day this weekend the guy i like and me are going to make out. i'm scared, is there anything i can do to prepare? but like eh, how do you? and does it REALLY come naturally?
any tips are great :)
I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥
ok.soo i had sex kinda not for long at all or nothing.first time,no condom.besides noo period what would be first signs of b/n pregant just in case.
Pregnancy symptoms differ from woman to woman and pregnancy to pregnancy; however, one of the most significant pregnancy symptoms is a delayed or missed menstrual cycle. Understanding pregnancy symptoms is important because each symptom may be related to something other than pregnancy. Some women experience pregnancy symptoms within a week of conception. For other women, symptoms may develop over a few weeks or may not be present at all. Below is a listing of some of the most common pregnancy symptoms.
Some Symptoms:
-- Not getting your period.
-- Swollen/tender breasts.
-- Nausea/morning sickness.
-- Backaches.
-- Headaches.
-- Frequent Urination.
-- Darkening of areolas.
-- Food Cravings.
For more information, just go to http://www.google.com or http://www.yahoo.com and search up 'Symptoms Of Pregnancy', you'll find tons of stuff on this topic. ♥
What do you think is the average age to get your first kiss?
I don't think there's an actual age to get your first kiss, it's different for everyone. Some people get their first kiss at the age of 11, while others only get it when they're 18+. I guess it all depends on the person. ♥
i was wondering if there is any way to see who has viewed your aim profile WITHOUT them having to click something or a link. thank you!!
Nope, sorry. There's no way you can find this out. ♥
haha so yeah tomorrow i'm making out with this guy that likes me, and i like him, and i'm really excited BUT I've never made out with anyone, let alone kiss him, and i'm soo nervous and anxious and stuff. like.. what if just freeze andi don't know what to do (that happened to my friend) and... ahh! anyone help? cause i'm really nervous :( lol and how do i start it?
any help is great
thank youuuuu
I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing ♥
okay i asked what ne-yos new song was called but i wasnt talking about so sick its about his girlfriend cheating on him and its got another rapper in the song ?
Ne-Yo & Ghostface - Get Down Like That. ♥
how many oz of water are we suppost to drink every day
You're suppose to drunk at least 8 cups of water a day. Personally, I hate water, I never drink it and I'm doing fine. I think that's just a myth. ;) ♥
ok i have a friend from school that have lied to me and she told me the truth like yesterday and shes my best friend i don't want to loose her if she keeps lying to me. What should i do?
This really depends on what kind of lie she told you. I know that all lies are bad, but some are just worst this others, y'know? If this is a huge lie that really hurt your feelings, tell her so. Explain how you are feeling about this and ask her to never lie to you again. Friends don't lie to friends, they're always truthful, no matter what. If she decides to lie to you again, you better think about if she is your real friend or not. ♥
hey!! ok, i really need help. I like this guy. ALOT. and my friends said that he probably likes me because he stares at me sometimes and gives weird signs that he likes me. The Problem: I have never talked to him. He is VERY shy so he won't talk to me, but i'm shy also. I want to talk to him but i dont want to be ackward and i want to maybe even become friends with him. I just want to get to know him, and become closer to him but i dont want him to think im weird. please help me, what can i do?
thanks ♥
Since you're shy, that might stand in your way just a little bit. However, I do have a great site that'll maybe let you come out of your shyness. I highly suggest looking at this website; http://www.shakeyourshyness.com/Tips.HTM I'm pretty sure it'll help you out, a lot. It's not going to work, just like that. You should be able to work on this shyness stuff, though. Then when you're do see him, you'll be comfortable around him and will be able to talk, without being shy.
As for him being shy, of course he's going to be shy around the girl he is crushing on. But, once he get's talking to you and more comfortable with you around, he'll be able to be himself. You just have to give it a little time and some work. But, he will come around, I'm sure of it.
I suggest getting a group together; your friends and his friends. This way you'll both be comfortable since you guys have your friends around. That way, you'll be able to act yourselfs and not be so shy around one another. ♥
hey!! im 14 and a female ... so the deal is that an ex-boyfriend of mine found me on myspace and we started talking like catching up with whats been going on ... and im starting to feel like i may still have feelings for him but the thing is that we live in differnt states and we havent talked in like two years but i feel like nothings has changed between us ... but i dont think i should feel this way ... he says he feels like he made amistake by breaing up with me before and i really loved him then so i dont know what to do ??
I think you guys should keep talking and it's not bad to still have feelings for him. Nothing is wrong with it, it's good, especially when he has feelings for you, too. Best thing to do would be to stay friends and just keep talking like you are now. If you want you could try to get a relationship going, but you are living in different states and that might be a little hard. But, you never know, it could work. If this is really meant to be, he'll find a way back to you. ♥
Hey does anyone know if bambi is a girl or a boy?
Just wondering, it has to do with a school thing.
Bambi is a boy. ♥
What are good songz to work out too???
Hermes House Band - Country Roads.
DJ Sammy - Heaven.
Dan Balan & Lucas Prata - Ma Ya Hi.
Axel F - Crazy Frog.
Hermes House Band & DJ Itzi - Live Is Life.
Darude - Sand Storm.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
DJ Aligator - Blow My Whistle Bitch.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.
Mobb Deep, 50 Cent & Nate Dogg - Have A Party.
Daddy Yankee - Rompe.
Rihanna - SOS.
I hope this helps you out. ♥
Okay, so there's this guy I like. He's one of the nicest guys I've ever met and we get along great. I've liked him for a really long time. The thing is, though, we are good friends and I'm afraid to tell him that I like him. I'm thinking if I tell him, he might not feel the same way and things would be awkward between us, and we wouldn't be as good friends as we are right now. But, maybe I should tell him, because he does seem like he likes me sometimes, and plus, he's single right now and if i don't tell him, he could go out with someone else and I'd feel like I missed my opportunity to tell him .. I'm not sure what to do, and plus in a few days I'm spending time with him, and idk if I should hint to him that I like him, or just stick with being friends with him. What do you think ? Thanks. =)
I think you should totally start hinting that you have feelings for him. Maybe he'll get the idea that you are liking him and you won't even have to tell him. But, seriously I think you should tell him. You might be missing out on something really special, so why not give it a chance and tell him? That's what life is about, taking risks. So, go for it, hun. If you don't tell him, you might regret it later on in life. ♥
do you guys think lockin arms with a guy would be considered as cheating on your boyfriend. when the guy you are locking arms with is only a friend?
No, I wouldn't say that's cheating. He's just acting friendly towards this person. I considered cheating to be anything sexual and that goes for kissing, too. But, cheating for you could be different then what I think it is and that's fine. ♥
so i just started shaveing "down there" and it never comes out like a good clean shave is there anything i could do to make it softer skin and get all the hair?
When you're shaving 'down there', make sure everytime you do shave, you use a new razor. Make sure you shave with a lot of soap and water and/or shaving jell. You should always shave towards your hairs, (or the way they're growing.)
Once you're done shaving, be sure to put on some cream. (It'll help out with any redness you may have.) ♥
I'm planning a party for my friends- guys and girls- and there's going to be dancing. Like you would dance at an actual school dance. Could anyone give me some really good slow and fast songs? That would be great. I need a ton. Thanks in advance. ♥
Jess
Slow Songs:
Lifehouse - Hanging By A Moment.
Starting Line - Last Impressions.
Areosmith - Angel.
Goo Goo Dolls - Iris.
Keith Urban - Making Memories Of Us.
The Afters - Beautiful Love.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Young Rome & Marques Houston - For Your Love.
Rascal Flatts - God Bless The Broken Road.
Josh Kelley - Home To Me.
Death Cab For Cutie - Passengers Seat.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwithu.
Lifehouse - You And Me.
Shawn Desman - Butterflies.
Dallas Green - Caseys Song.
Howie Day - Collide.
Chingy & Janet Jackson - Don't Worry.
Rex Goudie - You Alone.
Dance Songs:
Hermes House Band - Country Roads.
DJ Sammy - Heaven.
Dan Balan & Lucas Prata - Ma Ya Hi.
Axel F - Crazy Frog.
Hermes House Band & DJ Itzi - Live Is Life.
Darude - Sand Storm.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
DJ Aligator - Blow My Whistle Bitch.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.
Mobb Deep, 50 Cent & Nate Dogg - Have A Party.
Daddy Yankee - Rompe.
I hope this helps you out. ♥
as a last minute addition to my boyfriend's gifts.. i'm going to make him a mix of love songs.
any good r&b love songs?
Massari - Real Love.
Chingy & Janet Jackson - Don't Worry.
Carl Henry & Jr Writer - Perfect.
50 Cent - 21 Questions.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Mario - Let Me Love You.
Moka Only - Once Again.
Young Rome & Marques Houston - For Your Love.
Sisqo - Incomplete.
Also, you should check out some songs by the following artists:
-- Jagged Edge.
-- 112.
-- Tyrese
-- Genuwine.
-- Usher.
-- B2K.
-- Marques Houston.
They have tons of love songs that are really cute. ♥
Hi I am 18 and my girlfriend is 15. She is probably pregnant. Think i could get in trouble?
I THINK there is a possibly that you MIGHT get into some trouble, since your girlfriend is a minor. I'm not too sure about this, though. You might want to ask around. ♥