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My family doesn't get along
Ok my mom and brother argue all the time and my brother hates my mom alot and my mom never did anything to him, she just doesn't let him get away with anything, and my brother get's so mad and breaks things, and all the fighting makes everyone sad and upset, and every weekend my mom goes out with her friends and doesn't come home until morning, how can i get are family to get along.................Please Heeeeeeeeeeelp.
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she doesnt let him get away with things because she knows how some guys are maybe you and your brother should talk to you mom and setting different rules like if you have a 10 dollar allowence and he only has 5 maybe she should rase it up to 10 and you are in the middle im like that also sometimes with my mom and my sister maybe he has alot of stress ask him if anything at school bothers him and talk to him about it and help your family out about it
because violence isnt the answer just talk it out if your brother doesnt want to talk just talk to your mom just you and your mom about it
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You are just kind of stuck in the middle and that really sucks!
The best I think you can do to help is to talk to them and let them know how much their fighting and arguing affects you. Maybe trying to work it out as a family will help, or maybe as a family you can decide what other steps to take to work through these hard times.
It seems as though your brother may have other issues bothering him than not being able to get away with stuff, because seems he's a pretty angry guy.
It could be that something's going on with him in his life that has him upset and he takes it out on your mom because she's a more convenient person to take it out on.
Either way, there isn't a way for you to solve these problems on your own, and it isn't fair for you to be the only one trying to fix it.
But do let them know how much it hurts you for them to act that way. They are not the only ones affected by their behavior towards one another.
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honey there really is nothing you can do and im sorry for what going on all i cant tell you is to sit down with them and talk to them why they hate eachother or if that dosent work then have them go to a counsler or some body who can stop the maddness hope it works!:)
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well maybe suggest some family time or maybe some fmaily therapy. good luck!
-Bess
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I see this every day with my work what you need to realize that as hard as this is your mom needs to bring your family together. You are the kid not the parent if the situation is getting worse and worse talk to another adult you trust in my honest opinion your brother needs to seek help to deal with his anger issues, he is taking it out on your mom because he knows that she will always love him no matter what he does. He may need to live somewhere else for a little while for him to get the help he needs, I think the best thing you can do is try talking to your mom and tell her how worried and scared you are of his temper if she does not take action talk to another adult you should not have this much stress and pressure, if you ever need to vent or need more advice please feel free to contact me.
P.S. If there is no adult that you feel safe talking to look for your local child welfare office and ask them for help this is there job and they know how to best handle any situation.
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well you can start by making a family time.
this is where you can talk about any thing you like but make sure you get an ok by all family members.
try this and get back to me
hugs and chocolate kisses
♥good luck
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Try talking to them. Sit your whole family down and have a good chat with them, let them know how you feel, and how there actions are upsetting you.
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