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I'm in college. I pay attention in class and review my notes once after class and once every day. If I don't start studying for tests until 2 days before test day, what grades do you think I would get?
My goal is just to not fail any classes and to avoid D's as much as I can. (link)
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I wouldn't count on studying two days before the test.. because i did that and well lets just say i set myself up for failure.. its better to give yourself a week and study.. then to procrastinate at the last minute two days before the test.
some study tips: maybe make up index cards or type up your notes from the day of class.
-Bess
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ok, well i was thinking there might be subliminal messages in kingdom hearts just because it was based on disney, and they helped in the creatiion, so you know the theme song to kingdom hearts 2? well i dont got the game but i got kingdom hearts 1 and well, i downloaded "passion" from utada hikaru, the singer of the theme song for kingdom hearts 1 and 2. i can not stop listening to it. try to find some place you can listen to it cause it does sound like a subliminal message during backmasking, but i think they r just trying to add effect. but i can not stop listening to this song!i was even listening to a green day song so i wont have to listen to "passion" but i stopped the green day song to listen to "passion"! that never happens! can you find out if there is a subliminal message? cause i have been googling it and people say there are but i get no evidence... if you give me advice, try to find the lyrics it is saying subliminally... now this song has japanese language and english too, so it may weird. but i need to figure this out.. oh and please dont send me the video of what they are trying to say cause eevrytime i try to listen to a song what happens is at the end they show scary stuff and it bugs me so pleeeeease try to find out what they saying and copy and paste the lyrics in here. (link)
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Here are the lyrics:
Passion - English (Translated by myfinalf8heaven)
wonk uoy naht noitceffa erom deen I
If I recall, far far away
The future was shining on everywhere
Beneath the beautiful blue sky
We were just a little afraid
The window will be tinted
A nostalgic color
If we advance forth, can we ever meet again?
The future goes on to everywhere
Beneath the large signboard
I want to keep watching the eras changing
I will open a window
To the people and places I can't see again
If I recall, far far away
The future was shining on everywhere
Beneath the beautiful blue sky
We were slumbering forever
The person I liked long ago
I heard will bear a child in winter
What were decided since long ago
I sometimes would want to doubt them
The ones I could never forget
Would the New Year's card have photographs attached?
What to us could not be done
I will think very fondly of them
(All my fears and all our lies)
Beneath the blue sky...
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so theres this boy and i got with him int he past and all and im ging to a friends house to swim with him tomorrow and we were flirting so bad tonight. like i really like him. and he was telling me about he fignered a girl and all ( we got in a weird convo) and like how he was gonna make out with me and something else. and i know hes gonna try to finger me and sutff.. and im kinda ok with it. but like .. i dont know what to excpet and what to do . and what its gonna be like (link)
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i don't want to sound mean but he sounds like a player... he sounds like that kind of guy that flirts with girls to get "something" and then when he does... he moves on and he brags to others about it.. don't you find it kind of weird how he is talking about what he did with another girl to you? if you don't feel comfortable with it don't do it. i know this is cliche but listen to your heart.
-Bess
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Ok I'm going to a party tomorrow and am being introduced to a guy. Any tips on what I should wear or how I should do my makeup/hair? I don't want to dress like a skank but I don't want to be too conservative either.
I have really long curly dark hair with red streaks (curly) but I can straighten it, really tanned skin, brown eyes, and a slighty curvy figure.
Thanks (link)
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i think you should dress the way you want to. whatever you feel comfortable in.. not sweatpants.. but like maybe a pair of jeans and a cute tank top. the point is don't dress to impress just be yourself! hope i helped!
-Bess
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how do i get rid of ants in my bathroom? i dunno where they originate. must be a hole somewhere (link)
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traps, bait, or "raid" is good! my mom has been having ant problems in her house and she jsut uses the traps and the raid and it seems to work!
-Bess
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What would yall do to prepare for the auditions of american idol? i really want to try out next year (cant this year because i wont be 16 in time) and i know that i need to lose weight and take voice lessons of some sort (never had voice lessons but im pretty good for someone who hasnt). all i know is im lost and i need help...can anyone help me out? (link)
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i auditioned this year for american idol, sadly i wasn't chosen but it was a great experience. all you need to do is practice and have two pieces of music you know really well. drink a lot of water... thats all you really need to do. good luck!
-Bess
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i heard that drinking green tea can help boost your metabolism, but how much green tea would i have to drink for this to happen? i'm 14/f (link)
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probably one cup of green tea every single day.
-Bess
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I really dread my grandparents dying. Practically every other night i cry myself to sleep because i am afraid that we will get a call the next morning saying one of my grandparents is gone. (grandparents on my mom's side the most) I see them every week, i have been seeing them a lot recently, and we are very close. I try to think about the happy times, and have fun while i am with them. I still can't keep the thoughts out of my head. Is this ok, just a girl that doesn't want to lose someone she really loves, or should i try and not be so close? i really don't want to pull apart from them. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! (link)
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i totally understand its hard losing a grandparent or anyone close for that matter. i lost my grandfather to cancer when i was 13 and its been tough. i still get upset when i think of him sometimes. i think you should just spend as much time with them as posible and think about the postive and not the negative thoughts. but if you think you need to talk to someone you should do that, maybe it would help get it off your mind. hope i helped!
-Bess
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Could someone please give me some long distance relationship tips.. he'll be driving in 6 months.. if that helps any.. We love eachother and ahve been together twice and will see eachother in less than aweek.. but yea, idk the next time we will before he gets his licence and i may start dating him soon! please hlep! (link)
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its hard being in a long distance relationship.. believe me i was in one, it was hard becaus i never saw him like ever... i might've seen him once or twice the whole time we dated. i think the key to long distance relationships is communication and trust.. if you have those two things then you're all set. best of luck!
-Bess
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there this guy that i like and i would like to get to know him better. but its summer and im not sure how i can do this without looking pushy or desprate. any ideas? i would greatley appreciate them! thank in advance! (link)
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just become friendly and maybe flirt a little bit. maybe not to give it away.. invite him to come along with some friends to maybe a movie... and just talk to himj... but don't nag him just be nice and talk to to him a bit see what he likes. good luck!
-Bess
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ok i have i boyfriend and i like him a real lott but today i saw my friends cuzzent and i thought he was cute and thinks im hott but i like my boyfriend and i feel bad i fell like im cheeting on him because i sorda started flurting with her cuzzent now i feel so bad what should i do (link)
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well did you do anything? like did you kiss your friend? i mean flirting your friend isn't anything to be ashamed of.. i have a friend i flirt with all the time... and my boyfriend doesn't mind.. he knows i care about him... so as long as its friendly flirting and your not actually cheating on him then your ok.
-Bess
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Ok, well I had this boyfriend for a few months. He was my perfect guy, the type I've always dreamed about, my dream guy. In that amount of time, we went through alot together and I came as close to loving him as I've come to anyone ever (you know, in that way). Well, a whole lot of crap happened and he broke up with me and I still miss him like every day. I've been out and about alot and my girls have been like wicked supportive but it's been a few weeks and I still cry about it every day. I can't stop thinking about him or anything and I feel pathetic. So how can I get up and move past him? (link)
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its hard, its easier for people to be like oh get over him he's not worth it anyway. just realize that you can do better and involve yourself in new things and don't think about him as much. i know thats easier said then done. but your doing good by hanging out with friends... remember they are always there to lend you a helping hand. just hang out with friends... have a girl's night out to take your mind off things. maybe get back on the dating scene! good luck!
-Bess
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Ok my mom and brother argue all the time and my brother hates my mom alot and my mom never did anything to him, she just doesn't let him get away with anything, and my brother get's so mad and breaks things, and all the fighting makes everyone sad and upset, and every weekend my mom goes out with her friends and doesn't come home until morning, how can i get are family to get along.................Please Heeeeeeeeeeelp. (link)
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well maybe suggest some family time or maybe some fmaily therapy. good luck!
-Bess
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I know that when you are younger. Guys tease girls if they like them. Is it still the same way in your upper teens.? (link)
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of course... because the boys don't know how to get our attention so they try and put attention on them by acting like little boys! hahaha.
-Bess
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the guy i like likes my best friend who knows i like the guy HELP!!! (link)
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well have you talked to the guy about how you feel? see what he says i say you tel him now before its too late! but have you also talked to your friend about how he likes her? does she even know? talk to her first and see whats going on, i mean make sure sure she doesn't have a thing for him you know? good luck!
-Bess
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I believe I have OCD. I was reading online to look up some symptoms and I seem to meet them all. I am 14/ f and I was wondering how I should bring it up with my mom. I am going to the doctors on Monday for a physical so I can play sports so how should I ask my mom to bring it up? (link)
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if you feel it to be necessary i would consult my doctor about it. its nothing to be ashamed of. good luck!
-Bess
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my one friend wants to help me with my imperfections..i mean she hasn't said it but i know she wants to.so should i be offended? or should i think its nice? (link)
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its nice but at the same time, she has to do it in a way that makes you comfortable. don't change for her, whatever you feel comfortable then be who you are. but its a nice gesture just be sure she is nice about it. good luck!
-Bess
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okay well i have a few really close friends . and i had alot of other close friends but then they started spreading rumors about me and it just got really annoying and they would always try to b***h me out during lunch and im a really sensitive person so i wouldnt fight back i just cried and walked away . i was really close to my school counselor about this because i would always go up there and just talk about my problems and sometimes when it got to be really bad she would bring it up with the house principle and he would talk to the girls that started this stuff and they never stopped . and they would send me threatening text messages . what do i do? those girls got everyone mad at me . really i have like 5 close girlfriends and the rest are guys (link)
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i would ignore them their not worth your time! good luck!
-Bess
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OKAY, here it goes...! K, i fell down the stairs at my school last week, on Monday. I dont think i really broke or sprained anything, but i hit my head really hard on the tile floor, and the stairs( i was at the top and fell to the bottom). Now, almost a week later, i feel lightheaded, and dizzy... is it from the fall? should i consult my doctor?! (link)
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i would take it easy and rest up.. and i would definitely call a doctor right away! hope you feel better!
-Bess
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okay so i am known as the BIGGEST slut in my whole entire school . well thats waht i have heard. like theres a group of kids that are calling me a slut and saying i got fingered and gave a bunch of guys blowjobs . its really getting on my nerves because i havent done that . i have made out with only THREE guys . and most of them have lost their virginity . how can i prove that im not a lsut? (link)
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i can relate to this, you see if you give in to what their saying its only going to make them tease you more and more about how your this big "slut". i think if you know who you are and what you do then its fine. don't care what they think about you. and if they continue then i would just ignore them totally and eventually they will get the picture to just leave you alone. good luck!
-Bess
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