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crrraaapppp kissing. tomorrow.
haha so yeah tomorrow i'm making out with this guy that likes me, and i like him, and i'm really excited BUT I've never made out with anyone, let alone kiss him, and i'm soo nervous and anxious and stuff. like.. what if just freeze andi don't know what to do (that happened to my friend) and... ahh! anyone help? cause i'm really nervous :( lol and how do i start it?
any help is great
thank youuuuu <3
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I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.
I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.
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just go with the flow.
it just happens.
remember the first kiss isnt normally good.
it just happens.
so go with it.
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First kisses are TERRIFYING!! (So terrifying I was 17 before I got my first kiss! but that's beside the point!)
Usually, if you really like someone, it just comes very naturally. All you need to do is see where he's going and then fit in. Then when you're in the lip-lock stage, as I call it, you move your lips and head in a similar way to how he does. It's very difficult to explain but basically, wherever his lips move, yours move too.
The only occasionally difficult part is when tongues get involved. You can use a little bit of tongue so that when you kiss him, you're almost slightly licking his bottom lip at the same time, or you can go for the scary french-kiss tongue, where one or other of you have your tongue in the other's mouth. This isn't too hard as long as you get the tongue movement right and remember to swallow first! Remember to use your tongue slowly and rather than run it all inside his mouth, just literally poke it and out a couple of times, so that it rubs against his tongue a little.
Most of all you HAVE to remember to relax. The problem with kissing is that people always put too much thought into a first kiss. What you need to focus on most is that he likes you and you like him and it's something you both want to do. You can't expect it to be great to begin with because you'll both be nervous. If anything happens, you laugh it off, try again and hopefully get better with the experience.
Just relax into it and most all, enjoy it!
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hey well let him start it. then just go with the flow. dont just go for the tounge action adn stick your tngue downhis throat. cait ♥
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Start of kissing..suck on his lower lip. Then let go and just rest your lips on his if he starts to kiss you deeper, go for it and follow him. You could push your tongue into his mouth then he pushes his tongue into your mouth. It's kind of like a game. Just relax and have fun.
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